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    Dec 22, 2011 5:46 PM GMT
    overcome or 'fix' impotence.

    I can be having the greatest and hottest sex with the hottest guy, but I still can't get hard. It's SO embarrassing and probably why I'm still single.

    Should I see a Sex Therapist or a shrink or what??

  • nicehottie24

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    Dec 22, 2011 7:24 PM GMT
    There are some things a penis can't fit, for everything else there is VIAGRA

    just saying


    or maybe you masturbate too much

    or you are way too nervous when it comes to have sex with someone. Maybe you need to ask your partner to help you chill out a bit before engaging sex with him.

  • tuffguyndc

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    Dec 22, 2011 7:30 PM GMT
    mouillepoint saidovercome or 'fix' impotence.

    I can be having the greatest and hottest sex with the hottest guy, but I still can't get hard. It's SO embarrassing and probably why I'm still single.

    Should I see a Sex Therapist or a shrink or what??

    you could become a bottom or get viagra
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    Dec 22, 2011 10:25 PM GMT
    You're probably straight. Please leave your gay card at the front desk on your way out.
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    Dec 22, 2011 10:30 PM GMT
    You need to talk to your doctor. Erectile dysfunction, especially at your young age, can be an indicator of other problems like heart disease.

    It's nothing to be embarrassed about. Viagra can be fun for everyone!
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    Dec 24, 2011 4:12 AM GMT
    If you can get an erection on your own, it would seem there are psychological issues surrounding sex (stress, anxiety, or even just lack of genuine attraction to the other person). If not, then it would seem that there are physical and/or psychological issues at play. Talk to your doctor, who can help you figure out what's going on.

    In the meantime, you should try Kegel exercises -- they are great for anyone, even if they don't have erectile problems.!!!

    http://ca.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_60/67_love_tip.html
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    Dec 24, 2011 4:16 AM GMT
    For many years I've battled a crippling sexual anxiety, which has slowly improved some, but it prevented me from getting an erection when I was with another man.
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    Dec 24, 2011 4:19 AM GMT
    Ariodante saidFor many years I've battled a crippling sexual anxiety, which has slowly improved some, but it prevented me from getting an erection when I was with another man.

    I'd fix that... ;)
    harrypotter-snapemybodyisready.gif
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    Dec 24, 2011 4:22 AM GMT
    azimmwax said
    Ariodante saidFor many years I've battled a crippling sexual anxiety, which has slowly improved some, but it prevented me from getting an erection when I was with another man.

    I'd fix that... ;)
    harrypotter-snapemybodyisready.gif


    LOL, it's actually improved some, I need to spend longer amounts of time with a guy until I feel comfortable and that makes the anxiety go down. It's why I can't randomly hook up with a stranger. I physically can't get aroused with someone I don't know for a longer period of time.
  • DesireIron

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    Dec 24, 2011 4:23 AM GMT
    Have you tried a cock ring?

    But it may not be all you. If the other guy just doesnt turn you on, well....you know what happens....or doesnt happen. Maybe you are just settling for the wrong guys in bed.