We haven't gone all the way, and we don't plan on it for a while, so that's out of the question. We stick to oral, handjobs, and that's good enough for the both of us, but I can't seem to make him cum. I'm pretty easy, all he has to do is start stroking it and not stop, nothing complicated there.
Now, we're both cut, but apparently his doctor decided to be mean when he was little and cut off quite a bit of skin...or maybe it just grew a lot. Either way, there's not a lot of wiggle room, if you know what I mean, so most of his action has to happen at the head. That's fine, I've gotten used to it, but I still haven't been able to make him cum. He gets as close as he can possibly get, and then it doesn't seem to matter what I do, I can't push him over that hump.
Eventually he'll take over, just because it's torture for him, but I'd like to be able to do it myself. He says it's fine, that he doesn't mind, but I do. It makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong. Any pointers?