are all gay breakups bad??

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    Dec 14, 2011 9:45 PM GMT
    while i have only had 2 men, the breakups always seem bad. I have found that both men really only wanted what they needed, never really caring about what i felt... As long as they got laid, they would say anything...
    this last one broke my heart so bad.... I always knew he was self absorbed, but christ... enough already. and when everything didnt go his way, he made up all these excuses as to why he is soooo busy. I guess as men, we are all pretty wrapped up in our own happiness, but are gay men even more self centered?
    i think living as a married (to a woman) man for so long, you get acustomed to always being cognisant of her feelings. Maybe i should become more self centered, and only do what I want...
    oh well, like most women say... men are pigs...LOL... and not in the good way... (well sometimes..) icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 14, 2011 9:51 PM GMT
    Yes. Only straight people breakup for non-self-centered reasons.

    /sarcasm
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    Dec 14, 2011 9:53 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidYes. Only straight people breakup for non-self-centered reasons.

    /sarcasm
    You broke up with me! icon_cry.gificon_cry.gif
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    Dec 14, 2011 9:55 PM GMT
    TropicalMark said
    paulflexes saidYes. Only straight people breakup for non-self-centered reasons.

    /sarcasm
    You broke up with me! icon_cry.gificon_cry.gif
    It's because you cheated on my right hand with my left hand! icon_mad.gif
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    Dec 14, 2011 9:56 PM GMT
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    paulflexes saidYes. Only straight people breakup for non-self-centered reasons.

    /sarcasm
    You broke up with me! icon_cry.gificon_cry.gif


    WELL, IF PAUL DUMPED YA... WANNA DATE? LOL
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    Dec 14, 2011 9:57 PM GMT
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    paulflexes saidYes. Only straight people breakup for non-self-centered reasons.

    /sarcasm
    You broke up with me! icon_cry.gificon_cry.gif
    It's because you cheated on my right hand with my left hand! icon_mad.gif
    Nu uh! YOUr right hand cheated on me with your left one! icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Dec 14, 2011 9:58 PM GMT
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    TropicalMark said
    paulflexes saidYes. Only straight people breakup for non-self-centered reasons.

    /sarcasm
    You broke up with me! icon_cry.gificon_cry.gif


    WELL, IF PAUL DUMPED YA... WANNA DATE? LOL
    Sure.. but remember I'm fragile now.. being dumped by Paul is a big deal!

    LMAO
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    Dec 14, 2011 10:00 PM GMT
    TropicalMark said
    paulflexes said
    TropicalMark said
    paulflexes saidYes. Only straight people breakup for non-self-centered reasons.

    /sarcasm
    You broke up with me! icon_cry.gificon_cry.gif
    It's because you cheated on my right hand with my left hand! icon_mad.gif
    Nu uh! YOUr right hand cheated on me with your left one! icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
    And both hands will be cheating on you tomorrow night...with a hot sexy model from London. icon_cool.gif
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    Dec 14, 2011 10:02 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    TropicalMark said
    paulflexes said
    TropicalMark said
    paulflexes saidYes. Only straight people breakup for non-self-centered reasons.

    /sarcasm
    You broke up with me! icon_cry.gificon_cry.gif
    It's because you cheated on my right hand with my left hand! icon_mad.gif
    Nu uh! YOUr right hand cheated on me with your left one! icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
    And both hands will be cheating on you tomorrow night...with a hot sexy model from London. icon_cool.gif
    I knew i should broke up with you a long time ago! You cheater you! LOL

    You should have seen the hottie i cheated on you with last night .. woof!

    BTW, Mitchell wants to hang out with you some more.. he liked going out with you.
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    Dec 14, 2011 10:02 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    TropicalMark said
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    TropicalMark said
    paulflexes saidYes. Only straight people breakup for non-self-centered reasons.
    /sarcasm
    You broke up with me! icon_cry.gificon_cry.gif
    It's because you cheated on my right hand with my left hand! icon_mad.gif
    Nu uh! YOUr right hand cheated on me with your left one! icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
    And both hands will be cheating on you tomorrow night...with a hot sexy model from London. icon_cool.gif

    I swear, the 2 of you should be displayed together in a zoo! LMAO! icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 14, 2011 10:02 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    paulflexes said
    TropicalMark said
    paulflexes saidYes. Only straight people breakup for non-self-centered reasons.
    /sarcasm
    You broke up with me! icon_cry.gificon_cry.gif
    It's because you cheated on my right hand with my left hand! icon_mad.gif

    I swear, the 2 of you should be displayed together in a zoo! LMAO! icon_lol.gif
    We already are. icon_biggrin.gif

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    Art_Deco said
    paulflexes said
    TropicalMark said
    paulflexes saidYes. Only straight people breakup for non-self-centered reasons.
    /sarcasm
    You broke up with me! icon_cry.gificon_cry.gif
    It's because you cheated on my right hand with my left hand! icon_mad.gif

    I swear, the 2 of you should be displayed together in a zoo! LMAO! icon_lol.gif
    You missed the escapade at the ramrod! we WERE in a cage together!
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    Dec 14, 2011 10:03 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Art_Deco said
    paulflexes said
    TropicalMark said
    paulflexes saidYes. Only straight people breakup for non-self-centered reasons.
    /sarcasm
    You broke up with me! icon_cry.gificon_cry.gif
    It's because you cheated on my right hand with my left hand! icon_mad.gif

