Stand your ground...and write more in your profile.
I'm not into hook ups. I clearly say I'm looking for dates, to go out and do things with a guy. I say that I'm not a fan of meeting for coffee, because it comes across like a job interview. I think you can learn more about a guy through a shared experience when doing something together. then I describe a couple of outings I recently had. It gets the message across and guys of similar feelings respond.
It does have its downside. You start going out with multiple guys that are compatible and you like! Now what!?! And of course, nobody is 100% perfect, so it's not a clear choice. ...
Here's my Scruff profile:
Fitness. Strengthening/conditioning my body. I like to do the usual stuff on a date: dinner, movie, museum. Need someone to go hiking with. Also, country-western dancing. I love to 2-Step. If someone wants to go dancimg sometime, hit me up. I prefer to lead, but I can follow.
Two Queens in an Andy Warhol Exhibit! ... sounds like the name of a play. Just saw the Andy Warhol Shadows exhibit with a most delightful fellow. What a great time we had. Nothing like two gay men in the presence of the sweeping panorama of those Warhol panels in that unique gallery setting!
Recently enjoyed an afternoon seeing the Anglo-Saxon gold artifacts exhibit with a very nice fellow.
I really enjoy going out and doing something with a guy. Just meeting for coffee is like a job interview. I think you can learn about a guy better by having a shared experience.
When alone, reading: History, Linguistics.
PS: anyone who recognizes my Scruff profile, keep it to yourself.