Just because I don't have a six pack doesn't mean you don't have to respond to my messages!?

  • tenniskid1120...

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    Dec 07, 2011 4:13 AM GMT
    Why do they do that? Are they that shallow? I just want to talk to people I'm not a creep who just wants to j/o and trade xxx pictures no im not into that. It just really grinds my gears! Lol
  • tazzari

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    Dec 07, 2011 4:16 AM GMT
    You're not missing much, if that's all they judge you by.
  • tenniskid1120...

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    Dec 07, 2011 4:22 AM GMT
    your right... how do i get this forum onto the main page so everyone can see it?
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    Dec 07, 2011 4:25 AM GMT
    I think everyone can see it.....

    Unless they're blind.
  • tenniskid1120...

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    Dec 07, 2011 4:33 AM GMT
    oh ok cuz i don't see it on the front page lol i must be blind haha
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    Dec 07, 2011 4:34 AM GMT
    tenniskid112092 saidJust because I don't have a six pack doesn't mean you don't have to respond to my messages!?
    Yes, it does. icon_twisted.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 07, 2011 4:36 AM GMT
    Really? When you click on "All Things Gay" you don't see this thread on the first page?

    tenniskid112092 saidoh ok cuz i don't see it on the front page lol i must be blind haha
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    Dec 07, 2011 4:56 AM GMT
    tenniskid112092 saidyour right... how do i get this forum onto the main page so everyone can see it?




    I don't think there is a real person somewhere making decisions on what gets to the main page right away, but just some program automatically doing it based on key words in the title and then for the threads that don't make it right away, how much interest the thread gets to bump it to the front. I think I am going to start putting the words 'Lady Gaga' in all my thread title no matter what the topic of the thread.
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    Dec 07, 2011 4:58 AM GMT
    Why does it matter if your thread is on the front page or not? Are you that shallow?
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    Dec 07, 2011 5:01 AM GMT
    I thought this was gonna be about beer icon_sad.gif
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    Dec 07, 2011 5:01 AM GMT
    unfounded7 saidWhy does it matter if your thread is on the front page or not? Are you that shallow?

    I am.

    No, actually I'm even shallower than that
  • tenniskid1120...

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    Dec 07, 2011 5:04 AM GMT
    ok first im not shallow lol. and i dont know i just feel like if its not on the front page that no one will comment on it... and no lmao this isnt about beer hahaha
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    Dec 07, 2011 5:12 AM GMT
    What would you like us to comment on? Yes, people really are that shallow. It's been discussed many times before and it seems safe to say that most guys won't respond if you aren't their "type." There are some guys who will chat just to chat but they're not always easy to find. The forums are a good place to find guys you have something in common with, though it's become littered with sock accounts, shit-stirring trolls and petty flamewars.

    Did that help?
  • tenniskid1120...

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    Dec 07, 2011 5:18 AM GMT
    ok that was better lol i dont know i just want people to be nice im just trying to learn you know what the hell do i know about how guys act i've never been with a guy before.
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    Dec 07, 2011 5:36 AM GMT
    unfounded7 saidWhat would you like us to comment on? Yes, people really are that shallow. It's been discussed many times before and it seems safe to say that most guys won't respond if you aren't their "type." There are some guys who will chat just to chat but they're not always easy to find. The forums are a good place to find guys you have something in common with, though it's become littered with sock accounts, shit-stirring trolls and petty flamewars.

    Did that help?


    This. He's pretty much right. = /
  • FriscoJansen

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    Dec 07, 2011 5:36 AM GMT
    There will always be ups downs in your gay experiences. Don't let it get you down.
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    Dec 07, 2011 5:37 AM GMT
    tenniskid112092 saidok that was better lol i dont know i just want people to be nice im just trying to learn you know what the hell do i know about how guys act i've never been with a guy before.


    I understand how you feel. But the reality is that a lot of guys are that shallow. But just remember, not all of them are that judgmental. I've chat with a few guys who were bigger then me and they were nice so yeah, I'm sure there are others.
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    Dec 07, 2011 5:40 AM GMT
    No it didn't help...I mean I know my account is barely six months old, if even...but that's the only realjock forum I've known. So why don't you stop trying to tease people with these fantasies of yonder-days gone by icon_sad.gif we ain't living in a perfect forum and we ain't ever jedidiah.


    unfounded7 said, though it's become littered with sock accounts, shit-stirring trolls and petty flamewars.

    Did that help?
  • tenniskid1120...

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    Dec 07, 2011 5:43 AM GMT
    I know I won't let it get me down... and plus i'm not out of shape i play tennis like 4-5 days a week and during my season i play everyday and i go running. i weigh 180 and im 6'1 thats not bad for my height. compared to what i weighed earlier this year which was high 190s to low 200s so im happy with how i look.
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    Dec 07, 2011 5:47 AM GMT
    ConfederateGhost saidNo it didn't help...I mean I know my account is barely six months old, if even...but that's the only realjock forum I've known. So why don't you stop trying to tease people with these fantasies of yonder-days gone by icon_sad.gif we ain't living in a perfect forum and we ain't ever jedidiah.



    You totally missed my point. I was saying that the forums can be a good place to find people with commonalities, but even that may be hard to find with all the trolls and socks. If you thought I was trying to tease with fantasies of days gone by, that is something happening in your own mind.
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    Dec 07, 2011 6:19 AM GMT
    Joke much, Jedidiah?

    The forums can also be a good place to just come and kick back and not be so caught up in the fast-flowing nature of the River Life that's already carrying us faster than we realize to the Delta Death where we will forever be lost in the Sea of the Unknown.

    unfounded7 said
    ConfederateGhost saidNo it didn't help...I mean I know my account is barely six months old, if even...but that's the only realjock forum I've known. So why don't you stop trying to tease people with these fantasies of yonder-days gone by icon_sad.gif we ain't living in a perfect forum and we ain't ever jedidiah.



    You totally missed my point. I was saying that the forums can be a good place to find people with commonalities, but even that may be hard to find with all the trolls and socks. If you thought I was trying to tease with fantasies of days gone by, that is something happening in your own mind.
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    Dec 07, 2011 6:24 AM GMT
    be strong buddy, dont let a couple of jerks bring you down, youre a great and really nice person.icon_biggrin.gif
  • tenniskid1120...

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    Dec 07, 2011 6:32 AM GMT
    archon saidbe strong buddy, dont let a couple of jerks bring you down, youre a great and really nice person.icon_biggrin.gif


    awwwwwwwww thanks archon thats really nice icon_smile.gif you are definitely one of the nicest guys i've met on here you're awesome!
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    Dec 07, 2011 7:57 AM GMT
    unfounded7 said
    ConfederateGhost saidNo it didn't help...I mean I know my account is barely six months old, if even...but that's the only realjock forum I've known. So why don't you stop trying to tease people with these fantasies of yonder-days gone by icon_sad.gif we ain't living in a perfect forum and we ain't ever jedidiah.



    You totally missed my point. I was saying that the forums can be a good place to find people with commonalities, but even that may be hard to find with all the trolls and socks. If you thought I was trying to tease with fantasies of days gone by, that is something happening in your own mind.


    stop talking to other boys about fantasies... lol ;)
  • tenniskid1120...

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    Dec 07, 2011 5:03 PM GMT
    lol this post makes me laugh