Gym Stalker

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    Dec 09, 2011 10:21 AM GMT
    So, fellas... what to do about the overly annoying gym stalker? Of course, if he's hot, we all know what to do. But, what about the ones who are NOT hot [most of them] who don't get a clue by realizing they will NEVER have a chance and also become obnoxious? How do you guys normally handle them?
  • MikemikeMike

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    Dec 09, 2011 10:24 AM GMT
    wear an MP3 player and a mad look on your face. Works everytime!
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    Dec 09, 2011 11:04 AM GMT
    Ha... the look of death. Got it, bro.
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    Dec 09, 2011 2:14 PM GMT
    Inform him:

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    Dec 09, 2011 2:16 PM GMT
    TotalDistraction saidSo, fellas... what to do about the overly annoying gym stalker?
    Charge them.
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    Dec 09, 2011 2:18 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    TotalDistraction saidSo, fellas... what to do about the overly annoying gym stalker?
    Charge them.


    How many volts? haha icon_twisted.gif
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    Dec 09, 2011 2:20 PM GMT
    the easiest thing to do would be to tell a manager at the gym that some dude wont leave u alone when you try to work out. its the less gay dramatic therefore unpopular way
  • HndsmKansan

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    Dec 09, 2011 2:21 PM GMT
    Absolutely ignore him... and I mean ignore him with attitude.

    You can make a statement by absolutely ignoring somebody...
    it isn't a positive thing. Maybe he will slink away....

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    Dec 09, 2011 2:24 PM GMT
    FrostedFlakes said
    paulflexes said
    TotalDistraction saidSo, fellas... what to do about the overly annoying gym stalker?
    Charge them.


    How many volts? haha icon_twisted.gif
    I don't want a Volt. I want a Volvo.
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    Dec 09, 2011 2:25 PM GMT
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    I actually have that same knife in my collection. icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 09, 2011 2:29 PM GMT
    If they're really aggressive about their stalking, like following me around especially in the locker room and showers, I make good, Irish angry eye contact and say in a very loud, clear voice "quit it." They'll get all ruffled and offended and say they weren't doing anything but it works every time.

    If it's just some harmless dude lingering around the locker room for four hours being a pervert, I just leave him alone.
  • a303guy

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    Dec 09, 2011 3:02 PM GMT
    i had a stalker a few years ago that would just come up to me and start some random, 1-sided conversation about things that had nothing to do with the gym or working out. Usually it was something political or religious. just weird. I tried the ignoring thing, and that simply didnt work.

    So finally, i snapped. i had drank a full bottle of Redline on the way to the gym, had a crappy day at the office, and all i wanted to do was lift. And Random Conversation Dude walks up and starts. I looked him in the eye, and said, rather loudly, "Do I even know you?" You coulda heard a pin drop in the gym. He paused, and as he started to form his first word, I looked him in the eye again and I said "Do not even think about speaking to me again." i turned around, and went back to my workout.

    He's still there, but he hasn't spoken to me since. I gained about 5 friends in the gym that night. Apparently, he had driven just about everyone else nuts in the gym too, and no one would say anything to him.
  • daveindenver

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    Dec 09, 2011 3:40 PM GMT
    Kurt = dragon slayer
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    Dec 09, 2011 3:43 PM GMT
    daveindenver saidKurt = dragon slayer


    haha - you're the one that inspired me!
  • Rock222

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    Dec 09, 2011 3:46 PM GMT
    I think I am his gym stalker..... :0(
  • jimjock

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    Dec 09, 2011 3:52 PM GMT
    Just in a low Slingblade tone..... "crrreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeppppppppppeeeeer"

    repeat it a few times making no eye contact... some public ridicule is effective...



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    Dec 09, 2011 3:53 PM GMT
    I find this thread depressing. It's really that awful that someone tried to talk to you? I could see if someone was leering at you in the locker room/shower but you're really going to go to the management and say "he keeps talking to me?"

    Maybe you should hire some guys with velvet ropes and walkie talkies to follow you around the gym to keep admirers away.

