str8 friends

  • KateC

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    Dec 26, 2011 5:25 AM GMT
    ok this is the story... very simple, my str8 friends touch in a jocking plan, but sometimes i feel that they are trying something else, they seem like attracted or something, i told this to a bi friend and he said this was quite common in ''str8'' and gay guys, what do u think about tthis?
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    Dec 26, 2011 3:24 PM GMT
    i dont get it.

    ps. what's up with "str8", just spell the word right no?
  • tyler_helm

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    Dec 26, 2011 3:29 PM GMT
    Touch in Joking Play?
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    Dec 26, 2011 3:30 PM GMT
    KateC saidok this is the story... very simple, my str8 friends touch in a jocking plan, but sometimes i feel that they are trying something else, they seem like attracted or something, i told this to a bi friend and he said this was quite common in ''str8'' and gay guys, what do u think about tthis?

    I'm a little confused. Do you mean your str8 friends engage in some physical contact and play with you that makes you wonder if it's sexual?

    There's always an individual group dynamic involved, not to mention cultural elements, difficult to know if it's just innocent male play, often seen in sports and among friends, or something else. You probably should assume it's ordinary jock play unless it moves to the next level. Don't project your own gay feelings onto your str8 friends.

    Are there specific things they do that concern you?
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    Dec 26, 2011 3:39 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said

    I'm a little confused. Do you mean your str8 friends engage in some physical contact and play with you that makes you wonder if it's sexual?

    There's always an individual group dynamic involved, not to mention cultural elements, difficult to know if it's just innocent male play, often seen in sports and among friends, or something else. You probably should assume it's ordinary jock play unless it moves to the next level. Don't project your own gay feelings onto your str8 friends.

    Are there specific things they do that concern you?


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    This coming from the Sr. Citizen here on RJ--

    Also, you must forgive him, he was str8 until he was 46 and now thinks that he is an expert on all things gay. icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 26, 2011 3:41 PM GMT
    Dean_Aane said
    Art_Deco said

    I'm a little confused. Do you mean your str8 friends engage in some physical contact and play with you that makes you wonder if it's sexual?

    There's always an individual group dynamic involved, not to mention cultural elements, difficult to know if it's just innocent male play, often seen in sports and among friends, or something else. You probably should assume it's ordinary jock play unless it moves to the next level. Don't project your own gay feelings onto your str8 friends.

    Are there specific things they do that concern you?


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    This coming from the Sr. Citizen here on RJ--

    Also, you must forgive him, he was str8 until he was 46 and now thinks that he is an expert on all things gay. icon_lol.gif
    And you wonder why you are always slammed for the ass you are........icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Dec 26, 2011 4:00 PM GMT

    icon_confused.gif

    Why, I thought, this thread was gonna be about how many straight friends we have and how we as gay men positively and, or negatively affect their lives and vice versa, and how we benefit from our relationships from them.
    Aah, never mind, wishful thinking....
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    Dec 26, 2011 4:28 PM GMT
    TropicalMark said
    Dean_Aane said...blah blah blah ...
    And you wonder why you are always slammed for the ass you are........icon_rolleyes.gif
    I can't believe you actually used the words "slammed" and "ass" in the same sentence directed toward him. icon_lol.gif
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    Dec 26, 2011 4:28 PM GMT
    Reads a lil fabricated?
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    Dec 26, 2011 6:00 PM GMT
    Putting their hands around your throat and steadily tightening the grip is NOT playful.

    FAKE profile / question btw.
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    Dec 26, 2011 6:04 PM GMT
    Cash saidPutting their hands around your throat and steadily tightening the grip is NOT playful.


    But he said he wuvved me!!!
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    Dec 26, 2011 6:09 PM GMT
    Why don't you ask them to jerk off with you on Skype... then you'll know icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Dec 26, 2011 6:10 PM GMT
    Ay Jesus, another one?

    Doesn't this fucking site have admins?

    Someone give me their names, please.

    @ above: HHHiiiiiiiiiiiiiIIII!!!!!!!! Larkin. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 26, 2011 6:11 PM GMT
    Dean_Aane said
    Art_Deco said

    I'm a little confused. Do you mean your str8 friends engage in some physical contact and play with you that makes you wonder if it's sexual?

    There's always an individual group dynamic involved, not to mention cultural elements, difficult to know if it's just innocent male play, often seen in sports and among friends, or something else. You probably should assume it's ordinary jock play unless it moves to the next level. Don't project your own gay feelings onto your str8 friends.

    Are there specific things they do that concern you?


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    This coming from the Sr. Citizen here on RJ--

    Also, you must forgive him, he was str8 until he was 46 and now thinks that he is an expert on all things gay. icon_lol.gif


    Whatdamean by 'THE' Sr. Citizen. I'm the only geezer around here and almost the oldest!

    OP,

    But, yeah, bois of certain cultures 'play' and there's nothing much meant by it. Don't get your hopes up too much. Especially if it's Mexican bois, other than kissin' suckin' and fuckin' everything else is game.
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    Dec 26, 2011 6:20 PM GMT
    Dean_Aane said
    Art_Deco said

    I'm a little confused. Do you mean your str8 friends engage in some physical contact and play with you that makes you wonder if it's sexual?

    There's always an individual group dynamic involved, not to mention cultural elements, difficult to know if it's just innocent male play, often seen in sports and among friends, or something else. You probably should assume it's ordinary jock play unless it moves to the next level. Don't project your own gay feelings onto your str8 friends.

    Are there specific things they do that concern you?


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    This coming from the Sr. Citizen here on RJ--

    Also, you must forgive him, he was str8 until he was 46 and now thinks that he is an expert on all things gay. icon_lol.gif

    What does age have to do with this?
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    Dec 26, 2011 6:37 PM GMT
    earthsearch said
    Cash saidPutting their hands around your throat and steadily tightening the grip is NOT playful.


    But he said he wuvved me!!!


    That's different.

    It wasn't yer throat he was steadily tightening the grip around...
  • rioriz

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    Dec 26, 2011 8:18 PM GMT
    Totally conused icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Dec 26, 2011 10:28 PM GMT
    *yawns* ;)
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    Dec 26, 2011 10:30 PM GMT
    what is a jocking plan?
  • ozhanSean

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    Dec 26, 2011 10:30 PM GMT
    Str8 people? Who are they? Are they an "invented" people? ;-) (I kid!)
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    Dec 26, 2011 11:03 PM GMT
    I don't understand the question.
  • tuffguyndc

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    Dec 26, 2011 11:05 PM GMT
    sdgman saidI don't understand the question.
    me either
  • keetz

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    Dec 27, 2011 3:10 AM GMT
    Larkin saidWhy don't you ask them to jerk off with you on Skype... then you'll know icon_rolleyes.gif


    lol yeah, do that, then you will know...