AM I Ugly?

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    Dec 14, 2011 1:44 PM GMT
    Hi Guys, I've been online dating for 6 months. I often find I dont get many messages. Sometimes I contact other guys and they dont seem very interested. AND IM WONDERING - whether its because I'm not goodlooking, quite possible ugly, or just VERYYY average?What do you guys think? How can I solve this?

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    Dec 14, 2011 1:53 PM GMT
    Yes, you are. You need to eat more. Being a twig =/= attractive.

    Flame war prevented.
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    Dec 14, 2011 1:55 PM GMT
    what confused... whats a flame war?
    Also I'm not showing my body so how can you tell I'm skinny?
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    Dec 14, 2011 2:03 PM GMT
    pastelblue saidwhat confused... whats a flame war?
    Also I'm not showing my body so how can you tell I'm skinny?


    Your neck gives it away. You aren't as gaunt as Hypnotico on here but you really need to add meals 2, 3, and 4 to your diet.

    A flame war is everything that is on this site.
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    Dec 14, 2011 2:11 PM GMT
    lol do i get face points?
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    Dec 14, 2011 2:53 PM GMT
    pastelblue saidlol do i get face points?


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    Dec 14, 2011 3:12 PM GMT
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    Dec 14, 2011 5:12 PM GMT
    Anyone else got an opinion? THE MORE THE MERRIERicon_biggrin.gificon_razz.gif
  • jackthejock

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    Dec 14, 2011 6:35 PM GMT
    Ugh, I'm not going to even look at your picture closer than the thumbnail so no actual judgements on your looks...but I will say people who post questions like "Am I ugly" are generally fishing for compliments and that is really unattractive to me.
  • chet101

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    Dec 14, 2011 8:20 PM GMT
    dude its different strokes for different folks. even ugly can find ugly.
    be patient and just live your life.
    and by the way, your cute. ;)
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    Dec 14, 2011 8:34 PM GMT
    Well if you want the very truth I think you are just average. You arent ugly but not much to write home about. Plus, shouting to the world how desperate you are isnt likely to win you any points.
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    Dec 14, 2011 8:53 PM GMT
    sorry bros, just looking for a way to fix things. That's all ! :icon_wink.gif
  • OklahomaBreak...

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    Dec 15, 2011 12:49 AM GMT
    I agree with the fishing comment, but honestly it's different for everyone. You're not attracted to every man, so it is reasonable not all guys are attracted to you. Don't worry though there guys out there that will think you are the hottest guy on the planet. You just have to find them.
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    Dec 15, 2011 3:53 AM GMT
    pastelblue saidHi Guys, I've been online dating for 6 months. I often find I dont get many messages. Sometimes I contact other guys and they dont seem very interested. AND IM WONDERING - whether its because I'm not goodlooking, quite possible ugly, or just VERYYY average?What do you guys think? How can I solve this?

    [I'll upload some more pictures]


    Forget online dating. A lot of guys out there who think they are A+ because they are "hot".

    Success, personality, and being a genuine person will take you further in life.

    And to answer your question, no you are not ugly. I have rarely come across a truly ugly personugly001.jpg

    ^^^ that is ugly
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    Dec 15, 2011 10:23 AM GMT
    I WISH I'd never seen that photo haha!! Thanks folks!
  • Brick_n_Lace

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    Dec 15, 2011 11:52 AM GMT
    lol you are cute, dont worry gay dating is abysmal for everyone...
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    Dec 15, 2011 12:14 PM GMT
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    Dec 15, 2011 10:21 PM GMT
    Larkin_PLR said
    pastelblue saidlol do i get face points?


    tori.jpg


    Sure glad I like the Red Sox. icon_eek.gif
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    Dec 18, 2011 9:56 PM GMT
    No, you're not ugly. You may not be attractive to some people as people have certain preferences, but you're not woof woof.
  • tomdat2me

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    Mar 30, 2012 7:36 PM GMT
    dude i think you actually have a verry beautiful complexion. i Honestly mean that too dude, and im not trying to hit on you. I get how you feel though i feel the same way sometimes!
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    Mar 30, 2012 7:45 PM GMT
    "AM I Ugly?"


    lol, no.

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    Mar 31, 2012 2:50 AM GMT
    To start, you need to make sure your face is lit up when you take a picture. Browsers are lazy and they won't want to bother clicking on a profile to see what you look like, they want it all up front. It's an outer-beauty contest.

    There's no one definition of ugly, but there are certain looks that aren't liked my most. I'm not going to judge your looks on behalf of the community because I can't.

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    Apr 01, 2012 12:25 AM GMT
    pastelblue saidHi Guys, I've been online dating for 6 months. I often find I dont get many messages. Sometimes I contact other guys and they dont seem very interested. AND IM WONDERING - whether its because I'm not goodlooking, quite possible ugly, or just VERYYY average?What do you guys think? How can I solve this?


    Celebrate the fact that you can walk, talk, hear, see and do eveything on your own. The rest is just trivial human conventions.