He doesn't love me anymore

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    Dec 11, 2011 2:38 AM GMT
    I used to be in love with this fellow RJer and I don't know why he doesn't love me anymore. What should I do? Please don't tell me just to move on. icon_sad.gif
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    Dec 11, 2011 3:50 AM GMT
    move on
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    Dec 11, 2011 6:24 AM GMT
    that's stupid
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    Dec 11, 2011 2:27 PM GMT
    yes what you are feeling is very stupid
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    Dec 11, 2011 2:34 PM GMT
    Don't move on. Make it a lifelong obsession! Build a shrine to him in your closet and tape a picture of his face onto a blow-up sex doll and pretend you're married.

    Or you could move on.
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    Dec 11, 2011 2:42 PM GMT
    It's really easy to say 'just move on' and the other guys might sound sarcastic/cruel with their advice but believe me they are right.

    Life is too short for chasing after people who don't feel the same way you do. Of course any advice at this point is going to be useless because your still hooked on them.

    It's a shitty situation to be in but your feelings will change over time and then you will say to yourself 'why was I ever hung up on that piece of shit ?'

    Basically it will pass but if you stay in contact with him your just going to prolong the pain and make things so much worse for yourself.

    Maybe some closure would help but in my experience it doesn't make things any better because the end result is still the same, they don't love you.
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    Dec 11, 2011 2:45 PM GMT
    whateveryo saidIt's really easy to say 'just move on' and the other guys might sound sarcastic/cruel with their advice but believe me they are right.

    Life is too short for chasing after people who don't feel the same way you do. Of course any advice at this point is going to be useless because your still hooked on them.

    It's a shitty situation to be in but your feelings will change over time and then you will say to yourself 'why was I ever hung up on that piece of shit ?'

    Basically it will pass but if you stay in contact with him your just going to prolong the pain and make things so much worse for yourself.

    Maybe some closure would help but in my experience it doesn't make things any better because the end result is still the same, they don't love you.


    Shorter version: just move on..
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    Dec 11, 2011 2:46 PM GMT
    PikakeJasmine saidI used to be in love with this fellow RJer and I don't know why he doesn't love me anymore. What should I do? Please don't tell me just to move on. icon_sad.gif

    Unless you created a new account and were on this site previously under a different name, you have only been here for 1 day. How can you "used to be in a love" with another RJer if you just joined? Please explain.