Being a TOP vs. Being a bottom

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    Dec 22, 2011 6:28 PM GMT
    Which do you think is better & why?
    I can't decide which one i think is better. icon_biggrin.gif
    Ive never had gay sex yet.
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    Dec 22, 2011 6:37 PM GMT
    I guess it's down to what kind of guy you are. I hate bottoming, I'm just don't like it. So I'm a top xD.
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    Dec 22, 2011 6:39 PM GMT
    Tops have more choices since the majority of gay guys are vers or bots (and even those who say they're vers/tops are actually bots). Attactive tops who actually know what they're doing are always going to be in high demand.
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    Dec 22, 2011 6:39 PM GMT
    once your comfortable with the guy... its all good.... top, bottom, side, upside down... LOL
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    Dec 22, 2011 7:20 PM GMT
    Which is better all depends if youike having a Dick up your ass.
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    Dec 24, 2011 7:18 PM GMT
    JoeC90 saidI guess it's down to what kind of guy you are. I hate bottoming, I'm just don't like it. So I'm a top xD.


    Or you could be neither. Who told you it was a choice of one or the other?
  • lykewise

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    Dec 24, 2011 11:28 PM GMT
    I don't think one could be BETTER.
    Because you need both to do it...

    A top needs to appreciate the bottom and the bottom needs to appreciate the top. It is called synergy
  • DR2K

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    Dec 24, 2011 11:37 PM GMT
    I can't imagine sticking to just one role. Talk about a sexual handicap. icon_razz.gif
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    Dec 24, 2011 11:41 PM GMT
    I like bottoming much better. Not sure why.
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    Dec 25, 2011 4:15 AM GMT
    DR2K saidI can't imagine sticking to just one role. Talk about a sexual handicap. icon_razz.gif

    This leads me to post...

    How YOU doin'!? ;) Hahaha.
  • haggiedc2

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    Dec 25, 2011 4:45 AM GMT
    kyle88 saidI like bottoming much better. Not sure why.

    I am all TOP all the time......since you find bottoming much better... I can gladly help you with that.
  • jackthejock

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    Dec 26, 2011 2:11 AM GMT
    If you've never had gay sex maybe you're neither or maybe you're both. Not all gay men have anal sex, but I would say most that do at some point try each positon. Personally I get more turned on thinking about getting fucked than thinking about fucking, but in reality I really enjoy doing both with my man.

    If you are new to it, whether you are the top or bottom remember this: use more lube than you think you'll need and then add some more. Also use foreplay, you need to finger it for a few minutes first to get the bottom relaxed, a little opened up and ready to receive. And START SLOW
  • Buddha

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    Dec 26, 2011 2:26 AM GMT
    I like the idea of submission in my head, but practically I usually like to top because when it all comes down I feel that I lose control somehow when bottoming.