Using the N word during sex

  • ILStroke4U

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    Jan 04, 2012 2:35 AM GMT
    I am black and it often arouses me when a guy (of any race) uses the n word,such as "fuck me nigg-- " or..."give me that nigg-- dick"

    has anyone else ever engaged in this or wanted to?

    if not,how would you react if your partner said that to you/asked you to say it to them?
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    Jan 04, 2012 2:36 AM GMT
    I would be really awkward if disasterpiece told me to give it to him n***** style.

    Probably stop and just stare.
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    Jan 04, 2012 2:39 AM GMT
    that would be interesting!!
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    Jan 04, 2012 2:51 AM GMT
    well I ain't black but down here where I'm from it's used alot. Just the thought of hearing him say " back that ass up, n***a" mmmmmmmm.
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    Jan 04, 2012 3:39 AM GMT
    I never have engaged in this but if the guy I was with wanted me to say the N word during sex, I totally would do it.
  • ozhanSean

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    Jan 04, 2012 4:40 AM GMT
    Interesting...! I would not initiate that though. I want to get my ass F***ked not kicked icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 04, 2012 4:47 AM GMT
    What!?! I'm not sure I'd be able to do that honestly lol.
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    Jan 04, 2012 4:54 AM GMT
    Nope and nope. How would I react, immediately excusing myself from a situation that should never have progressed that far.

    Besides, that word was originally used as a derogatory slur. Liking people to refer to you like that seems to indicate that you have low self esteem. icon_neutral.gif

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    Jan 04, 2012 8:37 AM GMT
    Animus saidNope and nope. How would I react, immediately excusing myself from a situation that should never have progressed that far.

    Besides, that word was originally used as a derogatory slur. Liking people to refer to you like that seems to indicate that you have low self esteem. icon_neutral.gif



    Um, this 100%.
    Dealbreaker.
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    Jan 04, 2012 2:17 PM GMT
    I wouldn't say "give me that nigg-- dick." However, I might be able to say "take this big dick, nigg."
  • Hothouse

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    Jan 04, 2012 2:24 PM GMT
    I would, being GGG if I knew that it turned the guy on.
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    Jan 04, 2012 3:54 PM GMT
    I dont have an OUNCE of P.C. in this body, but even I couldnt manage that one. I was once rockhard and about to go to work on this little bubble butt bottom, until he took my dick in hand and said, "damn....bigger than any nigg--!"

    That was like a being doused in ice cold water. I kicked that idiot out wearing nothing but his boxers. So yea, I dont like hearing it, no way I could say it.
  • aldss

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    Jan 04, 2012 9:15 PM GMT
    my mans black, and I always say it to him, his top and im bottom, and believe me it turns me on and im the one saying it lol.
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    Jan 05, 2012 12:31 AM GMT
    I'm bi and have had a couple of serious LT black girlfriends. In the heat of the moment both of them would say some form of "You my n---ah!"
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    Jan 05, 2012 4:31 PM GMT
    im not sure why this thread is hilarious to me...icon_lol.gif
  • ILStroke4U

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    Apr 01, 2012 8:24 PM GMT
    makes me hard just thinking about it
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    Apr 02, 2012 6:46 PM GMT
    I don't think I'd be able to say it because I don't feel comfortable even saying the word in normal conversation. Besides, just being with a black guy would get me turned on like crazy anyway... no need for a stupid word.
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    Apr 02, 2012 6:52 PM GMT
    Lol I have never heard of this, I think I would feel awkward if that was said during sex.
  • Koaa2

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    Apr 02, 2012 9:52 PM GMT
    I have had Black guys tell me there going to give me there big black dick, of course I oblige immediately.
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    Apr 03, 2012 1:02 AM GMT
    Umm? I've done it a few times icon_rolleyes.gif
  • jackthejock

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    Apr 06, 2012 6:40 AM GMT
    it would depend on the guy. I could do it, but it isn't something I'd suggest or bring up. One of my old BFF's back home was a black guy and when we'd hang out he'd call me nigger all the time, (he'd just do it casually like "Hey, nigger pass me the remote"). He was sort of a cross between ghetto and nerdy haha, super smart, business minded and work but then when we'd hang out outside of work he was all about weed and hittin the clubs LOL with somebody with a personality like his I could see myself saying "yeah, fuck me nigger" but usually no.
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    Apr 06, 2012 6:56 AM GMT
    No.

    That would probably be right up there with a time when in a bondage/discipline some guy wanted me to (role play) being a Nazi guard (offensive to me in its own right as I'm half German and had relatives who fought in the Wehrmacht, but he was not aware of this) to "mistreat" him as I fucked him (he was Jewish).

    A total WTF? moment as well as an instant boner kill. That scene came to an abrupt end.

    Now on the other hand, I've had guys in the moment of lust tell me to "fuck their black ass", and things along that line, but never the N-word.

  • Apr 16, 2012 5:58 AM GMT
    i recently met a black guy online who wanted me to call him the N word. Honestly it was a turn on for me too, and i'm not a racist guy. he was really into it, during our chats. but he never showed up in person. i guess he got what he needed by the messaging. you are not the only one who likes this 'race play' as some call it, by any means. there's a blog on tumblr, i think, that is all about this type of stuff, full of pics of black men being degraded and pics of white supremacists.

    i'm not a therapist and its not my place to analyze any of this, but so much of what turns us guys on comes from our deep seated feelings of shame, submissiveness, and sometimes even self hatred. if we can channel them in positive ways, its better than spending a fortune in a therapist's office! hey, straight people do the humiliation thing too, after all. some of it may be a hunger for masculinity. in our culture, masculinity has become attached to the 'conservative' as opposed to the 'liberal.' For many men, nothing in america says 'real man' more than than the gritty, scruffy, racist redneck. i guess 'nigger' stuff may come from that in part. who knows? as long as you don't hook up with anyone dangerous, like trying to cruise a skinhead bar, i say do it if it makes you feel good. but if there's a point when and if it begins to feel bad, then you may be ready to stop and analyze your feelings.