Profile turn-offs

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    Jun 14, 2008 9:16 AM GMT
    In no particular order the following will get me clicking to the next profile:

    No pictures (obviously)

    Pictures where you have your tongue stuck out

    Pictures where you're doing that weird V sign with your fingers - why? what does it mean?

    Racist and negatve comments like "No Asians, No fats, No femmes" etc compounded by the No offence just my preference.

    The description "Greedy bottom", or , "cum slut"

    The "not into pain, blood etc". Have you ever met anyone into blood?

    Long lists of negatives. I'm not interested in what you dislike.

    And, "not me but what I like".

    "Disease and drug free you be too". Huh?
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    Jun 14, 2008 9:25 AM GMT
    redheadguy said

    Pictures where you have your tongue stuck out

    Pictures where you're doing that weird V sign with your fingers - why? what does it mean?



    Lighten up. Sheesh. icon_rolleyes.gif

    I find those guys hotter with those little demonstrations of being just a wee bit bonkers.

    I can't stand serious (READ: Uptight) guys whose profiles read like resumes, and whose pictures look like mugshots (or the one on their driver's license).
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    Jun 14, 2008 9:59 AM GMT
    So Redheadguy, I agree with your distastes except for these:

    redheadguy saidIn no particular order the following will get me clicking to the next profile:

    Pictures where you have your tongue stuck out


    I object. Tongues are hot. Those are the things I like to lick when I'm in someone's mouth. So it's good to see them before hand.

    redheadguy saidPictures where you're doing that weird V sign with your fingers - why? what does it mean?


    V for Vagina...or something.

    redheadguy saidRacist and negatve comments like "No Asians, No fats, No femmes" etc compounded by the No offence just my preference.


    Those aren't racist, those are personal preference generalizations. And fats and femmes are only negative if your a fat or a fem and your attracted to the person that's rejected you without even knowing who you are. Rejection builds immunity. Trust me I've been rejected and I'm open for more rejection. It's hot.

    I don't really have profile turn-offs...yet.
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    Jun 14, 2008 1:27 PM GMT
    V for Vendetta?
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    Jun 14, 2008 2:17 PM GMT
    I get more annoyed at profiles that have nothing in them. But there are a couple of profiles I've come across where guys were using it to advertise a porno website. That's a bit scummy.
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    Jun 14, 2008 2:24 PM GMT
    Overly self taken/posed pics; show some natural pics.

    Headless shots; seriously if you're hiding, get off of here!

    "Ask me!" statement

    Just few off the top of my head....
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    Jun 14, 2008 2:27 PM GMT
    RedThe "not into pain, blood etc". Have you ever met anyone into blood?

    Yes. Gay goth boys.

    http://gaygothboys.tribe.net/
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    Jun 14, 2008 2:27 PM GMT
    I agree that profiles that don't say anything are a bit irritating. I have come across a few profiles that indicate the person has an extremely healthy self-esteem (ie arrogant). Others in which the person describes the kind of guy they are looking for that have such high expectations, I am tempted to write to them "you forgot the walks on water part".
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    Jun 14, 2008 2:31 PM GMT
    I don't like over-long, rambling profiles. icon_rolleyes.gif

    Actually, the thing that bugs me most are those pictures of guys brandishing their middle finger at the camera. I wish someone would explain that to me.

    If it's supposed to be badass, by the way, please don't do it right after you've had your eyebrows waxed or while you're wearing a Speedo.
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    Jun 14, 2008 2:33 PM GMT
    Profiles of guys who're hotter than I. It's no wonder I'm so angry! icon_mad.gif
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    Jun 14, 2008 2:47 PM GMT
    a1972guy saidOverly self taken/posed pics; show some natural pics.

    Headless shots; seriously if you're hiding, get off of here!

    "Ask me!" statement

    Just few off the top of my head....


    I agree with the headless pics thing, abs and torso ar nice but a face is good too. i also dont like when all the pics are private, Can you not be naked for once?
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    Jun 14, 2008 3:15 PM GMT
    redheadguy said

    Pictures where you're doing that weird V sign with your fingers - why? what does it mean?



    It is supposed to represent a vagina, and the fun face one makes when trying to eat one out.

    You generally accompany the pose with some sort of gargling sound so that it is grosser than it really is, although not by much.
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    Jun 14, 2008 3:32 PM GMT
    Dont mind profiles without a face... one i am like that, two, some people prefer the privacy as they are still in "hiding", although eventually i think its only fair to let the person ur talking to know what you look like.

    what i hate are profiles that have no pics whatsoever and nothing filled in on the profile, just a blank page.

    If i can take the time to provide a little of myself to you, you should do the same.
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    Jun 14, 2008 3:35 PM GMT
    JBE60 saidOthers in which the person describes the kind of guy they are looking for that have such high expectations, I am tempted to write to them "you forgot the walks on water part".


