Bottom Aggression. Turn on or turn off?

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    Dec 26, 2011 6:24 AM GMT
    So as a bottom I've always hated the feeling and outside interpretations/opinions that if Im the bottom, im the lowly bitch, so to speak.

    My solution for that is to essentially turn the tables and be the aggressor. The problem is that I havent tested this idea out enough to know if its a good idea, and being single I dont have an effective testing system in place.

    So what would you all think of a bottom who is demanding, aggressive, refuses to submit, orders you around, and essentially aims to fuck you rather than be fucked? Turn on or turn off?
  • jackthejock

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    Dec 26, 2011 6:39 AM GMT
    For me it is a major turn off. I am more of a submissive type but I do top and bottom. Sometimes when I am topping my boyfriend gets all mouthy like, "yeah fuck me, just pump me full of cum" I get really nervous and can't get off
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    Dec 26, 2011 11:09 PM GMT
    Surely sex is a two-way thing...top and bottom should both be agressive and passionate, none of this sub/dom shit.
  • Buddha

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    Dec 27, 2011 12:51 AM GMT
    I like to lead a bottom more, but I've occassionally like an 'aggressive' bottom. But not the kind the 'jackthejock' is talking about, doesn't have to be verbal, just aggressive in the sense of holding one down and pushing the cock in their ass and stuff.
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    Dec 29, 2011 2:53 PM GMT
    Brettski said

    So what would you all think of a bottom who is demanding, aggressive, refuses to submit, orders you around, and essentially aims to fuck you rather than be fucked? Turn on or turn off?


    Turn ON! My SO isnt a demanding or aggressive bottom, but he is almost always in control. Even when I have him pinned facedown in a pillow, he still works that ass and hole and drives me crazy, sometimes making me shoot on cue.

    When we first hooked up, I assumed beforehand he would be yet another in a long line of bottoms that just lay there screaming in a pillow or either couldnt take more than half before begging me to stop. Boy was I wrong; from the moment he slowly mounted and rode me like a pro, I was hooked.

    Point is, there's a way to be 'in charge' without being aggressive and a turn off. Try riding him, both facing him and away from him. And dont just bounce up and down, be sexy with it. Learn how to use your ass to drive him wild (if you have a nice ass, believe me its hot to watch it backing up and milking your dick)
  • Hothouse

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    Dec 29, 2011 3:09 PM GMT
    Turn on.
    I like a man that knows what he wants and goes after it - top or bottom.
    I like some fire in a man when I'm fucking him.