What do you do when you bump into a guy in your gym that you previously hooked up with?

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    Dec 06, 2011 3:42 PM GMT
    Okay this is embarrassing but I met this hot guy on grindr and I know he goes to my gym. Normally I dont shit where i eat since working out is an essential part of my life (I spent 5-6 days a week at the gym), but being the horn dog that I am, I had sex with this hot guy anyway. Now, our working out schedule are not similar so I don't see him often, but there's been a couple times now that I bumped into him. We'd say polite things like how we are doing and stuff, but I can sense some awkwardness.

    What would you guys do in this situation? Bumping into a guy on regular basis that you once let him fuck you? How should I deal with this in the future?
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    Dec 06, 2011 3:45 PM GMT
    Exchanging pleasentries are fine unless u want something more...
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    Dec 06, 2011 3:45 PM GMT
    If it was a hot encounter, I nod and then I go about my lifting. If it wasn't a very good encounter, I avert eye contact and/or simply ignore them.
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    Dec 06, 2011 5:22 PM GMT
    Pretend like I don't know them.

    So awkward.
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    Dec 06, 2011 5:29 PM GMT
    Say hello, wink and move on about your business. LOL.
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    Dec 06, 2011 5:39 PM GMT
    DOMINUS saidIf it was a hot encounter, I nod and then I go about my lifting. If it wasn't a very good encounter, I avert eye contact and/or simply ignore them.


    Or you can just nod and go about your lifting either way. I dont understand why gay men insist on acting like 12 year old girls in public, jesus fucking christ guys.
  • Latenight30

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    Dec 06, 2011 5:53 PM GMT
    You were in him? You know him pretty intimately. Be friendly as you want to be. If he is hot enough to do once, he might into a 2nd time.
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    Dec 06, 2011 5:53 PM GMT
    Chainers said
    DOMINUS saidIf it was a hot encounter, I nod and then I go about my lifting. If it wasn't a very good encounter, I avert eye contact and/or simply ignore them.


    Or you can just nod and go about your lifting either way. I dont understand why gay men insist on acting like 12 year old girls in public, jesus fucking christ guys.


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    Dec 06, 2011 5:58 PM GMT
    waimea saidOkay this is embarrassing but I met this hot guy on grindr and I know he goes to my gym. Normally I dont shit where i eat since working out is an essential part of my life (I spent 5-6 days a week at the gym), but being the horn dog that I am, I had sex with this hot guy anyway. Now, our working out schedule are not similar so I don't see him often, but there's been a couple times now that I bumped into him. We'd say polite things like how we are doing and stuff, but I can sense some awkwardness.

    What would you guys do in this situation? Bumping into a guy on regular basis that you once let him fuck you? How should I deal with this in the future?


    i'll have sex with you. we dont even have to talk. in fact, i think i would prefer that. just look pretty.
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    Dec 06, 2011 5:59 PM GMT
    This happened to me! The sex was terrible and i never got off.. The guy approached me while i was lifting and asked "Dont i know you from somewhere?" (The time of this event and the time of hook up was separated by over a year)
    I looked at him and said "I don't think so" (I damn well knew who he was)
    He then looked me up and down, repeatedly, smiled and said "I think you do"
    I looked at him and said "I think I don't"
    Still smiling ear to ear he goes "ok"
    Needless to say I changed me workout schedule
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    Dec 06, 2011 6:00 PM GMT

    Or you can just nod and go about your lifting either way. I dont understand why gay men insist on acting like 12 year old girls in public, jesus fucking christ guys.

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    Dec 06, 2011 6:02 PM GMT
    Just keep it brief and short and let him make the moves from here on out if you feel that way.
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    Dec 06, 2011 6:04 PM GMT
    Dbrad3693 saidThis happened to me! The sex was terrible and i never got off.. The guy approached me while i was lifting and asked "Dont i know you from somewhere?" (The time of this event and the time of hook up was separated by over a year)
    I looked at him and said "I don't think so" (I damn well knew who he was)
    He then looked me up and down, repeatedly, smiled and said "I think you do"
    I looked at him and said "I think I don't"
    Still smiling ear to ear he goes "ok"
    Needless to say I changed me workout schedule


    LOL!!! you should've said "gross. no." that usually does the trick.
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    Dec 06, 2011 6:06 PM GMT
    AvadaKedavra said
    waimea saidOkay this is embarrassing but I met this hot guy on grindr and I know he goes to my gym. Normally I dont shit where i eat since working out is an essential part of my life (I spent 5-6 days a week at the gym), but being the horn dog that I am, I had sex with this hot guy anyway. Now, our working out schedule are not similar so I don't see him often, but there's been a couple times now that I bumped into him. We'd say polite things like how we are doing and stuff, but I can sense some awkwardness.

