Boyfriend got his lip pierced today :( Not happy!

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    Dec 20, 2011 1:14 PM GMT
    It's so fucking gross! When he plays with it with his tongue I wanna hurl! I hate them! Kinda wish he could of asked me first :S
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    Dec 20, 2011 1:23 PM GMT
    Fight back. Get your tongue pierced.
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    Dec 20, 2011 1:27 PM GMT
    At least he isn't gay.
  • Neurons

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    Dec 20, 2011 1:29 PM GMT
    Asked you first? What are you, his mother?
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    Dec 20, 2011 1:30 PM GMT
    TheKrisPandemic saidAsked you first? What are you, his mother?


    hahahahaha damn it
  • HndsmKansan

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    Dec 20, 2011 1:33 PM GMT
    I probably wouldn't have been very happy either, but it's his own choice.
    Maybe it will just be a phase and it will pass......meantime, I'd not make it an issue.
    There are other things to be focused on and especially at this time of year.
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    Dec 20, 2011 1:38 PM GMT
    I said kinda wish he'd asked me,

    Just because they're fucking gross and I sure as hell don't wanna kiss that!

    Gahhh, icky!

    Could never have piercings, it's unnatural to have metal holes in through your skin!
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    Dec 20, 2011 1:39 PM GMT
    What's worse is when they decide they don't want it anymore and you can feel the scar every time you kiss them. Sorry, I'm not helping am I?
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    Dec 20, 2011 1:41 PM GMT
    It's his way of saying you don't fucking matter.
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    Dec 20, 2011 1:41 PM GMT
    What's wrong with you dude? You mean you don't like the feeling of metal clanking against your teeth when you're kissing a guy? Or running your tongue around the hole in his lip that's developing scar tissue? And just wait until he gives you head....ahhh the feeling of cold steel on your cock....feels so.............cold. icon_neutral.gif
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    Dec 20, 2011 1:43 PM GMT
    Kristoff saidI said kinda wish he'd asked me,

    Just because they're fucking gross and I sure as hell don't wanna kiss that!

    Gahhh, icky!

    Could never have piercings, it's unnatural to have metal holes in through your skin!
    Gawd.. you sound like a free will baptist. icon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif
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    Dec 20, 2011 1:47 PM GMT
    They skeeve me, too. I know it's the other person's body to do what they want with, but you're the one who has to look at it.
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    Dec 20, 2011 1:48 PM GMT
    TheKrisPandemic saidAsked you first? What are you, his mother?

    No, his boyfriend. Granted that's a somewhat amorphous term, meaning different things to different guys, but a lip piercing does affect both of them in a way.

    Hell, my partner & I hardly buy a shirt without getting the other's opinion. Along with deciding to become partners or BFs comes the joining of your lives in ways that can mean losing some of your own independence. To keep him you give up a little of yourself. Sounds like this BF may still be in the selfish mode, if he didn't even mention it beforehand.
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    Dec 20, 2011 2:00 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    TheKrisPandemic saidAsked you first? What are you, his mother?

    No, his boyfriend. Granted that's a somewhat amorphous term, meaning different things to different guys, but a lip piercing does affect both of them in a way.

    Hell, my partner & I hardly buy a shirt without getting the other's opinion. Along with deciding to become partners or BFs comes the joining of your lives in ways that can mean losing some of your own independence. To keep him you give up a little of yourself. Sounds like this BF may still be in the selfish mode, if he didn't even mention it beforehand.


    It's a lip ring, it's not even permanent. It can come out and be filled. I rememberI got my tragus piercing without my first boyfriend knowing. I wanted to keep it as a surprise. Losing independence is one thing. Being tied down on a leash is another.
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    Dec 20, 2011 2:01 PM GMT
    Kristoff saidI said kinda wish he'd asked me,

    Just because they're fucking gross and I sure as hell don't wanna kiss that!

    Gahhh, icky!

    Could never have piercings, it's unnatural to have metal holes in through your skin!


    I could also say its unnatural to have a cock in your ass. So what?
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    Dec 20, 2011 2:05 PM GMT
    Well I personally LOVE piercings. You should give him my email. lol just kidding icon_biggrin.gif.


