Sometimes I Wish I Were a Slut.

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    Dec 14, 2011 7:02 AM GMT
    It'd be nice not to care or think about sex too much. Just do it for the hell of it and the carnal enjoyment/pleasure.

    But morality binds me, and it wont let go.


    Side-note: by slutty I mean promiscuous.
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    Dec 14, 2011 7:02 AM GMT
    tequila helps

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    Dec 14, 2011 7:29 AM GMT
    likewatuc saidIt'd be nice not to care or think about sex too much. Just do it for the hell of it and the carnal enjoyment/pleasure.

    But morality binds me, and it wont let go.

    You too?

    I'd be such an awesome slut. Alas, I have a heart, and a head that I refuse to mess with beyond the thought of prospect boyfriends.
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    Dec 14, 2011 7:33 AM GMT
    It's because you're friends with sluts like me! icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 14, 2011 12:41 PM GMT
    it's admirable that you keep your morals..but,i'm not judging people who sample the variety of men..to each their own..but for me personally,i want to pick one man...and go steady with him....
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    Dec 14, 2011 1:21 PM GMT

    Fuck morals.

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    Dec 14, 2011 1:25 PM GMT
    It's never too late.
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    Dec 14, 2011 1:28 PM GMT
    You could always be a slut with standards.
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    Dec 14, 2011 2:17 PM GMT
    I don't see why you can't have the best of both worlds -- like I did in the past.

    When I was single I was like a kid in a candy store. and why not? I had no BF or other commitment. If another guy wanted sex we had sex. I didn't deceive him, I didn't lie to him or mislead him. We each got what we wanted, what a gay friend used to term "mindless sex." We were big boys and nobody got hurt, no written or unwritten rules were broken, purely a physical experience.

    And in those days, especially during out of town weekend trips, I might do 7 or 8 different guys from Friday through Sunday. My having a hotel room was a big plus.

    But during all this whoring I would meet guys who were really nice, and we might start dating. Then my sluttiness stopped. Given a choice I'd rather have one steady guy than a stream of guys. That's when my morals come out of storage, with no cheating allowed. And also my logical side deploys, because I'm not about to risk losing a guy I like both emotionally & physically, to take chances on random guys just for the physical part.

    And so I sorta viewed the slut aspect like taking test drives in cars I might want to buy, and to keep my skills fresh. But I'm not the kinda guy who buys a new car every year. I tend to hang onto my auto investment, once I've made a choice. And so it is with men, and I can go from slut one day to settled the next. I don't see a contradiction nor a challenge in doing that.
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    Dec 14, 2011 2:21 PM GMT
    I can help you get through this.
  • neosyllogy

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    Dec 14, 2011 2:51 PM GMT
    Maybe you could become an ethical slut.

    Safe and educated sex - to deal with the social responsibility of multiple partners.

    Connected and meaningful sex, even with strangers; we should all love everyone, no? - to deal with the emotional responsibility of engaging with others.

    Free, open, and honest exploration of your sexuality and self - to deal with the responsibility of developing an earnest self in a world of arbitrary pressures that try to coral us into "moral" corners that help no one.

    Just some thoughts ;)
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    Dec 14, 2011 3:15 PM GMT
    http://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Infinite-Sexual-Possibilities/dp/1890159018


    Don't know why this popped into my head. Was going to call you "Jane", but don't think you would have gotten the reference.icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 14, 2011 3:46 PM GMT
    Guy101 saidYou could always be a slut with standards.



    No Craigslist or Manhunt on Sundays!
  • stratavos

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    Dec 14, 2011 3:50 PM GMT
    Guy101 saidYou could always be a slut with standards.


    indeed, there's no problems with this, as long as those standards don't cause you to be so narrow in your focus you can't keep the monthly sex quota ;)
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    Dec 14, 2011 3:52 PM GMT
    Iceblink said
    Guy101 saidYou could always be a slut with standards.

    No Craigslist or Manhunt on Sundays!

    Iceblink: a pillar of morality. icon_cool.gif
  • tuffguyndc

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    Dec 14, 2011 3:53 PM GMT
    likewatuc saidIt'd be nice not to care or think about sex too much. Just do it for the hell of it and the carnal enjoyment/pleasure.

    But morality binds me, and it wont let go.
    so what you are saying is that you are sexually repressed and you are very judgmental of others who do have a healthy sex life? what makes a persona slut?
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    Dec 14, 2011 3:53 PM GMT
    Don't worry my friend...
    You're allowed to be slutty here, we encourage it. icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 14, 2011 4:09 PM GMT
    likewatuc saidIt'd be nice not to care or think about sex too much. Just do it for the hell of it and the carnal enjoyment/pleasure.

    But morality binds me, and it wont let go.


    I don't think guys who sleep with lots of men are immoral, it's just what they prefer. I did it for a while and for me it was a phase, for some it's a way of life and who cares? I never did get the whole tie in to "morals" and sex with different partners. icon_cool.gif
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    Dec 14, 2011 4:58 PM GMT
    Iceblink said
    Guy101 saidYou could always be a slut with standards.



    No Craigslist or Manhunt on Sundays!

    I'll admit it. I lol'd.
  • NerdLifter

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    Dec 14, 2011 5:06 PM GMT
    I cannot separate feelings and sex. Will never happen. Must be my boyfriend for sex. Else-wise, too bad.
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    Dec 14, 2011 5:07 PM GMT
    Studinprogress saidI cannot separate feelings and sex. Will never happen. Must be my boyfriend for sex. Else-wise, too bad.


    Same here.

    Sometimes I wish I could slooot it up too, but, oh well
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    Dec 14, 2011 5:08 PM GMT
    stratavos said
    Guy101 saidYou could always be a slut with standards.


    indeed, there's no problems with this, as long as those standards don't cause you to be so narrow in your focus you can't keep the monthly sex quota ;)


    You only need a quota if you have a pimp. icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 14, 2011 5:29 PM GMT
    No one is a bigger prude than meicon_confused.gif
  • buckled

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    Dec 14, 2011 5:35 PM GMT
    7Famark said
    Studinprogress saidI cannot separate feelings and sex. Will never happen. Must be my boyfriend for sex. Else-wise, too bad.


    Same here.


    This
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    Dec 14, 2011 5:39 PM GMT
    I used to think I would never separate physical and emotional intimacy.


    Then I moved to West Hollywood.


    All it takes is one try.