You are into Asian? then I am not into You.

  • for2violins

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    Dec 31, 2011 4:04 PM GMT
    How can I deal with guys who are saying that 'Oh I like Asian Guys'.
    But you like me 'cause I am Asian? Well, it makes me feel not good.
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    Dec 31, 2011 4:06 PM GMT
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    Dec 31, 2011 4:42 PM GMT
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    Dec 31, 2011 4:49 PM GMT
    ...then there's the guys that say, "Oh I really like big muscled men"

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    Happy New Year, for2violins!
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    Dec 31, 2011 4:53 PM GMT
    I'm not sure if my babelfish is working.

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    By the thread title "You are into Asian? then I am not into You" I'd respond with a little story about a white x-friend who I'd known to be a bit of a bigot but for years I took it simply as a sexual preference as he usually treated everyone with a great deal of respect. I didn't see how deeply his bigotry was ingrained until after years of friendship he told me that he wouldn't have sex with someone if he knew that person ever had sex with a black guy which is when I started seeing him differently.

    But by this:

    for2violins saidHow can I deal with guys who are saying that 'Oh I like Asian Guys'.
    But you like me 'cause I am Asian? Well, it makes me feel not good.


    I'd say that what people used to call courting is now called stalking. And what people used to call an attraction is now called a fetish.

    Many want to be courted but hardly anyone wants to be stalked.
    Most want people to be attracted to them but who wants to be fetishized?
  • for2violins

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    Dec 31, 2011 4:54 PM GMT
    Hi, guys

    Yeah I am new here and thanks Yourname2000 for your comment.

    The title was too strange? :-)
    Sorry if I made any body upset with this title. No offense.

    Being in a western country, some guys treat Asian guys as visa seeker or illegal immigrant. I have some anger in me about that. Of course most of guys I meet are not that kind of person but sometime there are freaks who make me mad.

    I have many caucasian friends who love Asian things and I enjoy being with them.



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    Dec 31, 2011 4:58 PM GMT
    for2violins said...some guys treat Asian guys as visa seeker or illegal immigrant.


    A bigot will will use any excuse to express their inner hate. Just wait until you are old and still Asian and still gay. That ought to be fun.
  • for2violins

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    Dec 31, 2011 5:06 PM GMT
    yeah, I have to grow up and have cure my inner problem, thanks
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    Dec 31, 2011 5:41 PM GMT
    I get where you are coming from OP.

    It's nice to have your racial features adored, but, when one feels like they are being pursued because of this fact above all else, one is likely feel like a conveyor-belt object of another's sexual/cerebral fetish, as opposed to a person.

    Still, one learns to weed those types out, and simply look past the guffaws of the innocents who merely have foot-in-mouth syndrome.icon_cool.gif

  • jackthejock

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    Dec 31, 2011 8:57 PM GMT
    Guy A likes _________ guys, Guy B is ________, Guy A likes Guy B. Guy B gets insecure and makes forum post about it.



    You put Asian or Blond in there and people freak out, put in something more basic like "human" and you can see how absurd these topics are.

    don't think of it as "guy only likes me cause I'm Asian" think of it as "Of all the Asian guys out there he picked me"


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    Dec 31, 2011 9:11 PM GMT
    I like when hot guys say to me, "I like Asian".
    I also like when hot guys say to me, "I like Latin/Hispanic".
    I really like when hot guys say to me, "I like Asians who are also Latin/Hispanic".

    Let the lovemaking loose!