Did anyone ever have a rape fantasy or dream while growing up?

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    Dec 30, 2011 1:55 AM GMT
    For example, in late middle school I was dreaming that I had pinned the hot straight blond jock in my class. When I woke up I kinda knew I was gay and the only way I'd get to do guys like him was by force. I had a LOT of wrestling wet dreams after that.
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    Dec 30, 2011 1:57 AM GMT
    Used to have gang rape fantasies about bikers in reststop washrooms, from a pretty young age. I was kinky beyond my years. icon_razz.gif
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    Dec 30, 2011 1:58 AM GMT
    I honestly never had a gay dream until 18 where it was one about me getting raped by a family member. I woke up with an erection and questioned every fucking thing else since then.

    True story.
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    Dec 30, 2011 2:04 AM GMT
    So your dreams were about being the victim?
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    Dec 30, 2011 2:09 AM GMT
    swimguychicago saidSo your dreams were about being the victim?

    Nope. I've only ever had that "one" sex dream with another man. All of my sex dreams have been about me missionary with a beautiful woman with long flowing red hair, laid across champagne colored sheets. Kid you not.
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    Dec 30, 2011 2:17 AM GMT
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    swimguychicago saidSo your dreams were about being the victim?

    Nope. I've only ever had that "one" sex dream with another man. All of my sex dreams have been about me missionary with a beautiful woman with long flowing red hair, laid across champagne colored sheets. Kid you not.


    So you're bi?
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    Dec 30, 2011 2:20 AM GMT
    swimguychicago said
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    swimguychicago saidSo your dreams were about being the victim?

    Nope. I've only ever had that "one" sex dream with another man. All of my sex dreams have been about me missionary with a beautiful woman with long flowing red hair, laid across champagne colored sheets. Kid you not.


    So you're bi?

    Nope.
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    Dec 30, 2011 2:32 AM GMT
    You want to sleep with women, but you're not bi?
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    Dec 30, 2011 2:35 AM GMT
    swimguychicago saidYou want to sleep with women, but you're not bi?

    Who said that's what I wanted? I don't want to be chased or kill in my nightmares. I may want super powers I get or some of the more phenomenal things, or think they're weird, but I didn't want to get raped by a family member in my dream... so that means I don't necessarily want to fuck a vagina just because I have in dreams.
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    Dec 30, 2011 2:44 AM GMT
    Nope, never had any kind of sexual dream my entire straight life. Even when I was married, nor did I ever dream of my wife in any way.

    After I came out, however, I began to dream of my late partner, and our having sex. And I do the same with my current partner, who's in most of my dreams.

    I love to tell him in the morning when we wake up, of all the adventures we had together in my dreams. He's in my thoughts every moment, waking & sleeping, and I love it. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 30, 2011 3:19 AM GMT
    Art_Deco saidNope, never had any kind of sexual dream my entire straight life. Even when I was married, nor did I ever dream of my wife in any way.

    After I came out, however, I began to dream of my late partner, and our having sex. And I do the same with my current partner, who's in most of my dreams.

    I love to tell him in the morning when we wake up, of all the adventures we had together in my dreams. He's in my thoughts every moment, waking & sleeping, and I love it. icon_biggrin.gif


    Well that's interesting, but the question WAS about gay dreams, particularly gay rape dreams, while growing up.
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    Dec 30, 2011 3:26 AM GMT
    Art_Deco saidNope, never had any kind of sexual dream my entire straight life. Even when I was married, nor did I ever dream of my wife in any way.

    After I came out, however, I began to dream of my late partner, and our having sex. And I do the same with my current partner, who's in most of my dreams.

    I love to tell him in the morning when we wake up, of all the adventures we had together in my dreams. He's in my thoughts every moment, waking & sleeping, and I love it. icon_biggrin.gif


    [LIKE] (though not necessarily relevant to the original posting)
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    Dec 30, 2011 4:52 AM GMT
    Nobody's going to confess to dreaming about taking down the top jock, huh?
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    Dec 30, 2011 5:15 AM GMT
    dream no... fantasy yes. Though I'm not sure it's a rape fantasies but rather really aggressive and rough sex forced on me... and I wouldn't put up a fight or say no lol.
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    Dec 31, 2011 2:31 AM GMT
    Wish we had met in HS. I sound like the yin to your yang.
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    Dec 31, 2011 3:26 AM GMT
    Anyone else willing to fess up.
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    Dec 31, 2011 6:33 AM GMT
    No?
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    Dec 31, 2011 9:37 PM GMT
    TrevorMark said
    swimguychicago saidSo your dreams were about being the victim?

    Nope. I've only ever had that "one" sex dream with another man. All of my sex dreams have been about me missionary with a beautiful woman with long flowing red hair, laid across champagne colored sheets. Kid you not.



    but didn't you just say:


    TrevorMark saidI honestly never had a gay dream until 18 where it was one about me getting raped by a family member. I woke up with an erection and questioned every fucking thing else since then.

    True story.



    I'm confused
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    Jan 01, 2012 2:41 AM GMT
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    swimguychicago saidSo your dreams were about being the victim?

    Nope. I've only ever had that "one" sex dream with another man. All of my sex dreams have been about me missionary with a beautiful woman with long flowing red hair, laid across champagne colored sheets. Kid you not.



    but didn't you just say:


    TrevorMark saidI honestly never had a gay dream until 18 where it was one about me getting raped by a family member. I woke up with an erection and questioned every fucking thing else since then.

    True story.



    I'm confused

    What do you not get?

    I said I've had that ONE. And I named the ONE gay dream I ever had.

    Easy to understand. Clearly stated.
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    Jan 19, 2012 4:53 AM GMT
    conscienti1984 saiddream no... fantasy yes. Though I'm not sure it's a rape fantasies but rather really aggressive and rough sex forced on me... and I wouldn't put up a fight or say no lol.


    I've had similar fantasies, but I'm the one on top.