Larkin saidBecause they're insecure and codependent... and they project.
Guys who read deeply into other people's actions are the same guys playing relationship games that you - tada! - have to read deeply in order to interpret.
Don't you think your first claim is a bit too harsh and a bit of a generalization?
I am a secure and confident person but I am definitely one of those analytical types.
Why do you think you're analyzing? What are you hoping to learn?
It seems to me that going out of your way in analyzing someone's actions - basically admitting that they're being untrue or false to your face and expect you to dig something out of them - is a way of feeding codependent behavior, both in them and in you. By reading deeply into someone's behavior to find some secret meaning, one of two things happens. Either 1) you're the crazy girl making things up instead of just asking the guy what he means or 2) he's the crazy girl playing relationship games and demanding you consult star charts to find out what they really, really mean.
The best mode of behavior is always just to say what you mean and mean what you say. If someone does something, take them at face value. If you think they're being duplicitous, just ask them.