Hooked up with my personal trainer

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    Dec 10, 2011 11:08 PM GMT
    True story. My now personal trainer is an old friend who I just happened to hookup with one time at a party. We were both young and he soon moved away for a few years, we kinda never mentioned that one encounter.... Long story short he returned to my city a few months back... Buff with a PT diploma and a girlfriend/ fiancé.

    So he rings me up and offers he's services, hearing I was in the market for a new trainer..... Although I have access to the gym he's at, I never use it. So I agree figuring I'd be supporting an old friend but at the same time kinda felt weird given our history.

    So we train a couple times, never bring it up.... Until last week when my lower back started giving me trouble and he helped stretch it out. Me on the grass (outdoor session), on my back with this guy kinda on top of my legs looking down at me in a kinda non-professional way asking if it felt good!.... Queue awkward silence!

    Is it just my imagination? Am I reading too much into it? Is this guy even gay/ bi? Am I crossing the line by having him train me...with him being in a relationship? Should I fire him?

    He's an amazing trainer, I've learnt a lot, he pushes me and I've been getting results.
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    Dec 10, 2011 11:10 PM GMT
    Maybe you can work something out to get discounts.

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    Dec 10, 2011 11:12 PM GMT
    Get over the inhibitions and just fuck him already.
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    Dec 11, 2011 1:37 AM GMT
    AlexanderB saidMaybe you can work something out to get discounts.

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    Fuck him ! And work out a discount .
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    Dec 11, 2011 1:38 AM GMT
    i agree. no disrespect to his girl, but i'd hit it. it sounds like a really hot situation. icon_razz.gif

    paulflexes saidGet over the inhibitions and just fuck him already.
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    Dec 11, 2011 1:40 AM GMT
    Do not read into and simply treat him as your trainer. NOTHING ELSE.
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    Dec 11, 2011 1:42 AM GMT
    If he claims to be monogamous to his partner, back off.
    If they have an open relationship, do what you won't regret
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    Dec 11, 2011 1:43 AM GMT
    BLACKMAIL his ass. Ahahahaaha!!! JKJK!!! I SAID I'M FUCKING JUST KIDDING!!! icon_evil.gif
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    Dec 11, 2011 1:43 AM GMT
    Fivealive saidDo not read into and simply treat him as your trainer. a piece of meat. NOTHING ELSE.


    I wholeheartedly agree with you!
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    Dec 11, 2011 1:44 AM GMT
    Hypnotico said
    Fivealive saidDo not read into and simply treat him as your trainer. a piece of meat. NOTHING ELSE.


    I wholeheartedly agree with you!

    Esta puta de quinta of course.
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    Dec 11, 2011 1:53 AM GMT
    GYM MOTIVATION!!! Can't get enough of it.

    Not sure why you would fire him unless you're really obsessing over him over a long period of time and getting depressed. From behind my computer screen, you just want to hook up with this guy.

    Don't f*ck up a good friendship, gym, or trainer even though it isn't a gym you go to often.

    Fortunately, my trainer is too young and his GF is nice+smart+smokin'.
  • tuffguyndc

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    Dec 11, 2011 5:57 AM GMT
    I say keep it strictly platonic buddy. He has a gf and you should respect that. Now if he comes on to you and wants to hookup with you that is another story. But if he doesn't keep him as a trainer and try to keep your feelings to yourself
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    Dec 11, 2011 6:49 AM GMT
    better question: how would you feel about yourself for being the catalyst of a person cheating on his fiance? forget the fact that she's female... gender isn't important.
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    Dec 11, 2011 6:57 AM GMT
    tuffguyndc saidI say keep it strictly platonic buddy. He has a gf and you should respect that. Now if he comes on to you and wants to hookup with you that is another story. But if he doesn't keep him as a trainer and try to keep your feelings to yourself


    as a former trainer i can tell you if it happens one of two things will happen it will become a regular "thing" and nothing more, or he'll refer you to another trainer
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    Dec 11, 2011 7:02 AM GMT
    1) Score! -bro fist-
    2) Even though it's awkward I would just suck it up and deal with it. If you're satisfied, keep using him until his services become unbearable.
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    Dec 11, 2011 7:03 AM GMT
    He may just be a great trainer and wants to make sure you're working out all of your muscles.
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    Dec 11, 2011 7:06 AM GMT
    If you want drama, fuck him. If you want to avoid it you probably should have steered clear of having him train you in the first place. If you keep your boundaries loose, things will get complicated.
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    Dec 11, 2011 7:45 AM GMT
    calibro saidbetter question: how would you feel about yourself for being the catalyst of a person cheating on his fiance? forget the fact that she's female... gender isn't important.


    This
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    Dec 11, 2011 9:49 AM GMT
    Hahaha trading sex for gym time.... Classy

    I haven't been obsessing over him, and I wouldn't want to be the catalyst for his relationship ending, but who turns down a green eyed, dirty blond RIPPED trainer!!!??

    Given the opportunity NO might disappear from my vocabulary....the flesh definitely is weak, but I could never initiate even a conversation about it with him.

    I hate not knowing what's on his mind and not having some kind of closure over that hookup, which is why I'd want to end it.

    I moving quite far in a few months and was kind of waiting to use that as an excuse to stop training with him..... But he's offered to come to me a few times a month! Which trainer does that!!!
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    Dec 11, 2011 11:39 AM GMT
    HI, speaking as a PT please don't pursue this. First it will ruin his professional relationship with you and neither of you will focus on your training; you will be thinking about the next time you can jump into bed. Secondly, if ever anyone else got to know about it it will seriously damage your PT's reputation. If he makes a move and you are both content to hook up then get another PT please
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    Dec 11, 2011 12:39 PM GMT
    Durbdoc is a tease. just sayin'
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    Dec 11, 2011 12:44 PM GMT
    Trainer? Sex with a trainer? Best not have been at the gym, you should know...
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    Dec 11, 2011 1:49 PM GMT
    I detect a troll.

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    Dec 11, 2011 1:57 PM GMT
    You know, with all the talk of legalizing gay marriage I would think we'd be respectful as a community of other marriages, i.e. straight ones. 'Course the trainer's a big boy too and can make his own decision, but that doesn't mean you have to take part in it. What happened to professionalism?
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    Dec 11, 2011 2:12 PM GMT
    I hooked up with my sister's personal trainer... she didn't think it was as amusing as I did.

    It's her own fault though... if she didn't spend 2 hours on the elliptical it wouldn't have happened. icon_twisted.gif