Lighting candles on ur dinner,Is he romantic or is he just trying to SHOW OFF?

  • Mondo_Bongo

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    Dec 27, 2011 4:44 AM GMT
    i had a few date with men who lighted 7 or 8 candles during dinner at his place.but it was just sex date..but i somehow found it was not romantic but kinda like he is just showing off abt how elegant he is..
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    Dec 27, 2011 5:24 AM GMT
    Scented candles help cover up the stank in the air.
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    Dec 27, 2011 5:27 AM GMT
    Mondo_Bongo saidi had a few date with men who lighted 7 or 8 candles during dinner at his place.but it was just sex date..but i somehow found it was not romantic but kinda like he is just showing off abt how elegant he is..



    Romantic or not, it's not very original. Just saying...
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    Dec 27, 2011 5:28 AM GMT
    Mondo_Bongo saidi had a few date with men who lighted 7 or 8 candles during dinner at his place.but it was just sex date..but i somehow found it was not romantic but kinda like he is just showing off abt how elegant he is..
    Who gives a fuck? As long as you got laid, that's all that matters...right?
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    Dec 27, 2011 5:29 AM GMT
    xrichx saidScented candles help cover up the stank in the air.
    ...from the guy 30 minutes ago.
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    Dec 27, 2011 5:32 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Mondo_Bongo saidi had a few date with men who lighted 7 or 8 candles during dinner at his place.but it was just sex date..but i somehow found it was not romantic but kinda like he is just showing off abt how elegant he is..
    Who gives a fuck? As long as you got laid, that's all that matters...right?



    The thing is....not everyone goes on a date with the slutty singular intention of getting laid.

    Grow up, gramps. You're twice his age.
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    Dec 27, 2011 5:37 AM GMT
    panda_person_i_is said
    paulflexes said
    Mondo_Bongo saidi had a few date with men who lighted 7 or 8 candles during dinner at his place.but it was just sex date..but i somehow found it was not romantic but kinda like he is just showing off abt how elegant he is..
    Who gives a fuck? As long as you got laid, that's all that matters...right?



    The thing is....not everyone goes on a date with the slutty singular intention of getting laid.

    Grow up, gramps. You're twice his age.
    And I get laid twice as much as you and him combined.

    That's why you're "young and bitter" instead of old and have a fucking stellar sex life. icon_cool.gif
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    Dec 27, 2011 5:41 AM GMT

    Of course you do. He and I don't get laid for a living....we can't POSSIBLY compete with you.... icon_wink.gif
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    Dec 27, 2011 5:47 AM GMT
    panda_person_i_is said
    Of course you do. He and I don't get laid for a living....we can't POSSIBLY compete with you.... icon_wink.gif
    Of course not. You're from the home of the gods' most fucked up creation of all time: Mormonville - The most brainwashed society in the history of mankind. You couldn't get laid if you tried 'cause you'd get all nervous thinking you're going to hell for fucking a dude.
  • Webster666

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    Dec 27, 2011 6:06 AM GMT
    It doesn't matter whether or not you liked the lit candles.
    What matters is that the guy cared enough about you to try to make the experience nice, FOR YOU.

    Obviously, his generous gesture was lost on you.

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    Dec 27, 2011 6:07 AM GMT
    a fail is you
  • Jaxom

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    Dec 27, 2011 6:11 AM GMT
    "sex date" so why you even complaining if he tries to set the mood with candle light?

    It is a common idea that candle light is romantic, so maybe they were just under the conception that it would be romantic for you.
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    Dec 27, 2011 6:28 AM GMT
    Mondo_Bongo saidi had a few date with men who lighted 7 or 8 candles during dinner at his place.but it was just sex date..but i somehow found it was not romantic but kinda like he is just showing off abt how elegant he is..


    Be glad they fed you & fuck the lighting, lol! That is kind of funny though. Maybe he was trying to tell you something or just up the mood.
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    Dec 27, 2011 7:16 AM GMT
    panda_person_i_is said
    paulflexes said
    Mondo_Bongo saidi had a few date with men who lighted 7 or 8 candles during dinner at his place.but it was just sex date..but i somehow found it was not romantic but kinda like he is just showing off abt how elegant he is..
    Who gives a fuck? As long as you got laid, that's all that matters...right?



