Define "sex"....

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    Dec 20, 2011 12:28 PM GMT
    This is probably weird to ask, but whaaaaat should you have done in gay terms to say you "had sex"?

    It is pretty straight forward with a girl ( I mean you put it in and do it and voila, you had sex)...

    But is fooling around naked and maybe oral sex, sex? Or is sex necessarily where we bring in the terms "top and bottom"?

    Do a lot of gay guys have anal sex tho? And no these are all open questions, I wanna know and learn, I'm (very much) kinda new to all this so please share your thoughts. Thanks!icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 20, 2011 12:34 PM GMT
    I think the general misconception is that sex has to include penetration. Sex can be, and is, so much more than that..
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    Dec 20, 2011 12:37 PM GMT
    jodgsk saidI think the general misconception is that sex has to include penetration. Sex can be, and is, so much more than that..


    Wow, you nailed it (hahaha no pun intended) No its true I mean it doesn't always HAVE to involve penetration - to me sex is so much more than that icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 20, 2011 9:34 PM GMT
    I think if you do oral and get off with a guy, that's sex. Most of my friends disagree and think fucking has to be involved. It's called oral sex for a reason. It's sex.

    Have fun and be safe!
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    Dec 20, 2011 10:06 PM GMT
    Well babe, it just depends on whom your speaking to... like with some people, it only means anal penetration, usually, it's best to specify in conversation how far etc... like kissing or not, oral or not (some guys dont kiss, some guys dont oral, whereas they may do anal, and vice versa...)
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    Dec 20, 2011 10:15 PM GMT
    When I'm hot, sweaty and feel like a nap at the end it was probably sex.

    When I feel hot, sweaty and I look over and think OMFG Get the hell outta my bed, that's probably the morning after.