D122022 saidDid it change the friendship, did they like it, and how did u get them to do it?
I played with a few of my str8 friends growing up and though many of our lives have taken different paths since, we get along well at reunions. Not sure how their wives feel about me.
I've one str8 friend who I played with as a young teen who is still very close, though we haven't play together since then. He did, however, on our last phone call mention a mwm three way he'd gotten into recently. The guy's totally str8 but I took that as encouraging. Just kidding. The past has passed.
Seems to me a difference between playing with friends as a young teen and "get(ting) them to do it" as a young adult. One seems more like experimenting, the other seems more like manipulating even if those of us who experimented earlier on were being manipulative too. At an earlier age-- even if the inclination was to manipulate a situation--my home was one of the party houses in town and I often had friends sleeping over, so there was plenty of opportunity which just sort of presented itself. I don't recall ever plotting and certainly I never sought out instruction.