Do you still remember when you lost your virginity and with who you did it with?

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    Jan 01, 2012 6:21 PM GMT
    Well, I remember who I lost it to but after a couple of months we got into a really bad arguement and broke it off! I never saw him again, and that was that. Recently, I saw him a club and we it was the most awkward thing ever! Thou, I did like the sex!!! icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 01, 2012 6:37 PM GMT
    I still got mine icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 01, 2012 6:39 PM GMT
    All I remember is how bad the sex was and him telling me later "I enjoy being too much of a slut to settle down with anyone." Pfft! Men.
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    Jan 01, 2012 8:04 PM GMT
    I remember... it was pretty awful haha. Made me question my (homo)sexuality.
  • Lincsbear

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    Jan 01, 2012 8:05 PM GMT
    Yes.
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    Jan 01, 2012 8:06 PM GMT
    I remember.....it was against my will. Grrr
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    Jan 01, 2012 8:06 PM GMT
    What is defined as loosing your virginity in the gay community?
  • rnch

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    Jan 01, 2012 8:23 PM GMT
    i was a late bloomer icon_wink.gif

    i waited a looonnnnngggg time for the "right" guy to loose my anal virginity to.

    he was passionate, skillfull, patient and attentive to me.

    the first time with him was fan-fukkin-tastic!

    and the second..and the thrid....and the fourth....

    almost 4 years later and we are still together.

    for how long, who knows......
  • FRE0

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    Jan 01, 2012 8:25 PM GMT
    Eyes saidI still got mine icon_smile.gif


    Nothing wrong with that! Keep it until you meet the right guy, preferably one with whom a good LTR is possible. I wish I had.
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    Jan 01, 2012 8:31 PM GMT
    It was 20 years ago with my first everything.
    First kiss, sex with and guy I lived with... and first guy I broke up with in a total raging torrent!

    It was very sweet memory... but horribly anti-climactic.
    I remember being very disappointed thinking... "that's it?? I waited for that?"

    Fortunately it got better (with other people), he and I are still friends, it is a sweet memory, in all of it's boring glory.
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    Jan 01, 2012 8:36 PM GMT
    Can someone answer my question above?
  • DCEric

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    Jan 01, 2012 8:38 PM GMT
    graphicb saidCan someone answer my question above?


    Not sure. I consider when I lost my to be when I penetrated a woman, so I'm not much help.
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    Jan 01, 2012 8:40 PM GMT
    GayLibrarian said
    graphicb saidWhat is defined as loosing your virginity in the gay community?


    Having sex, silly goose.


    Oh, ok, yes I was in early 20's this guy that I will hate for the rest of my life forced his will, may have defined how I feel now. Just wrong what he did icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jan 01, 2012 8:41 PM GMT
    Wow it was with my best friends moms boyfriend. I was 18 and did not have sex again until I was 21 with my Army roommate buddy.
  • masculumpedes

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    Jan 01, 2012 9:00 PM GMT
    I interpret "losing my virginity" as having sexual contact with another guy including mutual masturbation. Yes, we met on October 7th, 1983 and spent the evening together on October 20th, 1983. His initials are T.E.B. we were at his place, dinner, movie, bed.....icon_redface.gif
  • FRE0

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    Jan 01, 2012 9:01 PM GMT
    It would help to define exactly what is meant by loss of virginity. Probably there would not be total agreement.

    Would mutual masturbation to orgasm without touching each other count? What if they have their lips together while doing it?

    What about camming or telephone sex?

    How about briefly stroking another guy or being stroked briefly but not to the point of orgasm?

    If guy A strokes guy B until guy B has an orgasm, have both lost their virginity? Has either lost his virginity, or has only one lost his virginity?

    If two guys stroke each other to the point that both have an orgasm have they lost their virginity?

    Probably there would be agreement that mutual 69 to the point of both having an orgasm would constitute lost of virginity for both, but for some of the above, probably there would be differing opinions.

    This could result in an interesting discussion.
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    Jan 01, 2012 9:26 PM GMT
    I'll interpret "losing my virginity" as losing my cherry as a bottom. I'd already been a top, and of course gave BJs, but never been fucked. Tried a few times but it hurt too much before the guy got more than an inch inside me.

    Then I happened to blow this guy with a really small dick, and I got an idea: ask him to "deflower" me. He agreed, and also to my requirements to use lots of lube, a condom of course, and to instantly stop if I said stop.

    He entered me fairly easily, doggy style, and within seconds I was thrusting back at him as eagerly as he was plowing me. It was really great. Afterwards he said it was impossible that I was a virgin. But it was true, and he fucked me twice more than night in different positions. And on subsequent nights, too.

    I definitely remember it, and the name of the guy, though I've since relocated from there. But he wasn't my last. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 01, 2012 10:57 PM GMT
    I talk to him rarely. That situation is one where my dick got the best of me. I mean what is a guy supposed to do when you wake up from a deep sleep after a boring class to someone such as your male roomate sucking your dick for the first time? icon_confused.gif One does not simply walk in to Mordor.

    Fuck it... I let him lick my dick like a totsie-pop, then fucked him. First time I barebacked too. I was very nieve about sex and sexual health and things of the sort. That made our living situation complicated as you could imagine. Either way it was fun at the time but we are too differnet and I don't ever see us getting closer or going anywhere. I'm okay with that.
  • aj101

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    Jan 01, 2012 11:03 PM GMT
    yes and yes, still keep in touch with him, we are not together but he is a great friend of mine.
  • Buddha

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    Jan 01, 2012 11:09 PM GMT
    I was pretty sure I lost it to this one guy that I cared about. But when I think about it more thoroughly, another guy comes to mind. So I don't remember which one it was, but at least it was one of those two. And one of them I still talk to.
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    Jan 01, 2012 11:10 PM GMT
    yes I remember ..... it was awful, I didn't enjoy at all. The guy was very handsome but at the end it was just disappointing...:'/
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    Jan 01, 2012 11:11 PM GMT
    my first time was the most memorable one for me. it was one of the good ones too! icon_smile.gif we still keep in touch haha
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    Jan 01, 2012 11:12 PM GMT
    Sure it was this morning.
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    Jan 01, 2012 11:18 PM GMT
    I hope everyone can remember their first...
  • John6311

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    Jan 01, 2012 11:49 PM GMT
    I will always remember my first. I was 18 and a Freshman in college. My straight roommate left for the weekend and his brother stopped by. I had met him a few times before and had a feeling he was gay. But he had a girlfriend so I didn't pursue it. Plus I was in the closet and didn't want my roommate to find out. He came over and I knew what he wanted. It was a lot of making out, jacking off and he convinced me to let him fuck me. He was slow but it was still painful. It was a nice start to a lot of college fun! He messed around a few times after that but I think he was scared that if we continued, his brother and girlfriend would find out.