lXxAngelusxXl saidIn general do people feel that there should be a maximum age gap between two guys?
I know some guys that won't even consider me because i'm 18 -
and then you say:
Well - I wouldn't look at dating a 40 year old.
I've got one father already.
First, you are just a very young man...and you are entitled to have big swings in emotion, desires, and expectations. That's why you are a big risk for anyone not in your age group. And that element of risk will preclude someone so young for them. Your desire for a person may be strong one day and be out the window the next.
My own view is that the older you get, the less an age difference becomes significant, if there is attraction. Just think about that....if you are attracted, and you get along with a another guy, that means the main components of a sexual relationship are there. Anyone over 30 y.o., generally, has emotionally matured and knows basically what they want sexually and emotionally. Thus, they're a good risk at being consistent and dependable.
But, second, you reveal your own lack of insight, seriously, no insult intended, though it sounds like an insult.
You're bemoaning the fact that older guys have a younger age cutoff....then you make an incredibly catty statement about guys over 40 y.o. Take a look at some of the profiles of guys over 40 here and see if they remind you of your father.