    You should take some time, maybe you wont hate it after a while.
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    Dec 20, 2011 2:10 PM GMT
    I just hate them, I wouldn't mind an ear piercing... But ughhhh. He looks like such a try hard now : Still gotta love him though.
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Dec 20, 2011 2:12 PM GMT
    I don't blame the OP for being upset. Having one's lip pierced, or any other body part, makes a statement of sorts that not everybody likes. I find them really unattractive as well, so if it were my boyfriend it could be a deal-breaker. They are that big of a turn-off.
  • Neurons

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    Dec 20, 2011 2:12 PM GMT
    Kristoff saidI just hate them, I wouldn't mind an ear piercing... But ughhhh. He looks like such a try hard now : Still gotta love him though.


    I was starting to worry about you.
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    Dec 20, 2011 2:34 PM GMT
    Kristoff saidIt's so fucking gross! When he plays with it with his tongue I wanna hurl! I hate them! Kinda wish he could of asked me first :S
    LOL Really? What are you his mother or something? He is a grown ass man. Why would he need your permission to get anything done to his own body? U sound very stupid
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    Dec 20, 2011 2:49 PM GMT
    tuffguyndc said
    Kristoff saidIt's so fucking gross! When he plays with it with his tongue I wanna hurl! I hate them! Kinda wish he could of asked me first :S
    LOL Really? What are you his mother or something? He is a grown ass man. Why would he need your permission to get anything done to his own body? U sound very stupid



    I don't think the OP literally meant the bf should ask his permission, but he might have discussed it with him first. If the OP's bf knew that the OP had such a distaste for lip piercing, maybe he would have reconsidered. I agree that he is a grown man and can do what he wants, but if he knows his bf really hates lip piercing, then why would he still want to have one? It's easy to say that what your bf does with his body doesn't, or shouldn't matter -- but it does. Let's put it this way, I don't care whose body it is, and call me shallow, but if bf comes home with this haircut...

    User-Ich_with_Mohawk-1.jpg


    The SHIT is gonna hit the fan! icon_eek.gif
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    Dec 20, 2011 2:50 PM GMT
    He should dump you as you are a shallow asshole.

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    Dec 20, 2011 2:59 PM GMT
    Scruffypup saidWhat's wrong with you dude? You mean you don't like the feeling of metal clanking against your teeth when you're kissing a guy? Or running your tongue around the hole in his lip that's developing scar tissue? And just wait until he gives you head....ahhh the feeling of cold steel on your cock....feels so.............cold. icon_neutral.gif

    Reminds me of yesterday at our guest house pool. All the guys were naked and quite a few had PAs. I remarked to my partner as we sat at the pool bar that I've never enjoyed blowing guys who had a PA, hated the clanging on my fillings. And it got in the way of my tongue work. That's a piercing I don't understand.
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    Dec 20, 2011 3:07 PM GMT
    CuriousJockAZ said
    tuffguyndc said
    Kristoff saidIt's so fucking gross! When he plays with it with his tongue I wanna hurl! I hate them! Kinda wish he could of asked me first :S
    LOL Really? What are you his mother or something? He is a grown ass man. Why would he need your permission to get anything done to his own body? U sound very stupid



    I don't think the OP literally meant the bf should ask his permission, but he might have discussed it with him first. If the OP's bf knew that the OP had such a distaste for lip piercing, maybe he would have reconsidered. I agree that he is a grown man and can do what he wants, but if he knows his bf really hates lip piercing, then why would he still want to have one? It's easy to say that what your bf does with his body doesn't, or shouldn't matter -- but it does. Let's put it this way, I don't care whose body it is, and call me shallow, but if bf comes home with this haircut...

    User-Ich_with_Mohawk-1.jpg


    The SHIT is gonna hit the fan! icon_eek.gif
    Again he is a grown ass man. He shouldn't have to ask permission to do anything. No it doesn't its his body. I am not his parent. He is my boyfriend. Then you will probably be single for a while if you think that a person should have to ask you for permission to do anything.
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    Dec 20, 2011 3:07 PM GMT
    CuriousJockAZ said
    tuffguyndc said
    Kristoff saidIt's so fucking gross! When he plays with it with his tongue I wanna hurl! I hate them! Kinda wish he could of asked me first :S
    LOL Really? What are you his mother or something? He is a grown ass man. Why would he need your permission to get anything done to his own body? U sound very stupid


    . Let's put it this way, I don't care whose body it is, and call me shallow, but if bf comes home with this haircut...

    User-Ich_with_Mohawk-1.jpg


    The SHIT is gonna hit the fan! icon_eek.gif


    I like the haircut.

    I also do not like lip piercings, but if it's not on my body I probably have a limited right to make demands. At the same time, I'd expect not to get surprised with it.