cant seem to loosen up enough to enjoy anal...y?

  • rogerfederer

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    Dec 27, 2011 6:13 PM GMT
    when im by myself, it's freaking awesome! i love it, i love being a bottom...but when it comes to hooking up, i am soooo tense that it feels like im getting raped. I tried everything...poppers, alcohol, medicine...it's just too painful. And it's not cuz im tight bc when im by myself i can practically shove my fist up there. I just get so nervous and my stomach starts acting funny and it feels like i have to crap. No matter how slow they (whoever im doing) takes it its just too painful, but when im by myself its the best feeling in the world. what should i do?
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    Dec 27, 2011 6:17 PM GMT
    rogerfederer saidwhen im by myself, it's freaking awesome! i love it, i love being a bottom...but when it comes to hooking up, i am soooo tense that it feels like im getting raped. I tried everything...poppers, alcohol, medicine...it's just too painful. And it's not cuz im tight bc when im by myself i can practically shove my fist up there. I just get so nervous and my stomach starts acting funny and it feels like i have to crap. No matter how slow they (whoever im doing) takes it its just too painful, but when im by myself its the best feeling in the world. what should i do?

    What I did was find a guy who had a really small dick. I knew this because I had blown him. I also knew he liked to top, but wasn't popular because he was so small.

    I asked him about "deflowering" me. I'd tried before with other guys, but fear and pain stopped me.

    He agreed, and it was great. Once I had my confidence I began to take bigger guys.
  • lykewise

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    Dec 27, 2011 7:28 PM GMT
    rogerfederer said I just get so nervous and my stomach starts acting funny and it feels like i have to crap. No matter how slow they (whoever im doing) takes it its just too painful, but when im by myself its the best feeling in the world. what should i do?


    I think you should find somebody you trust, because as you said you get nervous which makes your stomache act like you have to crap. Some people have that when they get sexual tension and get nervous...
    So you need to take away that feeling by having someone you trust instead of a random hookup. Someone that makes you feel at ease.

    Good luck man!