Life's A Bitch

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    Dec 09, 2011 9:34 AM GMT
    Or, to be a little more blunt, a down right cunt.
    But, I've learned a few ways of kicking her ass, and beating her at her own game, and decided to share my views with the world of RJ.
    Keep in mind, this is mostly based on personal opinions, experience, and what I feel to be true.
    So take what you will from it, leave what you won't. Enjoy
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    There is a silver lining.

    To everything. It’s all a matter of perspective. And not so much a “half full” perspective, but more of a “how can I make this shitty situation work?” kind of perspective. Give it a try. And keep trying until you get it right.

    It DOES get better.

    But you have to take the steps to make it get better. Anything negative just begets more negative, creating a nasty, vicious, soul eating spiral of doom. Stop being miserable, and pick yourself up off the ground already.

    Patience is a virtue.

    Things can take time to turn around, so don’t fret if it doesn’t turn out the way you want over night.

    Life waits for no one.

    While patience is great, you still have to take opportunities when they arise, or you may never get them again. So pull your thumb out of your ass, and get out there!

    You WILL make mistakez.

    It’s a part of life. The great thing is, you can usually go back and fix them. Go ahead. Get messy ;) Just don’t get killed =P

    You get in, you get out.

    As in, you make a mess, you clean it. I promise you, 99.9% of your problems, are caused by YOU. If you did NOT cause them, and they’re still around, maybe you should try to fix them, eh? No one else will do it for you. Though some might be willing to help a little, if you ask nicely ;)

    You get what you give.

    It’s a wee bit redundant, but it rings true. Put into life what you want to get out of it. Plain and simple.

    Appearances DO matter.

    Not in the sense that you need to look like a super model, but the important people in our lives (ie: employers) do base a lot on your appearance. So, try to take care of yourself, and always look your best. Besides, you never know when you might meet the boy/girl of your dreams, right?

    Surprise yourself.

    And everyone around you for that matter. Do something that’s totally out of character for you. Doesn’t matter how big or small. Change can be a great thing. And nothing sucks more than being stuck in a rut. Besides, everyone needs a little fun and/or chaos in their lives ;)

    There is no substitute for reality.


    Well, actually, there are, quite a few. But none of them are actually productive, or really count in the real world. So play your video games a little less, and interact with the real world a little more.

    Do your friends make the cut?

    As I mentioned earlier, negativity begets negativity. If you have bad friends (of any sort), bad shit is gunna keep happening. Starting to see the pattern? Don’t be afraid to cut people who have a negative impact on your life. Even if it’s just until they stop being so damn negative =P

    Challenge authority.

    Now, READ THIS ONE CAREFULLY! I do NOT mean to challenge legal authority (unless you really feel you’ve been wronged, even then, be tactful damn it!). What I mean is, challenge your OWN authority. If something doesn’t feel right to you, it probably isn’t. Beliefs can change, so adjust them accordingly.

    Haters gunna hate.

    Don’t let that stop you from being who you really are.

    The world is full of trolls.

    Evil, nasty, trolls. They’ll knock you down if you let them. Fight for what you believe is right. Even if it’s as a one man army.

    Follow your heart.

    Even if it defies logic and rationality, our intuition usually takes us where we need to be in the end. Do what FEELS right in your heart. Deep down, you know it’ll work out. If you don’t have a heart, you can always follow your liver. Or lungs. Kidneys even? Guys, I strongly suggest you don't follow your cocks. It's best to keep those under control =P

    Love.

    As corny as it sounds, love (while incredibly fucked up, and complicated) does always prevail. So, love everyone, and everything unconditionally, with your entire being (mind, body, soul, etc.). You don’t gotta buy flowers, write sonnets, or even say it. Just, love. No dry humping either =P

    We are only human.
    Imperfections are what make us perfect. It allows us to be the unique individuals that we are. They give us drive to change, and sometimes knock us down a notch or two. Embrace yourself, wholly, and be who you are, not someone you aren't.

    That is all. Tah! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 09, 2011 5:47 PM GMT
    words to live by....I need a reminder at times and you just did that......icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 09, 2011 6:09 PM GMT
    Words of wisdom, thanks for sharing.

    Life is a cunt and we all love living in it.
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    Dec 09, 2011 6:27 PM GMT
    QUIT MAKING SO MUCH FUCKING SENSE, DAMMIT!!
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    Dec 10, 2011 12:52 AM GMT
    Haha, for the few replies this one got, they were all pretty awesome.

    Thnx!

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    Dec 10, 2011 12:54 AM GMT
    Thank you.
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    Dec 10, 2011 12:58 AM GMT
    I love positive people! You sir, must be an awesome individual to know!
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    Dec 10, 2011 1:00 AM GMT
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    Dec 10, 2011 2:41 AM GMT
    Cash that check at the bank!