No good men in my town . . what should I do until then?

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    Jun 11, 2008 7:35 AM GMT
    I've long known this, but unfortunately, there are just no suitable men in my (smaller) town. I'm graduating in two weeks and moving by the end of the year (back to NYC, or CA, depending on where I'm accepted) so I'm hoping eventually I'll find more people I can relate to. Until then, what should I do? How have some of you coped with waiting for Mr. Right?
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    Jun 11, 2008 7:57 AM GMT
    Jello shots! wooo
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jun 11, 2008 8:23 AM GMT
    Stay focused on what you are doing in your life and know what you do and don't want. Don't close your mind to social activities with other men, even if you don't view them as dating material. Just don't get too serious (and why should you?) your planning on moving soon at any rate.
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    Jun 11, 2008 8:29 AM GMT
    I'm sorry, but you have no choice but to go hetero. We'll pray for your soul. :
  • GQjock

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    Jun 11, 2008 10:50 AM GMT
    Take all your sexual frustration and start a new hobby
    Take up painting... you might redo the Sistine chapel icon_wink.gif
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    Jun 11, 2008 10:54 AM GMT
    GQjock saidTake all your sexual frustration and start a new hobby
    Take up painting... you might redo the Sistine chapel icon_wink.gif


    Red! It'd look good in red.
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    Jun 11, 2008 10:55 AM GMT
    Well I waited for Mr. Right 11 years while living in the gayest city in Canada. I also came from a small city and I must admit it was frustrating. If I was young today I would likely try to meet gay guys that posted on Manhunt or Out Personals that were from my area.

    In a big city there is the opposite problem. Guys don't like to settle down thinking there will always be someone better to come along. Some of them never do find that one person due to this mindset.
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    Jun 11, 2008 11:53 AM GMT
    Im not familiar with your town, but how are do you live from a major city? You might have to do some traveling. You could either just continue what you have been doing until you leave or just pick up Mr. Right Now.
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    Jun 11, 2008 2:40 PM GMT
    Ah Mr. Right...

    I read about Mr. Right once... when i turned the page there was a WHOLE story about Unicorns!

    Neat little book on mythological beasts that was!
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    Jun 11, 2008 2:46 PM GMT
    Ahh such a good book! Warmed me up just right...especially when I threw it into the fireplace! icon_twisted.gif
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    Jun 11, 2008 2:48 PM GMT
    Sedative saidI'm sorry, but you have no choice but to go hetero. We'll pray for your soul. :<


    OK it's now time for all christian homosexuals to gather around in a circle, and hold hands and ask for the sun of good fortune to shine down on this young man. release him from his demons, and hell.

    All christian homosexuals please meet in the middle of cyberspace, and join hands now.
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    Jun 11, 2008 2:59 PM GMT
    Don't wait. Don't cope. There's more to life than the pursuit of the company of a good man.
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    Jun 11, 2008 3:05 PM GMT
    You find Mr. Right when you are not looking. I say have fun, live life and don't be surprised if you run across a unicorn. The right person will find you when you are enjoying life.
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    Jun 11, 2008 3:18 PM GMT
    DJBens77 saidYou find Mr. Right when you are not looking. I say have fun, live life and don't be surprised if you run across a unicorn. The right person will find you when you are enjoying life.


    I agree with DJBens,, That's how I met my Mr right,,, it was kinda funny how we met, his best friend sent a drink over to me and I got mad and bought the drink back and told him, if you want to get to know me, we can go for lunch or dinner some time, your not getting into my pants by buying me a drink,,,, he threw a hussy fit and left the area and left his best friend and I standing there, so we chatted and 4 months later we moved in together, and still together after 14 and a half years,,,,, So your dream man will be there when you lease expected,,, So smile allot and he will find you,,,,,,

    Hugz DaleV
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    Jun 11, 2008 4:34 PM GMT
    Pattison said
    All christian homosexuals please meet in the middle of cyberspace, and join hands now.