    What would you guys do in this situation? Bumping into a guy on regular basis that you once let him fuck you? How should I deal with this in the future?


    i'll have sex with you. we dont even have to talk. in fact, i think i would prefer that. just look pretty.

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  • Dbrad3693

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    Dec 06, 2011 6:07 PM GMT
    Hahahaha, nah i didnt wanna be mean. He was a nice guy and all, just someone i had no interest in being with in a sexual way. But for whatever reason he didnt let it go, u know? It was like he was getting enjoyment out of the fact that it was like our " dirty little secret". And to me it wasnt that big of a deal
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    Dec 06, 2011 6:07 PM GMT
    "Hey men. . .round two?"
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    Dec 06, 2011 6:08 PM GMT
    AvadaKedavra said
    Dbrad3693 saidThis happened to me! The sex was terrible and i never got off.. The guy approached me while i was lifting and asked "Dont i know you from somewhere?" (The time of this event and the time of hook up was separated by over a year)
    I looked at him and said "I don't think so" (I damn well knew who he was)
    He then looked me up and down, repeatedly, smiled and said "I think you do"
    I looked at him and said "I think I don't"
    Still smiling ear to ear he goes "ok"
    Needless to say I changed me workout schedule


    LOL!!! you should've said "gross. no." that usually does the trick.


    Damn so mean
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    Dec 06, 2011 6:09 PM GMT
    Nod and smile.

    I wouldn't approach the guy to conversate unless I can see from his body language that he would be open to a chat at that point.
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    Dec 06, 2011 6:11 PM GMT
    JakeGHK said
    Lil Jon & The Eastside Boys saidBend over to the front touch toes back dat ass up and down and get low (get low)


    If you cant see someone in public, then you shouldnt hookup with them.


    Jesus christ gay people are so fucking stupid "If you ever meet someone in real life DONT DO ANYTHING WITH THEM GUYS!"

    And its a wonder why so many gay men bitch about being single.
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    Dec 06, 2011 6:11 PM GMT
    waimea said
    AvadaKedavra said
    Dbrad3693 saidThis happened to me! The sex was terrible and i never got off.. The guy approached me while i was lifting and asked "Dont i know you from somewhere?" (The time of this event and the time of hook up was separated by over a year)
    I looked at him and said "I don't think so" (I damn well knew who he was)
    He then looked me up and down, repeatedly, smiled and said "I think you do"
    I looked at him and said "I think I don't"
    Still smiling ear to ear he goes "ok"
    Needless to say I changed me workout schedule


    LOL!!! you should've said "gross. no." that usually does the trick.


    Damn so mean


    i was kidding.
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    Dec 06, 2011 6:16 PM GMT
    JakeGHK said
    Chainers said
    JakeGHK said
    Lil Jon & The Eastside Boys saidBend over to the front touch toes back dat ass up and down and get low (get low)


    If you cant see someone in public, then you shouldnt hookup with them.


    Jesus christ gay people are so fucking stupid "If you ever meet someone in real life DONT DO ANYTHING WITH THEM GUYS!"

    And its a wonder why so many gay men bitch about being single.


    Nuh Uh.... gays are smart.
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    You cant help that some gay guys are timid,... what do you do about this?


    You talk to people around you and man the fuck up. Its not rocket science.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Dec 06, 2011 6:24 PM GMT
    I have guys at the gym that have made comments prior, one that I made out with years ago who recently said, "God I want that ass". I kind of laughed, but he was serious. I made sure he understood that he could "want" all he
    wants...lol.. that it wasn't available.

    If the guy is reasonable, be polite and let it roll over your back, if he hits on you in an unwanted way, be clear.
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    Dec 06, 2011 6:25 PM GMT
    Wave or nod, then go about your business and concentrate on the next set of curls or whatever exercising you're focusing on.




    Chainers saidOr you can just nod and go about your lifting either way. I dont understand why gay men insist on acting like 12 year old girls in public, jesus fucking christ guys.

    AvadaKedavra saidLOL!!! you should've said "gross. no." that usually does the trick.

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    Dec 06, 2011 6:26 PM GMT
    7Famark said"Hey men. . .round two?"


    ...in the sauna in 10?
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    Dec 06, 2011 6:38 PM GMT
    This could happen anywhere - just be a real person, smile and say "hello". Unless they were a jerk, in which case, skip the 'hello' part. If they insist on bothering you when you've made it clear you're not into 'being friends' then tell them to leave you alone. If they are stalking you (prior hook-up or not), remind them of how your new boyfriend is an MMA champ and really gets off on beating the fuck out of jerks. icon_wink.gif

    I actually did that... and guess what - he leaves me the fuck alone. icon_cool.gif