    I swear, the 2 of you should be displayed together in a zoo! LMAO! icon_lol.gif
    We already are. icon_biggrin.gif

    tropicalmarkandme.JPG
    Damn that was a fun nite!
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    Dec 14, 2011 10:03 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Art_Deco said
    paulflexes said
    TropicalMark said
    paulflexes saidYes. Only straight people breakup for non-self-centered reasons.
    /sarcasm
    You broke up with me! icon_cry.gificon_cry.gif
    It's because you cheated on my right hand with my left hand! icon_mad.gif

    I swear, the 2 of you should be displayed together in a zoo! LMAO! icon_lol.gif
    We already are. icon_biggrin.gif

    tropicalmarkandme.JPG

    But you only come out after hours, when most of the paying customers have gone home.

    That pic of Mark is priceless, looks like you paralyzed him with your venom or something.
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    Dec 14, 2011 10:05 PM GMT
    TropicalMark saidI knew i should broke up with you a long time ago! You cheater you! LOL

    You should have seen the hottie i cheated on you with last night .. woof!

    BTW, Mitchell wants to hang out with you some more.. he liked going out with you.
    I can haz ur hottie plz? icon_biggrin.gif

    Gotta wait for the holidays to be over with before hanging out again...booked solid till next year (company parties, photo shoots, etc). I've totally forgotten what free time is like. icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 14, 2011 10:06 PM GMT
    TropicalMark said
    Art_Deco said
    paulflexes said
    TropicalMark said
    paulflexes saidYes. Only straight people breakup for non-self-centered reasons.
    /sarcasm
    You broke up with me! icon_cry.gificon_cry.gif
    It's because you cheated on my right hand with my left hand! icon_mad.gif

    I swear, the 2 of you should be displayed together in a zoo! LMAO! icon_lol.gif
    You missed the escapade at the ramrod! we WERE in a cage together!
    Oh yeah, almost forgot about that one (white russians do that to ya). icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 14, 2011 10:07 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    TropicalMark saidI knew i should broke up with you a long time ago! You cheater you! LOL

    You should have seen the hottie i cheated on you with last night .. woof!

    BTW, Mitchell wants to hang out with you some more.. he liked going out with you.
    I can haz ur hottie plz? icon_biggrin.gif

    Gotta wait for the holidays to be over with before hanging out again...booked solid till next year (company parties, photo shoots, etc). I've totally forgotten what free time is like. icon_lol.gif
    Oh.. he's gonna be busy too. he just told me he had a blast and you were fun to party/barhop with..
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    Dec 14, 2011 10:07 PM GMT
    paulflexes said
    TropicalMark said
    Art_Deco said
    paulflexes said
    TropicalMark said
    paulflexes saidYes. Only straight people breakup for non-self-centered reasons.
    /sarcasm
    You broke up with me! icon_cry.gificon_cry.gif
    It's because you cheated on my right hand with my left hand! icon_mad.gif

    I swear, the 2 of you should be displayed together in a zoo! LMAO! icon_lol.gif
    You missed the escapade at the ramrod! we WERE in a cage together!
    Oh yeah, almost forgot about that one (white russians do that to ya). icon_lol.gif
    Theres a WHOLE thread about it! Damn and you missed it?
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    Dec 14, 2011 10:08 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said

    That pic of Mark is priceless, looks like you paralyzed him with your venom or something.
    He did!,, well the bartenders did too!
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    Dec 14, 2011 10:09 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidI can haz ur hottie plz? icon_biggrin.gif

    Hell no! He's MINE MINE MINE!
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    Dec 15, 2011 1:07 AM GMT
    Art_Deco said...
    That pic of Mark is priceless, looks like you paralyzed him with your venom or something.
    That wasn't venom. icon_twisted.gif
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    Dec 15, 2011 1:08 AM GMT
    TropicalMark said
    paulflexes saidI can haz ur hottie plz? icon_biggrin.gif

    Hell no! He's MINE MINE MINE!
    Fuck that, you're sharing bitch! icon_mad.gif
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    Dec 15, 2011 2:39 AM GMT
    no...you are perfect just as you are...don't change,man...you just had a couple of bad hits...you will find the right guy..the one who fits you..i'm sorry you got treated so badly.don't feel bad...i only dated one guy,and we didn't work out....but i'm looking again...
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    Dec 15, 2011 3:19 AM GMT
    I don't know, but I'm going to try and be friends with this ex because his reasons for us breaking up sound semi-legit but time will tell. I honestly don't know if friendship with an ex is possible for me though. In a relatioship, I look for my bf to be my best friend and to see me as his best friend before anything eles. A best friend doesn't lie to or cheat their best friend. Maybe its nieve on my part but it's what I want and I'm willing to wait for that guy that is up too the challenge.
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    Dec 15, 2011 5:42 AM GMT
    I am kinda afraid of this myself. One of my friends just got out of a bad break up with a guy. It was not good. I know my buddy is starting to move on and will be fine but it was tough seeing him go through that.

    I've not yet been in an actual relationship with a guy yet. Although I do worry about the possibility of an awful breakup since so many gay relationships seem to end that way, I hope that when I do find someone special that it will be worthwhile. I know I will do my best to make that guy feel special. Hopefully, he will return the favor.