Who should cum first?....

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    Jan 02, 2012 10:56 AM GMT
    ...the top or the bottom?...
  • rnch

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    Jan 02, 2012 2:07 PM GMT
    is there some unwritten gay rule that i am unaware of, that both guys have to "cum" during a sex session?

    how about a compromise...that only one of ya'll has to cum?

    or..how 'bout...that both of ya'll just enjoy being naked with each other and what happens...happens......and what does not.....does not?
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    Jan 02, 2012 4:11 PM GMT
    rnch saidis there some unwritten gay rule that i am unaware of, that both guys have to "cum" during a sex session?

    how about a compromise...that only one of ya'll has to cum?

    or..how 'bout...that both of ya'll just enjoy being naked with each other and what happens...happens......and what does not.....does not?


    I was just having this conversation with a friend the other day....If I don't cum or the person I'm with during sex then there's a feeling of unaccomplishment. Strange....
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    Jan 02, 2012 5:20 PM GMT
    heard the other day from somebody that the bottom should cum first, apparently it's like some unwritten rule....so I thought I'd ask you real jock guys to state wether this statement was fact or fiction...icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 02, 2012 7:52 PM GMT
    If the bottom cums first, he's got to be able to keep going afterwards. Maybe after a brief pause. Nothing more frustrating that a bottom who cums in two minutes and scurries off to the shower icon_mad.gif

    Especially if the "top" was hoping for a flip flop.
  • jackthejock

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    Jan 04, 2012 7:47 AM GMT
    My BF and I both think it is really hot if we're able to come at the same time. But it really isn't something I keep track of or worry about too much, somebody comes then we make out while the other one jacks it.
  • Trepeat

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    Jan 04, 2012 8:22 AM GMT
    I hate cumming first as a bottom, can make the subsequent few minutes a whole lot less fun as you wait for your partner to shoot. I like to try to time it so that we're as close as possible, when possible.
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    Jan 04, 2012 3:22 PM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    deeley1 said...the top or the bottom?...

    Sometimes, as the bottom, if you cum first, you really need your top to "finish up"...things can stop feeling good pretty fast. icon_neutral.gif


    Yeah... icon_sad.gif
  • Rolland

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    Jan 06, 2012 9:54 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    deeley1 said...the top or the bottom?...

    Sometimes, as the bottom, if you cum first, you really need your top to "finish up"...things can stop feeling good pretty fast. icon_neutral.gif


    YES! the top should cum first I agree! XD
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    Jan 21, 2012 9:08 PM GMT
    Rolland said
    yourname2000 said
    deeley1 said...the top or the bottom?...

    Sometimes, as the bottom, if you cum first, you really need your top to "finish up"...things can stop feeling good pretty fast. icon_neutral.gif


    YES! the top should cum first I agree! XD


    agreed. I tend to loose my hornyness if I cum first and sometimes all I want is his dick out. Much better if he blows first
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    Jan 21, 2012 10:54 PM GMT
    both cumming at the same time is better , but as a rule the bot comes first if he jerks himself while getting it