I'm a successful financial advisor who inherited money. I'm not that old, but I think I might like to be the sugar daddy to a smoking hot pup or twink.

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    Jan 05, 2012 12:14 AM GMT
    Any ideas how to find a model or hottie looking for some support?
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    Jan 05, 2012 12:16 AM GMT
    Any old gay bar? Roll in, spend conspicuously, and the houseboy twinks will come out of the woodwork.
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    Jan 05, 2012 12:19 AM GMT
    Not the whole house necessarily... but if you see guys you're attracted to, send them drinks. Or depending on the gay bar, see if you can buy your way in to the VIP table or something. Or just be seen buying rounds for a group of friends.

    Or just find a twink you like and see if he wants a Daddy icon_smile.gif
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    Jan 05, 2012 12:22 AM GMT
    Me. ME. ME.

    I'll be your rated PG-13 pup or whatever it is you call me. I just need money for school and my expensive sushi eating habits. You should move to NYC.

    I am also attractive but not for long. Better hurry up and snag me!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 05, 2012 12:25 AM GMT
    doubleyou said
    swimguychicago saidAny ideas how to find a model or hottie looking for some support?


    Do you have any moral values at all?


    Actually, I give copiously to charity.
  • commoncoll

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    Jan 05, 2012 12:34 AM GMT
    Follow Larkin's advice. Date someone significantly younger than you and tell him what you want? Just be careful for yourself, your property, and your safety.

    Also why do you want some indebted to you? What do you want from the relationship? Do you want the power and charm of it and keep him for the rest of his/your life and maybe it may become something more? Or do you not care about retention rates? Do you just want the experience?
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    Jan 05, 2012 12:39 AM GMT
    doubleyou said
    swimguychicago said
    doubleyou said
    swimguychicago saidAny ideas how to find a model or hottie looking for some support?


    Do you have any moral values at all?


    Actually, I give copiously to charity.


    And I give copiously to not giving a fuck how much you give to charities.

    This has nothing to do with money. I question the morals and ethics of someone who would create a topic like this. As old as you are, I would expect more decency and maturity...and a sense of shame that you obviously don't have.

    You really have no need to judge him when you are not directly involved.
  • creature

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    Jan 05, 2012 12:41 AM GMT
    What are your expectations for this relationship?

    Are you strictly looking for a kept man whose commitment to you is only because you supply the financial security? Or do you want the relationship to be formed out of love? I have no idea if the Sugar Daddy/kept man relationship excludes genuine affection.

    One option is to get a professional match maker involved who is familiar with the social circles of Chicago and can introduce you to someone.

    Edited to add:

    If the relationship falters, don't act surprise when you knew from the beginning how it was set up. Just something to keep in mind if you pursue this from an angle where your relationship is merely a power grab, rather than romance.
  • mizu5

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    Jan 05, 2012 12:43 AM GMT
    Either take me, as I'm a broke poor student or go on

    Www.seekingarrangements.com

    A very independently wealthy fiend of nine met a lovely boytoy on ther
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    Jan 05, 2012 12:44 AM GMT
    commoncoll said

    You really have no need to judge him when you are not directly involved.[/quote]

    Thanks. I don't see why what goes on between two consenting adults is anyone else's business. I also fail to see how it's any different than a newly qualified surgeon dating a 21 year old cheerleader.
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    Jan 05, 2012 1:02 AM GMT
    swimguychicago said
    mizu5 saidEither take me, as I'm a broke poor student or go on

    Www.seekingarrangements.com

    A very independently wealthy fiend of nine met a lovely boytoy on ther


    Thanks! Both sound viable.


    Actually, I just registered on the site, but about you...
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    Jan 05, 2012 1:08 AM GMT
    Um... does it have to be sugar or can you invest in college students?
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    Jan 05, 2012 1:09 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    doubleyou said
    swimguychicago said
    doubleyou said
    swimguychicago saidAny ideas how to find a model or hottie looking for some support?

    Church is that way, biatch.

    Exactly how is what SGC is proposing different from a million hetro relationships? Lot's of guys would find that a suitable "trade", and it doesn't preclude real love entering the relationship.


    Thanks to you too!
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    Jan 05, 2012 1:10 AM GMT
    Bullwinklemoos saidUm... does it have to be sugar or can you invest in college students?


    Cute college students work well for me.
  • melloyello

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    Jan 05, 2012 1:11 AM GMT
    I had no idea that sugar daddy/baby relationships were NOT sexually based. There happened to be an MTV True Life on today that was a study on how to be a lazy douche without doing anything to except be pretty (and the 3 on MTV were not that pretty....)

    I would think that if someone were going to pay, its going to be coming out of your a**.
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    Jan 05, 2012 1:19 AM GMT
    Try Rentboy.com
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    Jan 05, 2012 1:20 AM GMT
    i hate sugar daddysssssicon_evil.gif
  • JDean

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    Jan 05, 2012 1:20 AM GMT
    Way to be bold about it. I find sugar daddy's are common in Chicago. Like it's the thing to do.
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    Jan 05, 2012 1:25 AM GMT
    Honestly...paying for college sucks. I can understand why a lot of guys would be willing to do this sort of thing. Maybe not me, but other guys yeah.

    As for wanting someone to be in your debt (a.k.a your little bitch)...somebody has a severe dominance issue and likely will react violently to me saying so because being approached with the reality of your psyche is a horrifying thing to confront. For anyone really.
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    Jan 05, 2012 1:33 AM GMT
    nosnevets saidHonestly...paying for college sucks. I can understand why a lot of guys would be willing to do this sort of thing. Maybe not me, but other guys yeah.

    As for wanting someone to be in your debt (a.k.a your little bitch)...somebody has a severe dominance issue and likely will react violently to me saying so because being approached with the reality of your psyche is a horrifying thing to confront. For anyone really.


    Contrary to your prediction, I won't react violently. First, I'm not a violent person. Second, I'm interested in this type of relationship precisely because I like to be the decision maker or "in control.". Third it's rather difficult to be violent in cyberspace!
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    Jan 05, 2012 1:36 AM GMT
    swimguychicago saidAny ideas how to find a model or hottie looking for some support?


    Hire a service. Used to be a service in New York called Madison Avenue Muscle. Not there any longer. If you circulate, somoene you know will know who to contact.
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    Jan 05, 2012 1:37 AM GMT
    Can this be done via correspondence? I'm poor... AND I have Paypal.
  • LJay

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    Jan 05, 2012 1:40 AM GMT
    By the time you read through all the rules above, I'll bet someone will get the hint and approach. With such a generous offer there is sure to be a gold digger on here somewhere.
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    Jan 05, 2012 1:43 AM GMT
    My advice is not to trust anyone on this site without independent verification. icon_wink.gif

    Honestly, from our past interaction I think that you're a decent, interesting guy. I hate hearing that you'd be willing to bribe someone into a living situation that may not be as fulfilling as you'd like it to be.

    Do you really have a hard time meeting other guys or do you just not have the time / motivation to put into building a relationship?

    One of my friends is a very successful architect in his late-40's who cycles through a lot of twinks. They seem okay at first, but they always turn out disappointing and stressful for him (and occasionally embarrassing). It never stops him from finding another one, though.
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    Jan 05, 2012 1:45 AM GMT
    You know how to manage money but can't manage finding a younger manfriend?