Let's talk about dating

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    Dec 18, 2011 12:11 AM GMT
    I've never liked it,being in a relationship, nor did I like the entitlement that accompanies it. Too many complications, What's your 2 cents?
  • Neurons

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    Dec 18, 2011 3:42 AM GMT
    Stay single and find a fuck buddy.
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    Dec 18, 2011 3:43 AM GMT
    Again, what's a date? icon_redface.gif
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    Dec 18, 2011 3:44 AM GMT
    It gets expensive.
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    Dec 18, 2011 3:45 AM GMT
    CHIdude saidAgain, what's a date? icon_redface.gif


    I'll have to show you one day soon. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 18, 2011 3:46 AM GMT
    Cool. Less competition. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 18, 2011 3:46 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidIt gets expensive.


    you're an artist...everything gets expensive for you. lol jk
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    Dec 18, 2011 3:52 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidIt gets expensive.


    Oh, hey, Ario icon_redface.gif
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    Dec 18, 2011 3:52 AM GMT
    Lenoxx said
    Ariodante saidIt gets expensive.


    you're an artist...everything gets expensive for you. lol jk


    ARE YOU CALLING ME DIRT BROKE because I kinda am
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    Dec 18, 2011 3:52 AM GMT
    Rodcet said
    CHIdude saidAgain, what's a date? icon_redface.gif


    I'll have to show you one day soon. icon_biggrin.gif


    You gonna belly dance for me? icon_confused.gif
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    Dec 18, 2011 3:55 AM GMT
    I never last long dating, three weeks is my high (low?) score. I'm too forward, they're too coy. It becomes tedious if they don't open up. Does that sound bad? icon_eek.gif

    I'd rather skip to the relationship part as quickly as possible once they've passed inspection and survived the dates. (I know that sounds bad.icon_lol.gif )

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    Dec 18, 2011 3:56 AM GMT
    CHIdude said
    Rodcet said
    CHIdude saidAgain, what's a date? icon_redface.gif


    I'll have to show you one day soon. icon_biggrin.gif


    You gonna belly dance for me? icon_confused.gif


    I think we can skip that. For the safety of all involved.
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    Dec 18, 2011 3:57 AM GMT
    ^^^ Well, you know that im a pro at not opening up icon_redface.gif
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    Dec 18, 2011 3:57 AM GMT
    I prefer being in a relationship... just have not been that lucky at it.
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    Dec 18, 2011 3:59 AM GMT
    CHIdude said^^^ Well, you know that im a pro at not opening up icon_redface.gif


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    Dec 18, 2011 4:01 AM GMT
    Rodcet said
    CHIdude said^^^ Well, you know that im a pro at not opening up icon_redface.gif


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  • dcmacguy

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    Dec 18, 2011 4:09 AM GMT
    I'm 29, my longest relationship was 3 months. I've been dumped once, been the dumper the rest of the times (about 4 or 5).

    When I am not in a relationship, I really want to be in one. When I am in one, I feel easily smothered and little things that shouldn't irritate me irritate me. I go from quality time with porn every day to no real sex drive at all when I actually have it available.

    Case in point - met this guy a few weeks ago online, last week went out to dinner and a movie here at my place. One thing lead to another, and he went home the next morning. He's been texting me a lot (like every morning to see how I am doing/throughout the day at times), and I am wondering if he is maybe really clingy.

    We went out last night, and he ended up staying over again. He woke me up this morning to cuddle. I was sound asleep and happy, being woken up to attempt to cuddle was not a good way to wake up. I'm not a morning sex person - I think I disappointed him, but I don't like to be touched or anything before I have had my coffee.

    I've been doing a lot of thinking today - I just have never had a relationship where I feel the burning passion that everyone talks about - at any time during the relationship, and that bothers me.
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    Dec 18, 2011 4:10 AM GMT
    CONFESSION TIME: Ok, I have been with one guy in my entire life.
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    Dec 18, 2011 4:14 AM GMT
    CHIdude saidAgain, what's a date? icon_redface.gif


    If a gent as fine & handsome as you look can't land a date we are all screwed... icon_cry.gif
  • Trepeat

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    Dec 18, 2011 4:14 AM GMT
    I always find myself wanting what I can't have, unfortunately. Makes both being single and being in a relationship a double-edged sword.
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    Dec 18, 2011 4:16 AM GMT
    Ryan_Andrew said
    CHIdude saidAgain, what's a date? icon_redface.gif


    If a gent as fine & handsome as you look can't land a date we are all screwed... icon_cry.gif


    Oh god, me fine and handsome? icon_eek.gificon_redface.gif
    I dont think I am, but thanks man.
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    Dec 18, 2011 4:18 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidWe gotta face the reality, we're not all going to find someone and relationships can be quite a bit of work.



    yup...
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    Dec 18, 2011 4:18 AM GMT
    CHIdude saidCONFESSION TIME: Ok, I have been with one guy in my entire life.


    Better to be discerning than to be a whore....which I now feel like. Thanks! icon_redface.gif
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    Dec 18, 2011 4:20 AM GMT
    Rodcet said
    CHIdude saidCONFESSION TIME: Ok, I have been with one guy in my entire life.


    Better to be discerning than to be a whore....which I now feel like. Thanks! icon_redface.gif


    You a whore Rod? I bet you've been with like 57.76 guys... icon_redface.gif
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    Dec 18, 2011 4:20 AM GMT
    Rodcet said
    CHIdude saidCONFESSION TIME: Ok, I have been with one guy in my entire life.


    Better to be discerning than to be a whore....


    Nah, you're screwed either way. No one wins =D