    Only if I get to cop some feels...
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    Jun 11, 2008 4:39 PM GMT
    get yourself 2 turntables and a microphone
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    Jun 11, 2008 4:41 PM GMT
    Skotlake saidI've long known this, but unfortunately, there are just no suitable men in my (smaller) town. I'm graduating in two weeks and moving by the end of the year (back to NYC, or CA, depending on where I'm accepted) so I'm hoping eventually I'll find more people I can relate to. Until then, what should I do? How have some of you coped with waiting for Mr. Right?


    No need to make finding "Mr. Right" a current priority. It will happen when it happens. Focus on you. Education, Career, family, friends. The rest all falls into place.
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    Jun 11, 2008 4:45 PM GMT
    jsttennis77 saidNo need to make finding "Mr. Right" a current priority. It will happen when it happens. Focus on you. Education, Career, family, friends. The rest all falls into place.

    Babies, even icon_eek.gif
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    Jun 11, 2008 4:47 PM GMT
    zimster said[quote][cite]jsttennis77 said[/cite]No need to make finding "Mr. Right" a current priority. It will happen when it happens. Focus on you. Education, Career, family, friends. The rest all falls into place.

    Babies, even icon_eek.gif[/quote]

    Babies to! and in the mean time learn lots of languages like "tag a long" LMAO
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    Jun 11, 2008 4:52 PM GMT
    jsttennis77 saidBabies to! and in the mean time learn lots of languages like "tag a long" LMAO
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    I am so hunting you down and throw you on the crater of Mount Pinatubo!!! icon_evil.gificon_evil.gificon_evil.gif
  • FuerteC

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    Apr 07, 2014 9:45 AM GMT
    How do you find glass dildos? Are they plastic?
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    Apr 07, 2014 10:50 AM GMT
    You should focus on your move, save money, work and make a plan to move. I'd recommend moving to Ca but up to you. Urg, the simple answer is just live your life. I mean, I don't go around and start wondering **Is he mr. Right? every time I see a gay man. I masturbate, watch porn and try to better myself waiting for mr. Right. As for sex, now that I'm older, I don't think I can sleep with a guy unless I like him or have strong feelings, attraction. In other words, no pity fucks like when I was younger.
  • Farmboy8

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    Apr 07, 2014 12:13 PM GMT
    FuerteC saidHow do you find glass dildos? Are they plastic?



    I had a young dude working for me who's passion was glass blowing. His best selling item (only custom orders or online, not in a shop) was dildos! All types of styles, sizes, etc.......the irony, he's blowing a dildo that someone fucks icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 07, 2014 12:14 PM GMT
    I'm a firm believer in pheromones.
    We all secrete them but, detect them subconsciously.

    While you are looking...nay, desperate even!, you secrete that desperation and others detect it and give you a pass.

    When you find yourself busy with life and just when --it seems--- you've given up on "finding a man" and focus in living....voila! Others detect your true scent!


    Happened to me, at least. :-)
  • Farmboy8

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    Apr 07, 2014 12:28 PM GMT
    StudlyScrewRite said I'm a firm believer in pheromones.
    We all secrete them but, detect them subconsciously.

    While you are looking...nay, desperate even!, you secrete that desperation and others detect it and give you a pass.

    When you find yourself busy with life and just when --it seems--- you've given up on "finding a man" and focus in living....voila! Others detect your true scent!


    Happened to me, at least. :-)




    I subscribe to this theory as well.
    What's the saying...."When handed lemons, make lemonade."
    hmmmmm, so what would a lonely young dude make with a handful of jizz?....sorry, I couldn't resist.

    Embrace what you DO have now, my friend.
    What was the analogy in 'Under the Tuscan Sun"...butterflies! She was busy trying to chase them, but found once she stopped and studied other things the butterflies came to her. A little sappy, but I like it.