Nice guys or bad boys, which turns you on?

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    Jun 19, 2008 6:54 PM GMT
    I have always been drawn to a guy with a nice smile, friendly demeanor, and a kind heart. Tough guys turn me off.

    I have a friend who is just the opposite. If a guy looks like he just got out of prison, my friend finds him irresistible. But he has no interest in guys who are clean cut and friendly. I don't get it.

    Which do you prefer, the nice guy or bad boy? What is it about that type that turns you on?
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    Jun 19, 2008 6:56 PM GMT
    Fortunately I have always been attracted to people that are kind, generous, friendly and humane. So-called "tough" guys, no matter how sexy they may be, leave me cold.
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    Jun 19, 2008 7:08 PM GMT
    I've found I need a bit of a challenge. Not a serial-rapist-arsonist-convicted-cat-torturer bad-boy, but not St. Joe-smiley, either.
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    Jun 19, 2008 7:09 PM GMT
    z_squared saidI've found I need a bit of a challenge. Not a serial-rapist-arsonist-convicted-cat-torturer bad-boy, but not Joe-smiley, either.


    You forgot psychopath, sadist and sociopath. icon_razz.gif
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    Jun 19, 2008 7:10 PM GMT
    It's not about being a nice guy or a bad boy. It's about knowing WHEN to be a nice guy and WHEN to be a bad boy.
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    Jun 19, 2008 7:10 PM GMT
    JBE -- Oh, I don't date those, either. I interact with enough on a daily basis here to get my fill. icon_razz.gif
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    Jun 19, 2008 7:17 PM GMT
    Kharlo109 saidIt's not about being a nice guy or a bad boy. It's about knowing WHEN to be a nice guy and WHEN to be a bad boy.

    As in, a gentleman in the street and a freak in the sheets? To paraphrase Ludacris.
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    Jun 19, 2008 7:19 PM GMT
    Global_Citizen said[quote][cite]Kharlo109 said[/cite]It's not about being a nice guy or a bad boy. It's about knowing WHEN to be a nice guy and WHEN to be a bad boy.

    As in, a gentleman in the street and a freak in the sheets? To paraphrase Ludacris.[/quote]

    Precisely icon_biggrin.gif.
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    Jun 19, 2008 7:21 PM GMT
    definatly the teddy bear kind! Tough guys on the outside that are actually teddy bears are the best.
  • Teacherguy

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    Jun 19, 2008 7:21 PM GMT
    i love good boys....if they are nerdy...even bettah!
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    Jun 19, 2008 9:30 PM GMT
    can I get one for day and the other for evenings and weekends?

    PM8
  • Bunjamon

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    Jun 19, 2008 9:36 PM GMT
    Gallant guys!
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    Jun 19, 2008 9:41 PM GMT
    z_squared saidI've found I need a bit of a challenge. Not a serial-rapist-arsonist-convicted-cat-torturer bad-boy, but not St. Joe-smiley, either.


    TOTALLY w/ Z Square on this one!!!

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    Jun 19, 2008 9:55 PM GMT
    NNJfitandbi saidPM8 likes the word "boy."



    Good boy, NNJf&b. ((pat)) ((pat))
  • TallGWMvballe...

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    Jun 19, 2008 9:58 PM GMT
    I have always been only attracted to "nice " people.... those that are nurturing, polite, sensitive, caring, loyal and honest with a kind heart.
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    Jun 19, 2008 11:11 PM GMT
    Give me a nice guy anyday. I dont need arrogant a$$holes in my life.
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    Jun 20, 2008 12:39 AM GMT
    mmmm....bad boys are nice. but only if they're not stinky. I don't like guys who smell like stuff.

    and that is the only right answer...science has proven it:

    http://email.newscientist.com/cgi-bin1/DM/y/eBXgj0MQ8Py0mli0E51k0ET
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    Jun 20, 2008 1:03 AM GMT
    Both are tight up my alley.
    It all depends on the situation and how I'm appoached/ how they present themselves.
  • leaozinho

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    Jun 20, 2008 1:23 AM GMT
    I like this topic.
    I believe myself to be one of the "nice guys"
    2 recent exes agree.
    Bad boys are attractive and sexually powerful but i value intelligence, kindness and generosity.

    For you guys out there who like "nice guys", dont be shy, let me know who you are!

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    Jun 20, 2008 1:40 AM GMT
    leaozinho saidI like this topic.
    Bad boys are attractive and sexually powerful but i value intelligence, kindness and generosity.



    See? There's no reason a guy can't be both. I've met "nice guys" who are intelligent, kind, and generous...but also very sexually powerful and attractive.
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    Jun 20, 2008 1:47 AM GMT
    I'm certainly one of the bad boys... and there isn't anything better than corrupting a little hot preppy boy

    SLASH

    they tend to corrupt me icon_twisted.gif
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    Jun 20, 2008 11:55 AM GMT
    I'd like a bad boy on the outside, a definite nice guy on the inside, please. icon_razz.gif Oh, and no ketchup!

    Bad guys who are through and through certified assholes, no matter how hot, turn me off.

    Mr.Pasted-on-Smileys creep me out too. icon_confused.gif
  • EricPrado

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    Jun 20, 2008 5:55 PM GMT
    nice guys are always better :]
    especially nerds! ha
    love em'
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    Jun 20, 2008 6:01 PM GMT
    I love guys who have a bit of a ruff 'n tumble look to them. But being a nice guy will stand above all.

    Now, give me a guy who looks a bit ruff n tumble but is nice and still a demon in bed, and you have a winning combination!
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    Jun 20, 2008 6:05 PM GMT
    [/quote]As in, a gentleman in the street and a freak in the sheets? To paraphrase Ludacris.[/quote]

    Exactly! Watch out for those quiet boys too. Once behind closed doors, you never know what they're into. icon_twisted.gif