I wanna RANT about something!

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    Dec 30, 2011 8:10 PM GMT
    WARNING: THIS IS A RANT!! I DONT NEED ADVICE, I JUST WANT TO BITCH FOR A MINUTE!!!

    Okay, so I came out late last year and all of these gay guys my age are always like, "That is so awesome! Be true to yourself.... but be careful!"

    Here is the typical conversation:

    Guy: Wow! Good for you. But be careful.
    Me: Be careful of what?
    Guy: There are a lot of gay guys out there you cannot trust... just be careful.
    Me: Okay... good advice,... be careful of what?
    Guy: They cant be trusted.
    Me: To do what? How so?
    Guy: Just trust me.
    Me: Just trust you ABOUT WHAT???
    Guy: That gay men cant be trusted. They can hurt you.
    Me; Oh, you mean physically?
    Guy: You seem nice. Just be careful. Some men will try to hurt you.
    ME: HOW???
    Guy: I know what I am talking about.
    Me: I don't know what the fuck you are talking about.... HOW WILL THEY URT ME??? WHAT THE FUCK??
    Guy: I am just saying be careful
    Me: BE CAREFUL OF WHAT???? OF WHAT???
    Guy: Be careful of some gay guys. I am just saying.


    Seriously??? Has there been a seminar on being obtuse and non-specific?? I have completely discounted the advice because all I get are these general, vague warnings...

    My suspicion is that THEY got hurt and they want to "warn" me, but they dont want to admit HOW they got hurt... that it is more about THEIR experience than my experience.

    I dont need advice... I just wanted to rant for a moment.
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    Dec 30, 2011 8:11 PM GMT
    My family did the same thing to me when I came out, there is a social stigma about guys being all evil and shit, hence anyone who dates them must be wary of the evil that guys bring. It is bullcrap.

    Rant away!
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    Dec 30, 2011 8:13 PM GMT
    .....be careful out there icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 30, 2011 8:28 PM GMT
    Claystation said.....be careful out there icon_biggrin.gif


    Yes, because there might possibly one day be a person-like someone who does a thing that is sort of not like a good thing because this person CANNOT BE TRUSTED and I will have a negative reaction of some sort about it that I might regret.

    PHEW!!! I feel better now that I am adequately warned. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Dec 30, 2011 8:30 PM GMT
    That is what they want you to think.
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    Dec 30, 2011 8:32 PM GMT
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    Dec 30, 2011 9:10 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidCouple scenario here:

    You meet/pick-up guy at bar, he may be secretly married, he'll use you for sex then you never see him again.

    You meet/pick-up guy at bar, you'll have sex and when you are not looking he will rip off the money, credit cards, etc. from your wallet.

    You meet/pick-up guy at bar, you seem to get along, he comes over to your place, a few days later your place is robbed and you never see or hear from him again.

    Jeffery Dahmer

    I'm sure there are many, many more scenarios ... but this is true of the straight dating world, too, so don't consider it mutually exclusive of the gay world .... it just seems too happen more often in the gay world.

    You just need to ---> be careful.


    But you know what??? You TOLD me what to look out for! You were like, "Here are some things that I have heard happen/happened to me" and I know what the context of the conversation is...

    I am not upset that someone is giving me advice to be careful... it just always seems so nonspecific and vague... I thank you for giving me the context of your advice!

    Be careful that you aren't scammed/killed by someone! Got it! And it is good advice freely and generously given! Thank you!
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    Dec 30, 2011 9:16 PM GMT
    Alpha_Muscle said
    Claystation said.....be careful out there icon_biggrin.gif


    Yes, because there might possibly one day be a person-like someone who does a thing that is sort of not like a good thing because this person CANNOT BE TRUSTED and I will have a negative reaction of some sort about it that I might regret.

    PHEW!!! I feel better now that I am adequately warned. icon_rolleyes.gif



    .........just make sure you're careful, that's all I'm saying icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 30, 2011 9:17 PM GMT
    Claystation said
    Alpha_Muscle said
    Claystation said.....be careful out there icon_biggrin.gif


    Yes, because there might possibly one day be a person-like someone who does a thing that is sort of not like a good thing because this person CANNOT BE TRUSTED and I will have a negative reaction of some sort about it that I might regret.

    PHEW!!! I feel better now that I am adequately warned. icon_rolleyes.gif



    .........just make sure you're careful, that's all I'm saying icon_biggrin.gif


    Did you click on Alpha's pictures? I think other guys need to be careful from him...
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    Dec 30, 2011 9:22 PM GMT
    I'm just saying he needs to be careful. What if something happens and it's because he wasn't careful? I don't want someone to say "well why weren't you careful. Did someone not warn you?"
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    Dec 30, 2011 9:24 PM GMT
    Claystation saidI'm just saying he needs to be careful. What if something happens and it's because he wasn't careful? I don't want someone to say "well why weren't you careful. Did someone not warn you?"
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    Yea but whats gonna happen is some twink is gonna go up to Alpha and be all like "Hey Alpha, yous hot brah" and Alpha is gonna be like "bitch no one likes twinks" then smash his face in. Then Alpha be going up to Clay and be all like "Should have warned the twink, then that wouldnt have happened bish"

    Then Clay would have the guilt of the twinks broken face on his shoulders the rest of his life.
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    Dec 30, 2011 9:25 PM GMT
    opppsss... icon_redface.gif

    I've said that to novice gays myself. But I was at least a bit more specific, dangers like guys who lie about their HIV/STD status, or who might be hustlers, and shallow guys who think sex is solely for their own selfish pleasure, regardless of the broken hearts they cause, guys who are as sexually promiscuous as tom cats, etc.
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    Dec 30, 2011 9:28 PM GMT
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    Claystation saidI'm just saying he needs to be careful. What if something happens and it's because he wasn't careful? I don't want someone to say "well why weren't you careful. Did someone not warn you?"
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    Yea but whats gonna happen is some twink is gonna go up to Alpha and be all like "Hey Alpha, yous hot brah" and Alpha is gonna be like "bitch no one likes twinks" then smash his face in. Then Alpha be going up to Clay and be all like "Should have warned the twink, then that wouldnt have happened bish"

    Then Clay would have the guilt of the twinks broken face on his shoulders the rest of his life.


