moving to my boyfriend

  • Adam00

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    Dec 17, 2011 6:36 AM GMT
    Hello guys,,,,i just registered in this site,,it is really amazing

    so,,, I'am Egyptian and i'm 24 years old and 2 years ago i met a German man here in Egypt,,,,i like men over 35,,,i do not know why but that is what turn me on sexually and emotionally so,,, he was 45 and at that time i just get out of a very bad relation so all what i wanted was FUN

    we started to be very close friends and he visited me so much and finally we falled in love more than a year ago,,,,,

    but we both do not like that we get a far distance relation,,,, so we decided that i move their to Germany,,,,more open for gays than Egypt for sure,,,

    i have a very good job here in Egypt with a very good salary,,,finally i took the decision and decided to move,,,, i was too much hesitating ,,,when i go there i have to start from ZERO,,,,i have to learn the language and get used to the new culture

    i visited him there to see if i will like it there or not

    I really love him like crazy and i am sure from his love but some people say that i do the biggest mistake in my life,,,,,am i wrong?COLORED TEXT GOES HERE
  • Adam00

    Posts: 39

    Dec 17, 2011 6:44 AM GMT
    Hello guys,,,,i just registered in this site,,it is really amazing

    so,,, I'am Egyptian and i'm 24 years old and 2 years ago i met a German man here in Egypt,,,,i like men over 35,,,i do not know why but that is what turn me on sexually and emotionally so,,, he was 45 and at that time i just get out of a very bad relation so all what i wanted was FUN

    we started to be very close friends and he visited me so much and finally we falled in love more than a year ago,,,,,

    but we both do not like that we get a far distance relation,,,, so we decided that i move their to Germany,,,,more open for gays than Egypt for sure,,,

    i have a very good job here in Egypt with a very good salary,,,finally i took the decision and decided to move,,,, i was too much hesitating ,,,when i go there i have to start from ZERO,,,,i have to learn the language and get used to the new culture

    i visited him there to see if i will like it there or not

    I really love him like crazy and i am sure from his love but some people say that i do the biggest mistake in my life,,,,,am i wrong?
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    Dec 17, 2011 2:46 PM GMT
    Hello, Egyptian87 -

    You have asked the question: Am I wrong?

    People love you and care about you. That's important.

    A good job and salary are important too. These things define success for many people.

    I am suggesting you talk with your lover. Talk about money and success. If you are unable to get a job for one year, will your relationship stay strong?

    If the two of you can be strong together for this - then you can be strong together for anything.

  • Adam00

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    Dec 17, 2011 7:21 PM GMT
    Thanks DBQmark

    yes we talked about it and he told me that everything will be ok and he knows that it is a big step in my life to leave everything bla bla bla

    but,,, i am still afraid that i do a mistake,,,i am sure from his love right now,,,but what about after few years?,,,i feel lost really
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    Dec 17, 2011 7:37 PM GMT
    take his money and run
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    Dec 17, 2011 7:41 PM GMT
    Egyptian87 saidThanks DBQmark

    yes we talked about it and he told me that everything will be ok and he knows that it is a big step in my life to leave everything bla bla bla

    but,,, i am still afraid that i do a mistake,,,i am sure from his love right now,,,but what about after few years?,,,i feel lost really


    You're not lost, you are understandably nervous. This is a 100% life change, that is natural.

    Germany will be a great experience, it's a whole new culture and a beautiful country, it's a great opportunity. I assume because you have a great paying job that you are educated and have skills. You are taking those with you. You may need further education and certification in germany to continue, but with that and your language skills you will be highly marketable.

    It's a great opportunity.
  • calibro

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    Dec 17, 2011 7:53 PM GMT
    troll
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    Dec 17, 2011 8:26 PM GMT
    Egyptian87 saidThanks DBQmark

    yes we talked about it and he told me that everything will be ok and he knows that it is a big step in my life to leave everything bla bla bla

    but,,, i am still afraid that i do a mistake,,,i am sure from his love right now,,,but what about after few years?,,,i feel lost really


    - If you go -
    - If you do not go -

    Either way, your life will change.

    Love makes fools of us all.
  • Rolland

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    Dec 17, 2011 8:41 PM GMT
    i dunno... i've never been in love but from what i hear i think its a great feeling even afterwards (if it ends poorly) i rarely hear people saying they regreted what they did.

    DO IT! lol and tell us how it goes ;)
  • Adam00

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    Dec 17, 2011 9:57 PM GMT

    You're not lost, you are understandably nervous. This is a 100% life change, that is natural.

    Germany will be a great experience, it's a whole new culture and a beautiful country, it's a great opportunity. I assume because you have a great paying job that you are educated and have skills. You are taking those with you. You may need further education and certification in germany to continue, but with that and your language skills you will be highly marketable.

    It's a great opportunity.

    thanks a lot for your advice i appreciate it my friend,,,you are right,,,may be i am just nervous
  • Adam00

    Posts: 39

    Dec 17, 2011 10:02 PM GMT
    thanks for all helpful answers


    and take his money and run?,,,,no thanks a lot i have enough money and i do not need his money

    and troll???? no comment
  • charlieviiper...

    Posts: 328

    Dec 17, 2011 10:58 PM GMT
    I've never been in love, I've only been in clubs