Gay or not Gay?

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    Dec 27, 2011 10:19 AM GMT
    High school is usually the time when you start to open yourself up to different things. Sometimes you open yourself up to homosexual experiences and sometimes you wonder if your friends are on the same boat as you are. Let me tell you about a friend of mine who I still think is on the edge about his sexuality.

    I thought he was the cutest, not hottest, but cutest guy at school. He was Latino, about 5'7, average body (flat stomach), just the right amount of hair on his legs and thighs, nice soft skin, big hands, gorgeous smile, adorable eyes, and curly super mario-like hair. He was my first man crush. The thing is, I think I might have been his too.

    We hung out in a group and he was the one that always acted the "gayest". He would playfully slap and grab your ass, scoop your balls, and tried pecking everyone on the lips. I always played along with it because I wanted him so bad! I always rubbed on him and he wouldn't say anything or stop me. Although, I did draw a line, so it didn't seem too gay, but I wish we could just play along all day.

    So here's the story. One night over spring break, we all slept over at his house. I took advantage and slept next to him. I was playing with his hair until we both feel asleep. I remember waking up in the middle of the night because it was so hot. I turned over and noticed him snoring, he sleeps like a rock! I had a crazy idea and was contemplating whether or not I should do it or not. After 20 minutes of thinking, I slowly slipped my hands in his shorts until I felt his smooth balls. I freaked out and pulled out my hand thinking he was going to wake up. When I noticed he didn't feel a thing, I slipped my hand back in his short and played with his balls a little bit. I then crawled up to his shaft and noticed he was uncut. I tried rolling his foreskin down, so I could feel his dickhead, but in the process, he made a groan. I pulled my hand out and fell back asleep. That morning, he woke up and didn't suspect anything.

    There was another time when we all slept over at his house again. I again took advantage to make sure I slept next him. This time, I went a little farther. Before falling asleep, I was rubbing his body. I played with his nipples a couple times before slowly caressing his face. As I was caressing his face, he just whispered "Mmmm, that feels good". Once I thought he fell asleep, I turned over to get myself comfortable. To my surprise, I heard him turn over, pull me towards him and say "Now it's my turn". We fell asleep spooning. I again woke up in the middle of the night and decided to play with his balls. He didn't feel a thing. Right before I was about to fall asleep his phone was making a buzzy noise. I grabbed it, his battery was dying. I didn't know how to turn it off so, in a loud whisper I said his name. I was baffled because he woke up instantly! I was beginning to wonder whether or not he felt me touching him. That morning, he didn't suspect anything, but I became suspicious.

    I played with his balls twice, but he didn't get hard both times. I said his name in a whisper and he woke up. He slept through me playing with his balls and dick, but he wakes up from a whisper?

    What do you guys think, was he really sleeping when I was having fun with his balls or was he playing it off?
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    Dec 27, 2011 1:50 PM GMT
    teezer10 saidThere was another time when we all slept over at his house again. I again took advantage to make sure I slept next him. This time, I went a little farther. Before falling asleep, I was rubbing his body. I played with his nipples a couple times before slowly caressing his face. As I was caressing his face, he just whispered "Mmmm, that feels good". Once I thought he fell asleep, I turned over to get myself comfortable. To my surprise, I heard him turn over, pull me towards him and say "Now it's my turn". We fell asleep spooning. I again woke up in the middle of the night and decided to play with his balls. He didn't feel a thing. Right before I was about to fall asleep his phone was making a buzzy noise. I grabbed it, his battery was dying. I didn't know how to turn it off so, in a loud whisper I said his name. I was baffled because he woke up instantly! I was beginning to wonder whether or not he felt me touching him. That morning, he didn't suspect anything, but I became suspicious.


    I've seen many straight guys being rather intimate with their bros, but that, that's unusual.
    If you're unsure about talking to him about it, just play along and see where it leads. He doesn't seem to be uncomfortable with your touches anyway.
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    Dec 27, 2011 1:56 PM GMT
    Sounds like something I'd do.

    I've slept with a few guys with the intent of us just legitly watching a movie and if we passed out, no big deal. They ended up messing with me as I slept... for the most part I was passed out, but then I'd wake up cause my phone would go off or they got a little rough. It is what it is.
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    Dec 27, 2011 2:45 PM GMT
    Let me try him out for a night and I'll let the know the verdict in the morning. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 27, 2011 3:00 PM GMT
    teezer10 saidWhat do you guys think, was he really sleeping when I was having fun with his balls or was he playing it off?

    Difficult to say. He could have been waking already due to the phone buzzing, and from your motions trying to silence it, before you whispered to him. Not getting hard could mean he wasn't awake when you were playing with his balls. Many guys your age will go wood when a person touches their balls, at least when they're awake. I find this inconclusive.
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    Dec 27, 2011 3:24 PM GMT
    I can't say definitively if he's gay...but he clearly enjoys doing lots of "research" to find out the answer to that question...lol. Based on everything you describe, you can't read his thoughts or tell if was asleep....but his responses to everything else clearly leave a door open wide enough to drive a truck through. If he thinks your hand feels good on his balls and nipples...your lips and tongue will be total ecstasy!!

    Add a little romance in too. Give him a friendship card or sent txts when you are apart, telling him you are thinking of him or miss him. If you like each other as friends AND like how you touch each other...attraction is there on several levels....so you are one lucky dude and should spend more alone time with him.



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    Dec 27, 2011 4:19 PM GMT
    Being a latchkey kid with parents who frequently visited friends late into the night and vacationed a lot, my brother & I often had the house to ourselves for rather large parties and lots of sleepovers. Being so social herself, mom had no issues with our friends over even when they were home. It would not be unusual to have a few or 10 wind up sleeping over, especially when they'd gotten wasted and didn't want to go home to their parents. So I had lots of opportunity to play with my friends.

    They are awake when you are playing with them. But that doesn't make them gay. Just because we explore something, doesn't make us what we explore. A curiosity is not an orientation. It is a strange time of life, experience mostly without acknowledgment. Very few of my friends ever commented the following day and life went on as if nothing had happened.

    One of the guys I used to play with, totally str8, only a few weeks ago told me he just had his first mwm three way. He's 54. The last time he was in bed with a guy was with me, about 40 years ago. He's quite comfortable with his sexuality as he is with mine. But I'm gay, he's str8. No reason to think otherwise. Not even close to "the edge about his sexuality."