waimea saidThis is something that bothers me, this is because I am also fickle. They can tell you something now and completely change their mind later. Like a hookup, they can tell you they're meeting you but they never show up, or they tell you they really like you but the next day you find them on a date with another. What gives. Why are gay guys so fickle.
How do I become less fickle.
I take it this is a serious question, so...
Like attracts like, as in birds of a feather flock together. Guys that aren't fickle usually terrify those that are.
I think the way to be less fickle is to know yourself better, which takes time and more often than not, a few heartaches. If your attractions are 80% appearances and 20% character then you need to change those percentages by carefully examining what lasts in a long term life long relationship, and what doesn't.
Merry Christmas waimea, and a Happy New Year to you!