Question for the Bi guys

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    Dec 09, 2011 6:11 PM GMT
    For you RJ bi guys, I'm curious, do you hit on guys the same way you hit on girls? If not, what's different about your approach?
  • rioriz

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    Dec 09, 2011 6:59 PM GMT
    I don't hit on girls per se but just flirt. Girls definitely hit on me though. With guys I am a little more natural in my approach and ditch any stupid lines.
  • Montague

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    Dec 09, 2011 7:06 PM GMT
    I don't necessarily hit on either in full on assualt, just start casual conversation and then find out the common ground, maybe even exploit some weaknesses and insecurities ( icon_twisted.gif ), and then assault them with either a few compliments or jokingly insults every now and then, depending on how it's going..some people like it better to be insulted and you'd be surprised of the outcome too.

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    Dec 09, 2011 7:21 PM GMT
    Pretty different. The game with girls is way less direct, mostly.
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    Dec 09, 2011 7:23 PM GMT
    I used to joke (in my whoring days), I can bag a gal in 2 hours, a guy in 2 minutes. That's a big exaggeration, but the ratios are about right.
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    Dec 09, 2011 7:24 PM GMT
    With me, girls are much easier for me to approach and start a relationship with. With guys its a little harder and more work in my opinion, which is probably why I mess with more girls than guys lol
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    Dec 09, 2011 7:38 PM GMT
    rioriz saidI don't hit on girls per se but just flirt.


    What's the difference?

  • Dec 09, 2011 10:18 PM GMT
    I have basically the same approach to both. I tend to talk while looking into their eyes, and make it as obvious and possible that I'm interested in them. With girls, it takes more patience because they have more of a wall that you have to penetrate, and inhibitions that have to be lowered to make them more comfortable with you. Girls are way more tricky than guys, I find sometimes they act like they're not interested in you when they are, and vice versa. It drives me nuts, but sometimes it's fun to play along.

    Guys are more straight forward, once you express obvious interested in them, they generally respond by either reciprocating interest, or not being interested at all. Saves a lot of time.
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    Dec 09, 2011 10:21 PM GMT
    If I want a guy, I go to Grindr, Manhunt, Scruff or RealJock. If I want a girl, I go to the dog park with my dog. If I want a three-some with a girl and guy, I go to a sexaholics anonymous meeting.
  • slimnmuscly

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    Dec 09, 2011 11:30 PM GMT
    DOMINUS saidIf I want a guy, I go to Grindr, Manhunt, Scruff or RealJock. If I want a girl, I go to the dog park with my dog. If I want a three-some with a girl and guy, I go to a sexaholics anonymous meeting.


    Ha!
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    Dec 09, 2011 11:32 PM GMT
    I have a question for the Bis'; two girls and one cup or the human centipede?
  • groundcombat

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    Dec 09, 2011 11:35 PM GMT
    Here's a question for the bi guys:

    Do the girls you date/hook up with know you're bi?
  • tuffguyndc

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    Dec 09, 2011 11:43 PM GMT
    i usually approach men a little different. With women, I just introduce myself with no game. With guys its more of see if he is gay first type of thing.
  • tuffguyndc

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    Dec 09, 2011 11:48 PM GMT
    groundcombat saidHere's a question for the bi guys:

    Do the girls you date/hook up with know you're bi?
    Why would she need to know someone was bi if we are just hooking up? I think most will say they use protection when having sex with anyone.
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    Dec 09, 2011 11:49 PM GMT
    For the bi: Equally attractive man & woman for a relationship, which would you choose?
  • tuffguyndc

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    Dec 09, 2011 11:53 PM GMT
    briga saidFor the bi: Equally attractive man & woman for a relationship, which would you choose?
    whichever one i fell for.
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    Dec 10, 2011 1:00 AM GMT
    Gay bottom guys sure moan better than girls. It's a real turn on. icon_biggrin.gif