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Be honest...how many straight male friends do you have?

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    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 4:01 AM GMT
    Is it me or is it hard to make straight male friends? Most of the guys around here are homophobes and think you wanna fuck all of them.
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    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 4:05 AM GMT
    countrycityboy saidIs it me or is it hard to make straight male friends? Most of the guys around here are homophobes and think you wanna fuck all of them.

    I can honestly say that I only have one straight guy friend. Everyone else is a girlfriend's boyfriend or a guy that wants to get at one of my girlfriends...

    It's not just them tho, it's also me. I mean, it's hard to talk about stuff with them. Straight guys and I don't have much in common. icon_confused.gif
  • tazzari Posts: 1882
    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 4:14 AM GMT
    Quite a few. And none of them think I want to have sex with them. Several of them tell their kids to call me "uncle". I just enjoy people who are interesting and I've kept in touch with a lot of the guys I used to coach. Lots of gay friends, too, though.
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    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 4:15 AM GMT
    3 that are close friends..

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    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 4:32 AM GMT
    All of my male friends are straight. I have a really hard time making gay friends, because most of the gay guys I've met just want to hook-up. icon_neutral.gif
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    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 4:32 AM GMT
    My best friend is straight. I have several others that are decent friends. I only have about 3 close gay friends.
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    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 4:33 AM GMT
    This. All my male friends are straight. And all of the gay guys I've met just want to bang bang! And that just makes me wanna donkey punch the fuck out of them.

    xrichx saidAll of my male friends are straight. I have a really hard time making gay friends, because most of the gay guys I've met just want to hook-up. icon_neutral.gif
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    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 4:43 AM GMT
    countrycityboy saidBe honest...how many straight male friends do you have?
    Apparently none, since the ones I do have are always being accused of acting gayer than me. icon_lol.gif
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    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 4:45 AM GMT
    All of my best friends are straight, and no, they are not homophobes and they don't think I want to sleep with them. Maybe it's just where you live?
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    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 4:45 AM GMT
    ConfederateGhost saidThis. All my male friends are straight. And all of the gay guys I've met just want to bang bang! And that just makes me wanna donkey punch the fuck out of them.

    xrichx saidAll of my male friends are straight. I have a really hard time making gay friends, because most of the gay guys I've met just want to hook-up. icon_neutral.gif


    +2. It's harder making gay friends than straight ones. So many douches around.
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    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 5:28 AM GMT
    dude all my friends are straight....wish i had gay friends.....be easier to come out more
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    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 5:32 AM GMT
    Hahahahaha.......cus that's a joke right?


    pjs1450 saiddude all my friends are straight....wish i had gay friends.....be easier to come out more
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    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 5:33 AM GMT
    None honestly. Of the small few friends I have, they mostly are girls and 1 bisexual guy.

    But like another user said, it's kind of hard for me to talk to straight guys and a lot of straight guys think you're going to hit on him and turn him gay lol

    But oh well. *shrug*
  • aj101 Posts: 1842
    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 5:34 AM GMT
    almost all my guy friends are straight. I actually have very few gay friends
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    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 5:38 AM GMT
    Kaicoyote saidNone honestly. Of the small few friends I have, they mostly are girls and 1 bisexual guy.

    But like another user said, it's kind of hard for me to talk to straight guys and a lot of straight guys think you're going to hit on him and turn him gay lol

    But oh well. *shrug*



    My straight friends get drunk and start asking me in-depth questions about gay sex.
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    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 5:44 AM GMT
    Isn't that odd? I've found myself on more than one occasion having to tell a drunk straight dude that, that's an inappropriate conversation.

    Scruffypup said
    Kaicoyote saidNone honestly. Of the small few friends I have, they mostly are girls and 1 bisexual guy.

    But like another user said, it's kind of hard for me to talk to straight guys and a lot of straight guys think you're going to hit on him and turn him gay lol

    But oh well. *shrug*



    My straight friends get drunk and start asking me in-depth questions about gay sex.
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    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 3:20 PM GMT
    Scruffypup said
    Kaicoyote saidNone honestly. Of the small few friends I have, they mostly are girls and 1 bisexual guy.

    But like another user said, it's kind of hard for me to talk to straight guys and a lot of straight guys think you're going to hit on him and turn him gay lol

    But oh well. *shrug*



    My straight friends get drunk and start asking me in-depth questions about gay sex.


    Its either this or, "Is that guy gay? What about that guy? Or that guy?"
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    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 3:24 PM GMT
    i have 3 best friends:
    1 straight
    1 loudly gay
    1 is gay(hes so sissy),but he dont want to admit!he acts homophobic believe it or not =_= it drives me crazy ..
  • tuffguyndc Posts: 4426
    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 3:27 PM GMT
    countrycityboy saidIs it me or is it hard to make straight male friends? Most of the guys around here are homophobes and think you wanna fuck all of them.
    LOL I do not think that is true here in DC. Where do you live? I think a lot of that has to do with where you live. 95% of my friends are straight. Actually it may be higher
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    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 3:28 PM GMT
    My best friend is straight. I have an entire group of straight friends who are part of my bmw enthusiast group. And then I have gay friends. I am an equal opportunity cock lover.
  • buckled Posts: 165
    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 3:28 PM GMT
    Umm... honestly none. I have tons of straight acquaintances... but as far as hanging out with them on a regular basis none... usually just chill with girls. I work with like 60 women (spa / salon) so I usually go out w/ them after work. I have no problem talking to straight guys in class / work / etc... but never really hang out with them.

    As far as gay friends... I have like one. Every time I start getting close to a cool guy they end of saying "I think I am starting to have feelings for you..." UGH!
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    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 3:28 PM GMT
    Well, in my new city where I have only lived for 2 years I have mostly gay friends. Id say there are only 3 straight guys here that I can honestly say are friends. Back up in Pa where I went to college it is the complete opposite. I only know 1 gay guy up there and have a lot of straight guy friends. I miss them a lot! It is more difficult to make any type of friend as you get older. At my age straight guys are getting married and having kids. I think the lifestyle and stage of life difference is more the reason it is difficult rather than homophobia. At least for me it seems that way.
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    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 3:32 PM GMT
    It is hard to make straight male friends from scratch. I have a number of them, but we met through work or someone else, or they aggressively pursued me so I had no reason to doubt attention was wanted. I have never figured out how to communicate "I want to get to know you" in a way that doesn't sound like "I want to get in your pants" so I don't really try.
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    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 3:36 PM GMT
    I don't have much friends- gay or straight but that is because I march to the beat of my own drums and others cant handle it
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    QUOTE Dec 07, 2011 3:36 PM GMT
    HipstimaticSV saidWell, in my new city where I have only lived for 2 years I have mostly gay friends. Id say there are only 3 straight guys here that I can honestly say are friends. Back up in Pa where I went to college it is the complete opposite. I only know 1 gay guy up there and have a lot of straight guy friends. I miss them a lot! It is more difficult to make any type of friend as you get older. At my age straight guys are getting married and having kids. I think the lifestyle and stage of life difference is more the reason it is difficult rather than homophobia. At least for me it seems that way.


    Agreed because typically a straight guy beyond a certain age who is alone in a bar or other approachable setting is likely to have some kind of issues going on. More likely to be with a woman and/or group of friends and thus hard to crack the shell. We have a cool new neighborhood bar by us and I would like to hang out there more and hopefully meet some sane local ppl, but the BF is not into that AT ALL and I feel like a creeper sitting there by myself.