Friend of a friend of mine...

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    Dec 28, 2011 5:23 AM GMT
    So... There's this guy I met at a house party of a friend of a friend of mine and I only got to talk to him for about 1/2 an hour.... I wanted to talk more to him... But I couldn't..So... He added me to Facebook and we started talking online... There's something about him that I really like and I feel like I know him just from looking at his profile and pics and I find him super cute and attractive... We are going to see each other again on new years eve but I feel like asking him out before.... What should I do... Ask him out before or wait to see how we get along at the party and new years clubbing???

    Any advice would be appreciated icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 28, 2011 5:34 AM GMT
    wait
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    Dec 28, 2011 5:37 AM GMT
    Just wait. You two are gonna hook up on NYE anyways. icon_lol.gificon_wink.gif
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    Dec 28, 2011 6:01 AM GMT
    If things go well NYE ask him out on a date. Have fun!
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    Dec 28, 2011 6:02 AM GMT
    Kill him.
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    Dec 28, 2011 6:22 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidKill him.


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    Dec 28, 2011 5:16 PM GMT
    Just wait.
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    Dec 28, 2011 5:56 PM GMT
    I would say "ask him out" coz what if you badly hookup on NYE lolz and there is a danger that you may never see him or keep him as your fuck buddy, when he could have been "that special person" in your life had you waited sometime to let know each other and end that night with a beautiful kiss.

    P.S Again this is my opinion and Please care this only if you are trying for something more than physical at this point of time.
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    Dec 28, 2011 5:57 PM GMT
    wait

    if you hook up on NYE, then he's not BF material anyway.
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    Dec 28, 2011 5:59 PM GMT
    canuckguy19 saidwait

    if you hook up on NYE, then he's not BF material anyway.


    Fail.
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    Dec 28, 2011 6:17 PM GMT
    DAN take my advice on this...

    My current Ex Chris is a friend of a friend of mine and it really change the relationship between my friend and I after Chris & I started dating... to date I haven't even seen my friend... lots of complex reasons but eh... my advice... Wait it out and give it PLENTY of time... this is one of those situations where you need to chill and see where it goes. Also, make sure your friend doesn't end up playing 3rd wheel often between you guys... makes the situation even messier... (Honestly I think my friend either did or tried to steal my now Ex)
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    Dec 28, 2011 6:55 PM GMT
    Thanks guy for all your help and opinions... I was doing some self reflecting and I have come to the conclusion that I will probably wait. I can't expect to have two relationships in less then a year... I have only been out 9 months and I am trying to rush things... I am going to just have fun this new year eve and take it as it goes... If something happens it happens if it doesn't than I still have the rest of my life to have relationships. I am only 23 years old. The thing is I want some one to be my best friend and someone to love. I am not just interested in sex. It sucks being single even though I have only been in a relationship for 6 months of my life and having been in one for so little time, it was like a little tease. Anyways... Thanks everyone for their input!
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    Dec 29, 2011 3:06 AM GMT
    do whatever you want
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    Dec 29, 2011 2:51 PM GMT
    Hi DAN, my feeling about this is why not see him before NYE? Sometimes waiting can add expectations and put too much emphasis on success or failure in developing romance.

    I think you could easily ask him out for a burger something else casual, and see how you like each other.

    warmly,

    -Doug
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    Dec 29, 2011 2:53 PM GMT
    Yeah, you should wait. Then, if everything goes well in NYE, ask him out.