islanddove saidI am looking for a man in my life..?
and my mind is empty
You're cute, so I think with some looking you'll do well.
However, the idiom, "...my mind is empty" doesn't translate well; to Westerners the phrase suggests, "I have few thoughts in my mind," or "I am not smart."
I suggest the phrase, "I need ideas," followed by a request for dating websites or places to meet men.
Are there nightclubs in your city that are popular with gay men?