Jun 15, 2008 3:51 AM GMT
So...im not out to a lot of people, family and friends, and if it comes up, ill tell, but i dont feel that being gay defines me. Now to the point... when people that dont know im gay, or even when people know i am, they sometimes say shit like "thats so gay" or "what a queer" or "ur such a fag". Now, its never been directed towards myself and actually never toward someone i know that is gay. I feel ... i dont even know how to describe it, just, a pain, or like a "sharpness" when these phrases r used. And like i said, its never been towards me, but is it just ignorance and i should ignore it...or tell them (the ones who know im gay) to cool it?