    The thing is....not everyone goes on a date with the slutty singular intention of getting laid.

    Grow up, gramps. You're twice his age.


    I hate to be 'that guy'... but:

    Mondo_Bongo saidi had a few date with men who lighted 7 or 8 candles during dinner at his placebut it was just sex date..but i somehow found it was not romantic but kinda like he is just showing off abt how elegant he is..
  • MikemikeMike

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    Dec 27, 2011 7:18 AM GMT
    xrichx saidScented candles help cover up the stank in the air.

    best answer so far!!!
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    Dec 27, 2011 7:30 AM GMT
    Wait, wait.. 7 or 8 candles? Are you sure it wasn't a menorah? icon_confused.gif
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    Dec 27, 2011 7:42 AM GMT
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    Dec 27, 2011 7:45 AM GMT
    #GayFirstWorldProblems
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    Dec 27, 2011 8:05 AM GMT
    Ariodante said#GayFirstWorldProblems


    Said it best.
  • Mondo_Bongo

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    Dec 27, 2011 9:37 AM GMT
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    Mondo_Bongo saidi had a few date with men who lighted 7 or 8 candles during dinner at his place.but it was just sex date..but i somehow found it was not romantic but kinda like he is just showing off abt how elegant he is..


    Be glad they fed you & fuck the lighting, lol! That is kind of funny though. Maybe he was trying to tell you something or just up the mood.


    in fact i was paying for the food...sexdate dont need romantic stuff..i am not a fun or romance...especially with the sexdatess
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    Dec 27, 2011 9:45 AM GMT
    who knows his true agenda or notions? perhaps to his mind this was not a sex date but a possibility for more, perhaps you were love's last hope?

    However, if you look at the situation, he is setting the mood for a romantic environment, tranquility, peace, calm, passion.

    Perhaps it's metaphoric, perhaps it's passion for food, perhaps it's just setting the scene of new memories being made.

    Perhaps, Perhaps, Perhaps.

    Hooking up is the most unromantic thing you can do. It's something I shall never understand.

    You should take a moment to breathe, enjoy the moment, think only wonderful thoughts not ask questions about his intentions. Truth never lies and shall always be revealed. Chill icon_razz.gif
  • Mondo_Bongo

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    Dec 27, 2011 9:45 AM GMT
    xrichx saidWait, wait.. 7 or 8 candles? Are you sure it wasn't a menorah? icon_confused.gif



    it was on the table..it was not a menorah..kinda scary for me
  • Mondo_Bongo

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    Dec 27, 2011 9:47 AM GMT
    wolf214 saidwho knows his true agenda or notions? perhaps to his mind this was not a sex date but a possibility for more, perhaps you were love's last hope?

    However, if you look at the situation, he is setting the mood for a romantic environment, tranquility, peace, calm, passion.

    Perhaps it's metaphoric, perhaps it's passion for food, perhaps it's just setting the scene of new memories being made.

    You should take a moment to breathe, enjoy the moment, think only wonderful thoughts not ask questions about his intentions. Truth never lies and shall always be revealed. Chill icon_razz.gif



    i prefer i come.i buy dinner. then fuck.and thanks..have a good nite.that would be better..
  • Mondo_Bongo

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    Dec 27, 2011 9:56 AM GMT
    Jaxom said"sex date" so why you even complaining if he tries to set the mood with candle light?

    It is a common idea that candle light is romantic, so maybe they were just under the conception that it would be romantic for you.




    i am not a big fun of romance..1 or 2 candles are ennough..but 7 or 8..thats something scary to me
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    Dec 27, 2011 10:20 AM GMT
    Maybe because it was just a "sex-date"... That's why it remained unromantic. If it were a good date and the guy not wanting to try and lay u in bed then it'd be romantic. Personally I think candles are darn romantic, and would care less if the guy was showing off or not. Either way, he'd def impress me.