My old fuck buddy had a std but not anymore...but having the fear he might still have it.

  • Matt2004

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    Dec 08, 2011 1:18 AM GMT
    My friend and I have been messing around than I found a guy on (a great site to meet guys!) while I was dating this guy. He got a std but it was treatable so it great that he got rid of it. Now that am not dating this guy from plentyoffish but want to go back to my old friend where we had great time messing around. My thing is I have this fear that I will get a std from him even though he doesn't have it but ..I keep having these 'what if's'

    I asked him about it last month about the std situation but he acted like he never got it. I know he is lying because he tend to act like 'never had it'

    The reason I know he had it because he left an open mail from his clinic saying he had chyamlida (not sure if he just got that) but i decided not to say anything

    anyhow the reason i want to go back to the fun we had because he is great in bed and I LOVE IT when guys moan while messing around...Some guys I know are neither takes forever to cum or try not to make a sound when having an organsm...

    But this guy, no matter how much he tries to withhold himself from having an organsm...he can't

    I love his facial and body react when he having an organsm...

    anyways...what would you do....

    find some other guy and not worry about getting it

    Or trust him and mess around with him but have that conscious for weeks until that test results come back

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    Dec 08, 2011 4:30 AM GMT
    I.. but..
  • AvadaKedavra

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    Dec 08, 2011 5:47 AM GMT
    i think youre fucked.
  • MikemikeMike

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    Dec 08, 2011 8:56 AM GMT
    AvadaKedavra saidi think youre fucked.


    Speard the love not the disease!!!!!

    Why the fuck would you want to be w someone who lied about something like that??????????????
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    Dec 08, 2011 10:08 AM GMT
    Bruh we all want to be honest and shit but thats hard for if not some, all of us...if u cant be up front with him dont expect him to be with u....this my be one of those moments u may have to look back and remember the good times...
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    Dec 08, 2011 11:23 AM GMT
    You sound like you are approaching the situation that guys you meet are clena unless you are told otherwise. Guys will lie about anything to have sex withsomeone they thinkis hot and STD's are a part of the territory. I'm very open about my sex drive and my enjoyment of physical contact with other guys, especially in groups. But I assum that every guy I am with is carrying something--this is why condoms were invented. They are not a 100% but they are pretty close. I've had three STD's in my life in spite of it, but considering the number of guys, that is next ot nothing. Any guy who plays around a lot or goes to groups settings like baths/sex clubs/gay resorts without assuming there's at least one guy with an SATD in the bunch is fooling himself. Just enjoy you bud for what it is--great sex--and if you develop symptoms it will be in the first week after exposure. Get some antibiotics and you will be fine in a day or two.
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    Dec 08, 2011 7:06 PM GMT
    So you're not going to date someone who once had tonsillitis either?

    Chlamydia is a bacterial infection, instantly curable with an antibiotic shot. It was silly of him to lie about it, but understandable given the STD stigma.

    I suggest you talk to him about it. Is he a liar, or did he just lie in this situation?
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    Dec 08, 2011 7:10 PM GMT
    Though Chlamydia is treatable and you are not going to get once its treated properly, one question you have to ask yourself is, how he got it. Is he into barebacking? If there is any chance, he might have something else and you would want to stay clear if he isn't being honest.