    Guilt? Hahahahaha good one.

    Besides he'd come up to me and say "shoulda warned that twink bro."

    And I'll just say, "it's a little late for should'ves bra-wny"

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    Dec 30, 2011 9:30 PM GMT
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    Chainers said
    Claystation saidI'm just saying he needs to be careful. What if something happens and it's because he wasn't careful? I don't want someone to say "well why weren't you careful. Did someone not warn you?"
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    Yea but whats gonna happen is some twink is gonna go up to Alpha and be all like "Hey Alpha, yous hot brah" and Alpha is gonna be like "bitch no one likes twinks" then smash his face in. Then Alpha be going up to Clay and be all like "Should have warned the twink, then that wouldnt have happened bish"

    Then Clay would have the guilt of the twinks broken face on his shoulders the rest of his life.


    Guilt? Hahahahaha good one.

    Besides he'd come up to me and say "shoulda warned that twink bro."

    And I'll just say, "it's a little late for should'ves bra-wny"



    Oh thats right, you have to have a soul to feel guilt :-).

    As for the twink, truth be told, if Alpha smashed one in in front of me I would need a jizz rag for how hot it would be. Nothing pisses me off more than twinks. There is a twink at my gym, he wears fucking ambercrombie to the gym. Really bitch? Who the fuck are you trying to impress, stop being all slutty and work out.

    I hope his porn career dies out soon.
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    Dec 30, 2011 9:33 PM GMT
    I lol'd

    Someone should tell that twink to be careful icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 30, 2011 9:36 PM GMT
    Claystation saidI lol'd

    Someone should tell that twink to be careful icon_biggrin.gif


    I know, I gave him a death stare because I saw him talk to Spencer Reed once...and only once...
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    Dec 30, 2011 9:39 PM GMT
    Here we go again. You'll do anything to bring up Spencer Reed. Blah blah blah Spencer Reed blah blah blah pound town blah blah blah on the pain train.

    Someone needs to tell him to be careful icon_razz.gif

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    Dec 30, 2011 9:41 PM GMT
    Claystation saidHere we go again. You'll do anything to bring up Spencer Reed. Blah blah blah Spencer Reed blah blah blah pound town blah blah blah on the pain train.

    Someone needs to tell him to be careful icon_razz.gif



    Its only because you havent come to visit me Claystation, and you know it. Spencer will get the Axe once you come to SF :-)

    Besides, while you have your group of floozies who flirt with you I have to have a plan B to keep you well behaved :-)
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    Dec 30, 2011 9:43 PM GMT
    Just be careful icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 30, 2011 9:44 PM GMT
    Claystation saidJust be careful icon_biggrin.gif


    Dont worry they hand out condoms on the street here, I alwayz gotz protection!
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    Dec 30, 2011 9:57 PM GMT
    Claystation: Be careful.
    Spencer Reed: Why?
    Claystation: Just sayin..
    Spencer Reed: About what?
    Claystation: I just dont want you to say I didn't warn you.
    Spencer Reed: Be careful of that? (points to Chainers jacking in the corner)
    Claystation: Just. Be. Careful.
    Spencer Reed: Of what??
    Claystation: If you aren't careful something horrible could happen.
    Spencer Reed: LIKE WHAT???

    (Alpha_Muscle comes along and throws him to the ground and rapes him passionately)

    Claystation: You shoulda been carefullllll... told ya sooooooo
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    Dec 30, 2011 10:03 PM GMT
    Alpha_Muscle saidClaystation: Be careful.
    Spencer Reed: Why?
    Claystation: Just sayin..
    Spencer Reed: About what?
    Claystation: I just dont want you to say I didn't warn you.
    Spencer Reed: Be careful of that? (points to Chainers jacking in the corner)
    Claystation: Just. Be. Careful.
    Spencer Reed: Of what??
    Claystation: If you aren't careful something horrible could happen.
    Spencer Reed: LIKE WHAT???

    (Alpha_Muscle comes along and throws him to the ground and rapes him passionately)

    Claystation: You shoulda been carefullllll... told ya sooooooo


    I laughed, all though I think Spencer could wrasstle you down to the ground Alpha.
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    Dec 30, 2011 10:07 PM GMT
    Nice rant! My experience has been that most people, straight or gay, are pretty decent. Never trusting anyone is a recipe for paranoia and loneliness.
    "Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all?"
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    Dec 30, 2011 11:29 PM GMT
    Ugh my mother did that to me. Pissed me the fuck off.
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    Dec 30, 2011 11:49 PM GMT
    You: Hi
    Guy you meet: Hey man! You're awesome! Let's hang out because you are fucking awesome!
    You: icon_biggrin.gif
    Guy you meet: Give me your number, we're gonna be the best of friends from now on and maybe this will develop into something more!

    The next day...

    You: Hi!
    Guy you met yesterday: WTF who are you get lost you fucking loser.
    You: icon_sad.gif!?


    Be careful of that.