One piece of advice; I noticed when I became MORE verbally aggressive about approaching guys, I was surprised who was paying attention to me. So, don't be afraid to approach guys, I mean what's the WORST that could happen? That he says, thanks but not interested?? So what!! Go for yours man!!
I agree. You can't sit back and wonder why they aren't lining up. It's crazy the number of guys who act like they have no time for you, who will admit to having a crush on you the minute you start talking to them. ( My current bf of 10yrs spent two years afraid to talk to me and I was intimidated also, so we never said hi to each other.)
Anyways, opening yourself up to meet new people, whatever they look like, often gets you invited to a party or dinner where there will be someone you are interested in and they will get the chance to get to know you. I have noticed on here and out and about , that people are too quick to write each other off based only on appearance.
about the worst that can happen....umm , yeah...
A while back, in my twink days, when I lived in Atlanta, I had sort of stalked my perfect idea of a guy... so i stared at him for months, would strategically place myself in his eyes view whenever I saw him out, etc. (yeah... I must have seemed crazy, I realize this now.)
So , I finally got the courage (whiskey variety of course) and stumbled over to him and said "HI"... he yelled at the top of his lungs (not in a speaking voice at all) for me to "get the f*ck away " from him... so yeah, something bad and embarrassing might happen, but it builds character, right?