35, single, confused...

  • dan5150

    Posts: 1

    Dec 10, 2011 1:10 AM GMT
    I'm a 35 year old man, and I feel like I'm going through puberty again. First, I noticed old fantasies, I had put to rest for random personal reasons. I have always, with the exception of the 3 years in a relationship, I thought was forever, had an overwhelming desire to have a threesome with 2 other men. I could always imagine, in great detail, every moment of the act. During my last serious relationship, I never thought about it. Now after being separated for 3 years, I can't stop the fantasy. Secondly, I have noticed my sexual position, my role, all of it appears to be changing. I always thought of myself as verse, almost never bottomed.. it just always worked out that I was the top. Now I want to bottom, I want the man with the big muscles, the, as much as I hate this term,... The dady type... HELP.....
  • DesireIron

    Posts: 426

    Dec 10, 2011 2:14 AM GMT
    It just a normal psychological development in your thirties. Go check out:

    Passages: Predictable Crises of Adult Life by Gail Sheehy