What if he is passive like a tombstone??

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    Dec 10, 2011 6:13 AM GMT
    So, I'm not very experienced and it's just sort of casual encounters and I guess I'm not expecting a lot. But lying there like a stone to wait for me doing everything?? What's your advice?
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    Dec 10, 2011 6:15 AM GMT
    A dead lay?

    Time to move on

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    Dec 10, 2011 6:20 AM GMT
    FreudeFreude saidSo, I'm not very experienced and it's just sort of casual encounters and I guess I'm not expecting a lot. But lying there like a stone to wait for me doing everything?? What's your advice?


    maybe he's not experienced either? idk, maybe he was scared outta his mind if he's new 2 this.

    did u do a little experimenting w/ his body, u know kinda roam around and see his reactons? did u talk about stuff b4 hand? was there enough 4play 2 get him...going?
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    Dec 10, 2011 6:45 AM GMT
    You have to tell him what to do. You may need to use the riding crop.
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    Dec 10, 2011 4:38 PM GMT
    tailgater_3 said
    FreudeFreude saidSo, I'm not very experienced and it's just sort of casual encounters and I guess I'm not expecting a lot. But lying there like a stone to wait for me doing everything?? What's your advice?


    maybe he's not experienced either? idk, maybe he was scared outta his mind if he's new 2 this.

    did u do a little experimenting w/ his body, u know kinda roam around and see his reactons? did u talk about stuff b4 hand? was there enough 4play 2 get him...going?



    I agree. As a bottom, I can say you need to be kind and affectionate and patient. Don't put pressure on him. Give him your love and understanding and in time he will come around, so to speak icon_smile.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 10, 2011 5:20 PM GMT
    FreudeFreude saidSo, I'm not very experienced and it's just sort of casual encounters and I guess I'm not expecting a lot. But lying there like a stone to wait for me doing everything?? What's your advice?


    Communicate. Ask him what he wants you to do. If he is genuinely not going to do anything, and it's about what you're going to do to him, well now it depends on your imagination.