Would You Date Someone Positive

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    Dec 23, 2011 10:28 PM GMT
    So I been talking to this guy for a while now, he was not in MI, but now he is and I really like him we talk on the phone and text etc etc. I was at the mall when he texted me and told me he went to get HIV tested and it came out pos, I really like him, but I don't want to get HIV I know nothing about HIV or never known or been with someone who has it.Would you date a guy who is pos and if there is anyone on here who is in my situation with someone who is pos and your not please help me.
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    Dec 23, 2011 10:30 PM GMT
    Yes, and have. Then again, it's not a big deal for me since I don't do anal sex.
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    Dec 23, 2011 10:32 PM GMT
    Would You Date Someone Positive

    I did, and he later became my partner. We practiced 100% safe sex, including me as bottom. I wasn't afraid, and I remain negative today. But it is a risk, one not to be taken lightly, and involves challenges and burdens. I think you have to be very mature emotionally to attempt it, and really love the guy.
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    Dec 23, 2011 10:33 PM GMT
    Nope.

    Good for everyone who can do it, but I couldn't. As much as I'd like to say I'm better than that, a relationship for me - especially a sexual one - is supposed to be a completely freeing experience. There's no sense in which I can experience that freedom if some part of me is always worried - as it would be - about how close I'm approaching the line of my own mortality here. It would always be on my mind when we did anything... even just faintly. And that isn't the freedom I'd want.
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    Dec 23, 2011 10:35 PM GMT
    yeah but can we kiss or will i get it

    i was never really schooled on hiv so im kinda dumb when it comes to it sorry

    i know you can only get threw blood or sex with no condom
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    Dec 23, 2011 10:36 PM GMT
    Difficult to say... For now, I will say no. I don't have enough experience, strenght and maturity to deal with it.
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    Dec 23, 2011 10:39 PM GMT
    i just found out like 3 hrs ago when he texted me and i came home and kinda googled a lil about it,this sucks he was perfect and i do care for him but idk if i want to live with fear tho
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    Dec 23, 2011 10:40 PM GMT
    Larkin saidNope.

    Good for everyone who can do it, but I couldn't. As much as I'd like to say I'm better than that, a relationship for me - especially a sexual one - is supposed to be a completely freeing experience. There's no sense in which I can experience that freedom if some part of me is always worried - as it would be - about how close I'm approaching the line of my own mortality here. It would always be on my mind when we did anything... even just faintly. And that isn't the freedom I'd want.


    yeah i was thinking this also, i am so confusedicon_sad.gif
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    Dec 23, 2011 10:42 PM GMT
    BELLOO saidi just found out like 3 hrs ago when he texted me and i came home and kinda googled a lil about it,this sucks he was perfect and i do care for him but idk if i want to live with fear tho


    He still perfect. Plus, he told it to you. icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 23, 2011 10:45 PM GMT
    arcangel_krlos said
    BELLOO saidi just found out like 3 hrs ago when he texted me and i came home and kinda googled a lil about it,this sucks he was perfect and i do care for him but idk if i want to live with fear tho


    He still perfect. Plus, he told it to you. icon_wink.gif


    i know and i told him this doesn't change anything, but i am a lil scared to get it
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    Dec 23, 2011 10:55 PM GMT
    BELLOO said
    arcangel_krlos said
    BELLOO saidi just found out like 3 hrs ago when he texted me and i came home and kinda googled a lil about it,this sucks he was perfect and i do care for him but idk if i want to live with fear tho

    He still perfect. Plus, he told it to you. icon_wink.gif

    i know and i told him this doesn't change anything, but i am a lil scared to get it


    Are you REALLY that naive??? Do you have any idea how many times you MIGHT have had sex with a guy who was poz who never had the balls to tell you?? What....are you like stuck in 1979 or something??? This really is a joke, right???? icon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif
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    Dec 23, 2011 10:58 PM GMT
    FriendsOnly said
    BELLOO said
    arcangel_krlos said
    BELLOO saidi just found out like 3 hrs ago when he texted me and i came home and kinda googled a lil about it,this sucks he was perfect and i do care for him but idk if i want to live with fear tho

    He still perfect. Plus, he told it to you. icon_wink.gif

    i know and i told him this doesn't change anything, but i am a lil scared to get it


    Are you REALLY that naive??? Do you have any idea how many times you MIGHT have had sex with a guy who was poz who never had the balls to tell you?? What....are you like stuck in 1979 or something??? This really is a joke, right???? icon_rolleyes.gificon_rolleyes.gif


    ive never had sex befor
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    Dec 24, 2011 1:41 AM GMT

    BELLOO, we recommend any HIV+ man avoid you like the plague. We remember your history.
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    Dec 24, 2011 2:13 AM GMT
    meninlove said
    BELLOO, we recommend any HIV+ man avoid you like the plague. We remember your history.

    Oh, that's right -- he published the poz guy's pic he was dating, because of some issue, didn't he?
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    Dec 24, 2011 4:57 AM GMT
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    meninlove said
    BELLOO, we recommend any HIV+ man avoid you like the plague. We remember your history.

    Oh, that's right -- he published the poz guy's pic he was dating, because of some issue, didn't he?


    W.T.F. icon_eek.gif

    I'd recommend ANY man to avoid you like a plague based on such a despicable and spiteful act. Lawd oh lawd have mercy...

    Keep researching on Google. Dive into the old threads in the RJ HIV forums and learn about the disease and its transmission methods, in details.

    Protect yourself and the rest of us.
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    Dec 24, 2011 12:31 PM GMT
    i dont have sex because of STD's and STI's.
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    Dec 24, 2011 3:54 PM GMT
    No, I can honestly say that I would not. This type of relationship would be asking something of me that I know I could deliver. I have my life ahead of me, and I do not want to risk it by dating someone who is positive - knowing that our sexually activity would be high risk. Not really the ideal relationship I see myself in.