Hothouse saidRelaxation is key - you have to be comfortable and relaxed to enjoy the feeling of a cock in your ass. If you tense up your ass muscles it won't feel as pleasureable. It is true that the more you get fucked, the better it will feel over time, but then again, some guys just don't enjoy the bottom role that much.
Agree. Plus the role of lube should not be underplayed.
Some guys simply don't have a prostate that reacts pleasurably to stimulation. That's the way I was built myself, and not a lot I can do to change that. Other guys go wild from the touch. That individual variation is normal, and a guy needs to work with what he's been given.
So maybe you're mainly a top, and like me, can still bottom when a guy really wants that, but it's not your first choice. And while it doesn't hurt, neither is it especially pleasurable physically, except in a psychological sense, to be pleasing this guy, and to think about what he's doing with you.