    That's really about self-defense. If no one ever measures up, you never have to try to get serious with someone (and fail).
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    Jun 14, 2008 3:48 PM GMT
    No Pictures
    Body shot's only
    Pictures of there Pet
    Long drawn out description
    No ethnic origin
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    Jun 14, 2008 4:41 PM GMT

    ....................................................Louis
    confession,I like to watch the Strong Man Competition: the one were the BIG bear types from like Brussels and Iceland who don't speak a lick of English and communicate with a series of grunts, lift very heavy things for the title of World's Strongest. Sometimes, when they are lifting something very heavy, they'll pop a bloody nose. The blood is always so rich looking and seems always to pulse out to the rythm of their magnificent heartbeats. When I see it, I always feel like reachimg out and tasting some.

    And, on occasion, I'll go out on a date with a real great guy who has looks, personality...the whole shabang! Later, If I kiss him, I feel like the kissing is half done. The more I fancy him, the more I really just want to take a bite.

    I think this is why I gravitate toward a more fair skinned man. Their white skin allows me to see more of the veins underneath. When I get them excited, they become red and the veins fill with blood, until it seems to me I can see the blood moving about, circulating in it's perfect natural way, keeping that gorgeous man alive. This is why I fixate on the blood in the first place: it's the stuff that keeps him there and makes him strong and masculine. They always notice that I kiss and suck them were the veins are most visible, want to taste it sooo bad!!

    ..............................................forearm


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    Jun 14, 2008 4:46 PM GMT
    redheadguy saidIn no particular order the following will get me clicking to the next profile:

    Pictures where you have your tongue stuck out



    Damn....glad I don't know any profile like that...

    allrightel2.jpg

    I mean, who would want to know a person like THAT! hehe.


    As for the V fingers....as far as I know it can stand for 2 things. Victory or peace.
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    Jun 14, 2008 5:02 PM GMT
    No pictures or if they do have pictures the profile isn't verified and the pictures are of some model.
    Having words spelt properly is most assuredly Hot!
    And profiles with nothing in them.
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    Jun 14, 2008 5:09 PM GMT
    redheadguy saidIn no particular order the following will get me clicking to the next profile:

    No pictures (obviously)

    Pictures where you have your tongue stuck out

    Pictures where you're doing that weird V sign with your fingers - why? what does it mean?

    Racist and negatve comments like "No Asians, No fats, No femmes" etc compounded by the No offence just my preference.

    The description "Greedy bottom", or , "cum slut"

    The "not into pain, blood etc". Have you ever met anyone into blood?

    Long lists of negatives. I'm not interested in what you dislike.

    And, "not me but what I like".

    "Disease and drug free you be too". Huh?



    Daaang. Did you wake up on the wrong side of the bed??

    Tounge stickin out or fingers in V sign is just "posing"

    Let them call themselves what they want

    Yeah, its creepy but I have known people to be into blood, which isn't the worst thing I've heard of.

    Drug and disease free just means if they are gonna hook up with you, you need to be drug and diease free too. Obvious reasons.

    Point is, everyone's profile is just that - theirs. Out of your list, the only thing that would bother me is the "No Asians, No fats, No femmes", but other than that man its their site. When you are on a site as diverse as this one, you gotta expect it. Sorry.
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    Jun 14, 2008 5:13 PM GMT
    Are profiles designed to turn someone on with the obvious? or is it an attempt to reveal a little bit more about who you are to an audience of strangers.

    A well thought out profile should probably turn some people off just for the simple reason that a lot of us are not compatible. It is the generic, "I am here to please and turn on everyone" in 75 words or less, that leaves me feeling bored.

    p.s.
    another thread to complain....
    awesome.
    just what we need.
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    Jun 14, 2008 5:17 PM GMT
    obscenewish saidI don't like over-long, rambling profiles. icon_rolleyes.gif

    Actually, the thing that bugs me most are those pictures of guys brandishing their middle finger at the camera. I wish someone would explain that to me.

    If it's supposed to be badass, by the way, please don't do it right after you've had your eyebrows waxed or while you're wearing a Speedo.



    HAHAHA Soooooo True!

    That "v" hand gesture - which I do some (yup!) - is my way of sayin' "Peace dawg!"
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    Jun 14, 2008 5:23 PM GMT
    Or maybe the "V" hand sign also is sign language for "I use Viagra!"
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    Jun 14, 2008 6:40 PM GMT
    GuiltyGear said....................................................Louis
    confession,They always notice that I kiss and suck them were the veins are most visible, want to taste it sooo bad!!



    Yikes! (Drops laptop onto the floor, runs into bedroom and hides under the bed. icon_eek.gif
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    Jun 14, 2008 6:44 PM GMT

    Nice tanlines, pdx, (slurp).icon_razz.gif
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    Jun 14, 2008 6:49 PM GMT
    Actually, a guy who is diseased and does drugs is a HUGE turn on.. J/K... One of the things that irritates the ever living F#CK out of me is when guys feel they have to purse or pucker their lips for the camera. All I can think is "Ok, you're not a D&G model, so wake the f#ck up and take a nice walk through the trailer park." But that's just my pet peeve.. I could be wrong. ;-)

    -Nick