Did I get hit on?

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    Dec 29, 2011 8:36 PM GMT
    So I just got on the bus on my way home... This cute militarily guy starts talking to me and was trying to be friendly and all says he was in a battalion out west in calgary. And just moved to Toronto recently... He gave me his name and age (mike 32) and asked if I lived with my girlfriend? I told told him nah I still live with my mom... Anyways he said he was new to the area and he gave me his number... Does he want to be friends or was he hitting on me?

    What do you guys think?
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    Dec 29, 2011 8:45 PM GMT
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    Um, yeah. You done been hit on!
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    Dec 29, 2011 8:58 PM GMT
    Also... He was acting very straight and was talking about meeting up with chicks and stuff.... So I dunno... Do straight guys do that when they are looking for friends? Or was he playing straight? I have to admit I was playing very straight too... Hmmm... I dunno... I sent him a text with my number so... We'll see...
  • idubya

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    Dec 29, 2011 9:50 PM GMT
    That's exciting. Keep us updated!
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    Dec 29, 2011 9:51 PM GMT
    idubya saidThat's exciting. Keep us updated!


    Will do!
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    Dec 29, 2011 10:31 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidMilitary guys can be hard to read. They generally are friendly to everyone and look to make friends where ever they go because that is the military way. So he may not have necessarily be hitting on you as much as trying to find out where are the cool places to go pick up women.


    I agree... and that said, if you guys become friends and he is straight he probably will be fine with you being one of his gay friends. In the military, you have to find your own way and make your own friends when you can.

    If he is gay, then at a minimum, you have a new friend to hang out with! And who knows! Maybe the Future Mr. Dan_the_Man!
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    Dec 29, 2011 11:45 PM GMT
    Alpha_Muscle said
    AMoonHawk saidMilitary guys can be hard to read. They generally are friendly to everyone and look to make friends where ever they go because that is the military way. So he may not have necessarily be hitting on you as much as trying to find out where are the cool places to go pick up women.


    I agree... and that said, if you guys become friends and he is straight he probably will be fine with you being one of his gay friends. In the military, you have to find your own way and make your own friends when you can.

    If he is gay, then at a minimum, you have a new friend to hang out with! And who knows! Maybe the Future Mr. Dan_the_Man!


    thanks... i tend to get ahead of myself... hmmmm.... mr.Dan_the_Man icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 30, 2011 12:08 AM GMT
    Yeah. I'm going to say friendly. He may even accept you as his main gay friend (because let's face it... we get all the badass chicks by our side) and then bam! He'll be in your inner circle before you know it!
  • E_84

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    Dec 30, 2011 12:37 AM GMT
    Yea in usually situations I would say straight and friendly, but to me this happened too fast. How many times do you meet someone and they are asking for all your information (age, assumption of sexuality, where you live, etc.)? Which straight guy automatically assumes you live with your GF? Ontop of that, give you their number? It happens but rarely. Most people aren't that friendly unless they want to get to know you more in a different manner and/or have some further intentions.

    We can't use the excuse of a uniform to change our perceptions.

    I think you were hit on.

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    Dec 30, 2011 12:47 AM GMT
    He could be straight, and just asking if you lived with your girlfriend to see if you were gay. I place my bets on that when you call him, he is at least bi. Straight guys don't just randomly give out their numbers.

    I vote that you got hit on. Good for you!
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    Dec 30, 2011 12:47 AM GMT
    Hmmmm.... *me scratching my head* icon_question.gif
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    Dec 30, 2011 1:19 AM GMT
    E_84 saidYea in usually situations I would say straight and friendly, but to me this happened too fast. How many times do you meet someone and they are asking for all your information (age, assumption of sexuality, where you live, etc.)? Which straight guy automatically assumes you live with your GF? Ontop of that, give you their number? It happens but rarely. Most people aren't that friendly unless they want to get to know you more in a different manner and/or have some further intentions.

    We can't use the excuse of a uniform to change our perceptions.

    I think you were hit on.

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    Not true in the least bit. I have it happen to me all the time.
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    Dec 30, 2011 1:22 AM GMT
    He is gay and his radar told him so that you are too.
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    Dec 30, 2011 2:30 AM GMT
    He was hitting on you. I can understand why when in situation you prefer to not assume anything. Once in the gym locker room I noticed that this super ripped guy who I had thought maybe had been checking me out in the weight room (but I didn't want to assume) was taking forever on the scale which was sort of near-ish to my locker. He turned to me and said "hey man, can you help me figure this thing out?" There was nothing abnormal about the scale at all, it was typical and worked perfectly fine. After getting home I realized I was probably being hit on that whole time, but it just didn't occur to me until after.
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    Dec 30, 2011 2:31 AM GMT
    Gurl you better get on that shit! hahaha! Did you call him yet?
  • swimbikerun

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    Dec 30, 2011 2:35 AM GMT
    What did you expect the poor man to do? Lean over and kiss you?
    Friend, a fuck, or a friendly fuck, life is defined more by our regrets than our actions. Carpe Diem!

    The litmus test: why do you think he told you his age?
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    Dec 30, 2011 2:35 AM GMT
    DAN_THE_MAN saidSo I just got on the bus on my way home... This cute militarily guy starts talking to me and was trying to be friendly and all says he was in a battalion out west in calgary. And just moved to Toronto recently... He gave me his name and age (mike 32) and asked if I lived with my girlfriend? I told told him nah I still live with my mom... Anyways he said he was new to the area and he gave me his number... Does he want to be friends or was he hitting on me?

    What do you guys think?


    Yes he was hitting on you! When he asked you if you lived with your girlfriend he was trying to make sure you're available. There is no doubt in my mind that the question meant he was hitting on you. go for it!
  • Havenjock80

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    Dec 30, 2011 2:39 AM GMT
    Masculine Butch gays always prey on the obviously gay guys... Not saying u are obviously gay or anything.
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    Dec 30, 2011 2:39 AM GMT
    Seems to that if a guy tells you about HIS girlfriend he's straight. If he asks you about your girlfriend he's gay.

    You done been hit on.
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    Dec 30, 2011 2:55 AM GMT
    he wants to tap that
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    Dec 30, 2011 2:58 AM GMT
    Havenjock80 said Masculine Butch gays always prey on the obviously gay guys... Not saying u are obviously gay or anything.

    Uhhh YEAH you are... saying that. lol that's the whole rationale behind your statement.

    Esta bien chica no es como que lo estas insultando. icon_smile.gif
  • tuffguyndc

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    Dec 30, 2011 3:10 AM GMT
    LOL Dude, he was just trying to be friendly. My question to you is; is he very good looking? If so, that would explain why you are wondering if he is attracted to you. Sometimes are just being friendly.
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    Dec 30, 2011 5:24 AM GMT
    likewatuc saidGurl you better get on that shit! hahaha! Did you call him yet?


    I sent him a text... Which he told me to... And he said he was going to Montreal tomorrow and he will contact me when he gets back... So it's in his court now
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    Dec 30, 2011 5:30 AM GMT
    who knows, get to know the guy. thats the only way you'll know if got hit on. (:
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    Dec 30, 2011 5:30 AM GMT
    Trollileo saidYeah... Probably...

    Pics of this fine gentleman?


    I wish... I couldn't be like btw can I take a pic to show people how cute you are? icon_razz.gif