The wandering eye...

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    Dec 11, 2011 1:46 AM GMT
    To what level should a person put up with a wandering eye from their partner? icon_rolleyes.gif

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    Dec 11, 2011 1:55 AM GMT
    AssMan123 saidTo what level should a person put up with a wandering eye from their partner? icon_rolleyes.gif




    Your partner is salaciously and lewdly ogling others? Or just admiring them?


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    Dec 11, 2011 2:22 AM GMT
    Here is an example: An ex would act like a horny construction worker when I wasn't around. (Walked out of his way to look at twinks, his head would turn and stare at guys on the side of the road when driving, and would verbally say stuff like "Damn, you are sooo fine. I would fuck you." to himself when I wasn't around).

    Unacceptable or just a guy being a guy?
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    Dec 11, 2011 2:43 AM GMT
    AssMan123 saidHere is an example: An ex would act like a horny construction worker when I wasn't around. (Walked out of his way to look at twinks, his head would turn and stare at guys on the side of the road when driving, and would verbally say stuff like "Damn, you are sooo fine. I would fuck you." to himself when I wasn't around).

    Unacceptable or just a guy being a guy?


    Hmm...he did this when you weren't around which I think must mean someone else told you he said it?

    curious,

    -Doug
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    Dec 11, 2011 4:26 AM GMT
    meninlove said
    AssMan123 saidHere is an example: An ex would act like a horny construction worker when I wasn't around. (Walked out of his way to look at twinks, his head would turn and stare at guys on the side of the road when driving, and would verbally say stuff like "Damn, you are sooo fine. I would fuck you." to himself when I wasn't around).

    Unacceptable or just a guy being a guy?


    Hmm...he did this when you weren't around which I think must mean someone else told you he said it?

    curious,

    -Doug


    Lol. Basically, be careful who you pocket-dial.
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    Dec 11, 2011 5:02 AM GMT
    AssMan123 saidHere is an example: An ex would act like a horny construction worker when I wasn't around. (Walked out of his way to look at twinks, his head would turn and stare at guys on the side of the road when driving, and would verbally say stuff like "Damn, you are sooo fine. I would fuck you." to himself when I wasn't around).

    Unacceptable or just a guy being a guy?


    I think that's unacceptable, if someone agreed to fuck with him, he would so cheat, and besides most men are horndogs, but geez, show some restraint! icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 14, 2011 7:06 PM GMT
    Unless he's walking around with a perpetual boner, drool flowing from both sides of his mouth, and following his objects of admiration like a dog in heat, I don't think there's anything wrong with your bf as long as he's discreet and doesn't put you in an embarrassing or compromising position. Just becasue he's looking doesn't necessarily mean he's intent on fucking someone else.
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    Dec 14, 2011 7:18 PM GMT
    DOMINUS saidUnless he's walking around with a perpetual boner, drool flowing from both sides of his mouth, and following his objects of admiration like a dog in heat, I don't think there's anything wrong with your bf as long as he's discreet and doesn't put you in an embarrassing or compromising position. Just becasue he's looking doesn't necessarily mean he's intent on fucking someone else.


    This. The bit about how your ex went out of his way to check out twinks is a little creepy, though.
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    Dec 15, 2011 1:05 AM GMT
    Whenever I visit my dad and we're out in public, he always catcalls at girls - usually around my age. It makes me wonder if that had something to with my parents' divorce, as well as the failure of his subsequent relationship in which he had another child and ended up leaving. It's somewhat ingrained in me to find it disgusting.

    Sure, some people "can't help" if eyes are more rootless than others, and I would prefer that my boyfriend did any ogling around me than alone by himself.

    I would carry a squirt bottle to keep him in check. Down, boy.
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    Dec 15, 2011 1:06 AM GMT
    a wandering eye is okay but if they are going up to guys and actually hitting on them then thats sort of unacceptable
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    Dec 15, 2011 1:18 AM GMT
    jerseywoof saida wandering eye is okay but if they are going up to guys and actually hitting on them then thats sort of unacceptable

    *Swoon!* Haha.
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    Dec 15, 2011 1:27 AM GMT
    men are gonna be men...he can look..but he had better not touch.
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    Dec 15, 2011 1:28 AM GMT
    AssMan123 saidTo what level should a person put up with a wandering eye from their partner? icon_rolleyes.gif



    join the club and just eye wonder with him. jus sayn were dudes, and were gona look! and keep in mind, "when the cats away, the mice will play!".
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    Dec 15, 2011 1:33 AM GMT
    When this cat is away my mouse better not play unless he wishes to lose some anatomy. Just sayin

    Looking is ok if he doesn't touch
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    Dec 15, 2011 1:35 AM GMT
    All about intent. What is he planning on doing after the comment?

    Is he pretty much being a typical male and looking around or does he act inaddition to the comments.

    He can look and comment all he wants. His eyes and his life. Who is a partner to tell him where to look and what to say? However, what he must also do is respect his partner and not compromise their integrity, health and safety. This usually being affected if his ways are acted upon in some inconsiderate manner.

    Know the boundaries, recognize the intent. This is based on the certain type of relationship you both have agreed to.
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    Dec 15, 2011 4:17 AM GMT
    likewatuc said
    jerseywoof saida wandering eye is okay but if they are going up to guys and actually hitting on them then thats sort of unacceptable

    *Swoon!* Haha.


    I am ready to forgive you for the GaGa/Madonna thread
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    Dec 15, 2011 4:24 AM GMT
    AssMan123 saidTo what level should a person put up with a wandering eye from their partner? icon_rolleyes.gif

    ha ha ha there is nothing wrong with you or your partner checking out other dudes. dude, its human nature. just because you are in a relationship does not mean there are no other good looking people out there. as long as they are not gawking at the person they are looking at then I do not have a problem with it
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    Dec 15, 2011 4:25 AM GMT
    AssMan123 saidHere is an example: An ex would act like a horny construction worker when I wasn't around. (Walked out of his way to look at twinks, his head would turn and stare at guys on the side of the road when driving, and would verbally say stuff like "Damn, you are sooo fine. I would fuck you." to himself when I wasn't around).

    Unacceptable or just a guy being a guy?
    That is definitely not acceptable behavior. I would have left him standing where he was at. When we got home I would have told him how disrespectful I felt. I think you should have a talk with him because that is totally unacceptable.
  • stratavos

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    Dec 15, 2011 4:26 AM GMT
    as stated by everyone else, "see-see no-touch" but... there's a loophole to every rule (sometimes absolute ones, and this rule too)

    like "play together"
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    Dec 15, 2011 4:26 AM GMT
    AssMan123 saidTo what level should a person put up with a wandering eye from their partner? icon_rolleyes.gif



    Look. Discuss. Touch and I'll bite your head off. icon_evil.gif
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    Dec 15, 2011 4:39 AM GMT
    Rodcet said
    AssMan123 saidTo what level should a person put up with a wandering eye from their partner? icon_rolleyes.gif



    Look. Discuss. Touch and I'll bite your head off. icon_evil.gif
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