    I don't mean to sound so butt-hurt but maybe this person is just trying to fit in and make some friends. Not every guy (or even every gay guy) wants in your pants.
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    Dec 09, 2011 4:01 PM GMT
    Tell him to fuck off ! We had a nasty fat fuck that would hang out in the steam room trying to get a peek at some dick . And he would come up to the shower and just look at you . Finally me and some other guys put him in his place . If you don't tell them , they will never learn .

    Good luck !
  • silverfox

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    Dec 09, 2011 4:06 PM GMT
    njmeanwhile saidI find this thread depressing. It's really that awful that someone tried to talk to you? I could see if someone was leering at you in the locker room/shower but you're really going to go to the management and say "he keeps talking to me?"

    Maybe you should hire some guys with velvet ropes and walkie talkies to follow you around the gym to keep admirers away.

    I don't mean to sound so butt-hurt but maybe this person is just trying to fit in and make some friends. Not every guy (or even every gay guy) wants in your pants.


    Well it sounds to me from the OPs original post that this is more than someone just trying to talk to him. Actually, it is more off putting (to me at least) when someone doesn't talk....just leers.

    Though I think it is a bit much of the OP ("the guy will NEVER have a chance") I can understand his position.... if it is a persistent pest then it should be handled.

    PS....I don't give a "pass" to a stalker who happens to be good looking. Have you seen some of the serial killers, murderers out there? Some of them are FINE! Watch your step! icon_exclaim.gif
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    Dec 09, 2011 4:10 PM GMT
    So sick of this "He is hot its okay, He is ugly EWWWWWWWWWWW *Flaps little fairy wings and makes a stank face*" attitude.
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    Dec 09, 2011 4:12 PM GMT
    i hate gym stalkers. i thought i was safe from creeps this one time since i went really early in the morning. there is this one guy who followed me into the showers. it was pretty obvious because he was fully clothed, had gloves and tennis shoes on, no towel, had an earphone on and did not have a towel. I was like "really dude? are you seriously going to act like you came in hear to take a shower?"

    so gross. so gross.
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    Dec 09, 2011 4:14 PM GMT
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    njmeanwhile saidI find this thread depressing. It's really that awful that someone tried to talk to you? I could see if someone was leering at you in the locker room/shower but you're really going to go to the management and say "he keeps talking to me?"

    Maybe you should hire some guys with velvet ropes and walkie talkies to follow you around the gym to keep admirers away.

    I don't mean to sound so butt-hurt but maybe this person is just trying to fit in and make some friends. Not every guy (or even every gay guy) wants in your pants.


    Well it sounds to me from the OPs original post that this is more than someone just trying to talk to him. Actually, it is more off putting (to me at least) when someone doesn't talk....just leers.

    Though I think it is a bit much of the OP ("the guy will NEVER have a chance") I can understand his position.... if it is a persistent pest then it should be handled.

    PS....I don't give a "pass" to a stalker who happens to be good looking. Have you seen some of the serial killers, murderers out there? Some of them are FINE! Watch your step! icon_exclaim.gif


    I have to disagree. I say look all you want but if I'm not interested please don't come up and distract me from my workout. Now there is a difference from looking and looking with hand on dick. The second isn't ok.
  • slimnmuscly

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    Dec 09, 2011 4:26 PM GMT
    FrostedFlakes saidInform him:

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    I hope I'm not losing by telling you: Nice progress, judging from your profile pics.
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    Dec 09, 2011 4:35 PM GMT
    some old dude grabbed me in the sauna once... punched him in the face... Although it seemed like a good idea at the time I wouldn't suggest it, although it did solve the problem
  • Rock222

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    Dec 09, 2011 4:39 PM GMT
    i'm not that hot to have a stalker, but its never ok to be rude to someone, honesty is best always, if he is just talking let him know you prefer a different type guy... maybe he thinks you are inspiring to him and he wants to be like you....is he following you home? calling you? going to the places you go? he may be a nice guy, you don't have to date him


    ok the punch in the face was ok... LOL that guy went to far....