gunnerick saidI think there are lots of unspoken assumptions that often get in the way of decent communication both in real life and certainly on networking sites like this. I'd love to find a way past it. Like the assumption that a profile visit or email is either somehow dangerous or a complete waste of time.
Another one is that because the person is under 21, there is no way he has anything to contribute to a relationship.
Or how that person lives because of his profile photos, i.e. dancing in a club and posing half naked in another. One would assume he was a clubber looking to get laid, when it could be that those are the only photos he likes of himself and is actually looking for a serious relationship.
I'm sure there are more but I haven't had my morning coffee yet, so my mind isn't completely awake yet